Appreciate setbacks-it gives human beings a second life. Everyone's life will be mottled with its own meaning in the interweaving of time, light and shadow. Whether it is big or small, you know, it contains too much bitterness, which makes people feel hard to breathe. If you don't have the courage to face it, all the hardships carried by setbacks may have been cruelly and proudly crushed by things that imitate reality. It only takes a moment to grow up. When you transcend your cowardice, your life will be more substantial, and you will suddenly find that you can be so strong. However, if there are no setbacks, will you have the courage to go on?
Grateful frustration-it gives human profound philosophical thinking. Who can deny that the great prophet has never been cared for by the god of frustration? At least, on the beach and foam, I saw the pain he endured in his crystal tears. Look, he didn't complain, he didn't feel depressed, he just kept a cool silence, but the unspeakable sadness blossomed in his pen, just like the pain bred the beauty of a pearl in a clam shell. In an instant, when it struggled with the bondage of fate, it poked its head out and lit up the whole world.
Appreciate setbacks-it gives human beings a mature smile. I know that your smile is not a mood, but an attitude. Maybe you can't help shedding emotional tears, but I see you smiling at yourself foolishly and naively. In an instant, time suddenly stopped, like your naive childlike innocence. Maybe, you don't know what growth is, but maybe a person will still cry but have the courage to smile after experiencing setbacks and pains. Is he already swearing to the world that "I am not happy, but I am still making progress?" Tears can't take away persistent pursuit, laughter can't take away real yearning, success or failure, who will judge?
Grateful for setbacks, in time, a quiet road that can only move forward, who carefully picks up the sadness spilled by yesterday's setbacks. However, after stumbling in setbacks yesterday, my feet have been strengthened, and I will definitely reach further places tomorrow. Let's go together with a grateful heart. ...
Prose: Gratitude 2 Life can't be smooth sailing, and all kinds of failures and helplessness need us to face bravely and deal with them with a broad mind. You are grateful for life. If you fall and get up again, life will give you brilliant sunshine. You are ungrateful, complaining and unhappy, and you will probably accomplish nothing in the end. Be grateful when you succeed, and even more grateful when you fail or are unlucky!
Fallen leaves hover in the air, composing a movement of gratitude, which is the gratitude of the tree to the earth that nourishes it. Baiyun floats in the blue sky, drawing pictures of people, which is Baiyun's gratitude to the blue sky that raised it. Because of gratitude, there will be today's colorful society, because of gratitude, there will be sincere friendship, and because of gratitude, we will understand the true meaning of life.
Life in this world can't be smooth sailing, and all kinds of failures and helplessness need us to face bravely and deal with them with a broad mind. You are grateful for life. If you fall and get up again, life will give you brilliant sunshine. You are ungrateful, complaining and unhappy, and you will probably accomplish nothing in the end. Be grateful when you succeed, and even more grateful when you fail or are unlucky!
Perhaps bumpy, let me see the figure of mutual help;
Maybe I failed, and I felt a sincere encouragement;
Perhaps unfortunately, I know how to cherish happiness better.
Life not only gave me setbacks, but also gave me strength, so I had another experience. For those who love life, they are never stingy. It depends on whether you have an inclusive heart to accept the gift of life. Sweet and sour is not the pursuit of life, but it must be the whole of life. Try to feel with a grateful heart, and you will find a different life. Don't lose hope in spring because of the cold in winter. We thank God for giving us the reincarnation of the four seasons. With a grateful heart, you have no complaints, no jealousy, no resentment, and you have a calm and indifferent heart! You will learn to tolerate, accept, pay, be moved and return. You will treat every day, the world, life, friends and difficulties with a smile, and your life will be full of sunshine and happiness!
Prose: Gratitude 3 used to spend the night at a classmate's house, and the relationship was not bad at ordinary times. Obviously, I saw someone in the room from the downstairs window, but no one answered the door when I knocked. Finally, I sat on the sidewalk all night because it was too late to walk. That night, I figured it out a lot. Others have no obligation to help us, let alone treat us well. It's just that he finally faded out of my world, or I had faded out of his world before that. I asked an unknown shopkeeper for a cup of boiled water. When I met someone who was eating, he not only gave me boiled water, but also gave me some tea and asked me if I wanted to eat together. Tears rolled in my eyes, but I refused the boss's kindness. I learned to be kind. I haven't known each other for two days, and I have no money. I bought a big cake and gave me half. I also said that if there is no boiled water, I will just use tap water. Looking at this friend I've only known for two days, I chewed half a cake. At that moment, it was the most delicious food and the most expensive pie in the world. At that moment, I learned to be grateful. Because I accidentally lost my wallet, I called a classmate I hadn't contacted for years and borrowed 1000 yuan. As a result, I took 2000 yuan. I asked why. He said that the poor family had money. I was afraid that the money was not enough. Looking at the money in Cary, I understood what a friend was. After so many years, these memories and fragments have been branded in my mind. No matter which one, it is worthy of my treasure, and it is also a warning that I am constantly changing without losing my nature, reminding me of the meaning of choice, kindness, gratitude and friendship. I think this is the greatest wealth in my life.
I haven't seen the classmate who won't open the door for ten years, but I have seen him online from time to time and left my phone number. Once he asked me why I didn't call him. I smiled and said that I dare not disturb him. He said you were confused and I was afraid to ask you for help. I smiled and said nothing. In fact, I want to say: thank you for letting me know how to choose and what a true friend is. The boss who brought me tea and invited me to have dinner together was gone when I looked for it again. I was silent for a long time in front of his shop. Looking back on that scene, if I can meet you again, I will tell you: thank you for letting me know kindness. You are a bright light in my life; I haven't known each other for two days, but I can give half of my only pie, and I haven't heard from you since we broke up. I tried to find it, but to no avail. Maybe even if I found it, it wouldn't be us at that time, so I will keep it in my heart deeply to appreciate the kindness at that time.
Yesterday, today and tomorrow are always changing our position and the trajectory of life. I don't know when it started. I seem to have lost my way, bumping around like a headless fly and feeling that everything is in a mess. I always feel that there are too many things to do, but I don't know what to do. This vague trance makes me very uneasy. I always feel uneasy all night. I carefully arranged myself to keep quiet. Calm down and write about yourself, thank yourself for your past and present, and from time to time come up with some feelings and thoughts about yourself at that time, only to find that your mood will always be affected by other external factors, but a thousand words will often disappear because of your own distraction, and you have to always declare failure in the middle of writing.
In my spare time, I always look through a lot of fragments that have been written but not finished, and repeatedly ponder and recall the mood at that time, but I can't figure out why I wrote those sources for no reason at that time, and I don't even have any impression, let alone sort out and supplement them. I guess pets spend every day like this, and I hate this state of turning around and forgetting. Yes, my heart is in a mess. I can clearly remember the things, things and people I passed by. I didn't know I was really strong until I experienced them. Those kinds of things are nothing at all, such as emotions, joys and sorrows, joys and sorrows, and ignorance of the world.
Only my own memories of different shades have been deposited in the years. I can't and won't say what I hate. That's my own way, just like wandering outside for many years, but I never dare to complain. Perhaps this is the so-called fate, because even in infancy, I have already started a wandering life, and today's wandering life is just a continuation, and this is my life.
Prose: Gratitude 4 Notes:
Jing Kai Baodi
There is no unfathomable law, and there are millions of disasters.
What I saw and heard today has been supported, and I really want to understand the true meaning of Tathagata.
-(Tang) Wu Zetian
1
Actually, sometimes.
Some wind energy stirs the wings of Xiangyun.
Let the unexpected ethereal entangle your mind.
At this time, in addition to excitement and joy,
Infinite happiness and infinite gratitude will also be reported at that time.
That closeness is incomparable beauty.
The human mind is more enchanting because of its magical attraction.
2
For me,
I am used to looking up.
Entrusted to the rising sun as promised.
Although I also know that my admiration is insignificant.
However, at this moment a familiar voice sounded.
Some signs about mountain peaks.
With the phone ringing, swaying to the depths.
three
Actually, I don't have to see you in person.
Because our hearts have invited past lives in advance.
Every word you write seems to pass through my brain.
Will my mood command the skylight in Bethlehem?
What is this pigeon whistle? What strangeness has it experienced?
Only by so vividly scanning the heaven and earth, the care of heaven and earth.
Let peace become beautiful in the unity of spirit and flesh, flesh and spirit.
four
May's eyes swam through my heart.
The scenery of love is accompanied by flowers.
No cowardly soul can pass through your tunnel.
Mysterious elegance is turning into rags.
Wrapped tightly around a sacred baby
For an eternal agreement
I would like to live in this manger.
five
Shepherd oh, please allow me to hug you.
Your green grass is my happy island of peace of mind forever.
Endless lightning is waving your whip.
Every day around me is like spring.
Beautiful angel, always pray for me with songs.
My world seems to be the outpost of the sun guardian.
Since I am trapped in the prison you love, I must run for your freedom.
Prose: Gratitude 5. With the passage of time, the grateful life has left us many beautiful memories. We have moved from ignorance to maturity, and life has taught us a lot: when I was a teenager, I didn't know how to be sad, my heart was higher than the sky, and life taught me the ups and downs. When we were young, we were full of pride and high spirits. Life has taught us to be calm, guard against arrogance and rashness. When people reach middle age, they hit a wall everywhere and are disheartened. Life teaches us to build up confidence and start over. When I am old, I am stubborn and go my own way. Life has taught us to feel at ease and love the old.
Thanksgiving life, the leader of our life. It leaves wealth and happiness to the wise and pain to the mediocre.
Thanksgiving life is the witness of our emotions. It leaves love with beauty and sweetness, and family members with loved ones.
Although there are many disappointments in life, we should thank life. Life lets us know that family ties are precious, love is sweet, and things have changed. If life is a blank sheet of paper, I can only draw the most beautiful pictures by myself. If life is an oasis, we are a river. With water, the oasis becomes more beautiful.
Grateful life lets us know that the sunshine is always after the storm, and we have never experienced the rainbow we saw after the storm.
Grateful life makes us understand tolerance and care. Know how to have love. Know how to help others. Long live understanding.
Grateful life makes us understand love. Know happiness. Know how to cherish.
Thanksgiving life, it is like a lamp to illuminate our life path, it is like a stove in winter to warm our hearts.
Thanksgiving life, a good life. I wish you all a happy Mid-Autumn Festival.
Prose: Gratitude 6 I often think that if I have free time, I would like to close my eyes slightly and breathe the most authentic breath of nature in the warm sunshine, and that feeling will eventually produce an unspeakable happiness in my heart. I seem to understand the meaning of life that I have spent a long time thinking about, but I am deeply moved by everything in the world.
Some people say that people who know how to think and are good at thinking are mostly people who pay attention to details. They always have their own understanding of subtle details and feel the joy of thinking. I am very grateful to my grandmother for her words and deeds over the years. Grandma is a Christian. I always feel that there is a Christian love in her. I thank fate for being her nephew in my life and learning a lot on the road of loving and being loved.
I began to understand from an early age that it should be a habit to let gratitude enter the soul. People who know how to be grateful have an admirable temperament in their bones and are easy to get close to. Although there are still all kinds of disappointments in this society, some of them are heartbreaking, but the creator always makes this world more beautiful than ugly, and brighter than dark.
Actually, I still have a lot to be thankful for. Although my words are endless, I will always tell myself that I will always have a grateful heart.
We are always looking for happiness. In fact, happiness is all around us. Just like gratitude, it can also make us discover and feel endless happiness.
The long road of life, I hope we can all have a grateful heart and feel the most eternal happiness in the world.
Prose: Gratitude 7 A friend who is a mother, her son is over one year old. Speaking of her darling, happiness is beyond words: once, the little guy took an apple she handed him, stuffed it into his mouth and thoughtfully handed it to his mother's mouth.
Just when my friend was grinning, I didn't want my son to pull the apple back and hide it behind him, showing a face of "teasing you". A friend wrote in her blog:
"At that time, there was sweet saliva in his mouth, and the only small tooth fell out naughtily. Looking at my son's behavior, I inadvertently thought of Laozi's' evil human nature'.
But when my son took the apple from my mouth to my back, I didn't see evil in his innocent face, but I was as satisfied as an adult prank. From the child's contentment, I found the contentment and happiness that my son grew up, was naughty and knew how to make others laugh. I am very grateful to my son. If it weren't for him, how could I realize so much richness and enrichment from my life? "
If this is an effort of parents to raise their children, then the children also give their parents a happy life in return-parents who love their children deeply, who can deny that they have not "stolen" fun from their children?
I remember when my daughter was a child, I gradually got into the bad habit of drinking and smoking too much because of work and entertainment. Even at home, I keep smoking and drinking. In this regard, the wife can do nothing but nag in vain. My daughter is five years old and knows something. She has gradually formed a United front with her mother, and occasionally hides my "baby" where she thinks I can't find it.
Later, when I saw that the effect was not obvious, my daughter simply began to be "rude": whenever I saw a cigarette in my mouth, I would definitely get up without mercy and reach out and drag it away.
What impressed me most was that the birthday present I bought her was a rare bitch "Xixi". When "Xi" is in estrus, he naturally hopes to get a "son-in-law" who is suitable for his family, but none of the handsome boys in the same community let "Xi" really look at it. My daughter was anxious and became a "matchmaker".
One night, my daughter opened my study, blushed and panted, "I finally got your son-in-law back!" " "I looked inside and almost fainted-what a male dog this is! Not only is he not tall and powerful, but he is even a head shorter than "Xixi" and his fur is bald. He is really a mangy dog! I resolutely "wielded a sword with a halberd", punched and kicked, and tried to drive that "smelly boy" out of the house.
The daughter exclaimed: "Dad, stop! Tell me, doesn't love need more respect? I like "hey", so I respect its choice. Can't you respect my choice? "
The child's words made me sigh. In fact, children bring too much to their parents, which is worthy of gratitude, including those seemingly simple truths. Starting today, learn to be grateful to your children. Perhaps, life will be more discovered, better and more touching!
Prose: Gratitude 8 When the sunset shines for the last time,
Light the candle in your heart,
Let's begin to be grateful together and learn to be grateful.
Thank god for giving us fresh life;
Appreciate the sunrise and sunset every day;
Appreciate the moonlight and starlight at night;
Appreciate all the love I have received and given;
Thank strangers for smiling at you;
Thank friends for their blessings;
Appreciate the fresh vitality and passion given to you by nature;
Appreciate the joy that lovely animals bring you;
Be grateful for what you have;
Grateful beggars let themselves know love;
I am grateful to all my friends who have helped me.
Thanks for the laughter in the country where dreams are in full bloom;
Appreciate the feelings brought by beautiful songs and words;
Appreciate every minute.
Midnight is approaching,
But I believe that more people will continue to learn to be grateful.
Because we have so many things to be grateful for,
When the sun rises tomorrow,
Hope gratitude is everywhere.
Longing for a dream to come true!
Prose: Grateful 9 flowers smile and wave to the sun, which is a lovely flower that sincerely thanks the sun; White clouds gently kissed the blue sky, which was the cloud expressing a kind of mind; The bird happily brought a small blade of grass back to its nest, which is the return of love for the bird; The fall of a golden leaf is the unswerving pursuit of returning to the roots of the leaf, so the poem of gratitude flashes in eternal emotion!
Because of this, gratitude is the most beautiful flower in the world, the green leaf of life, the beautiful spring of life, the nourishment of the soul, the sweet singing of life and the colorful light of dreams. The world is warm because of gratitude, the world is gratified because of gratitude, the world is fresh because of gratitude, and the world is wonderful because of gratitude!
Yes, life needs gratitude, soul needs nourishment, society needs reward, and emotion needs to look back and smile.
Home is the cradle of life. When we land, let's cry to soothe our mother's pain in childbirth; When mother hugs us with warm arms and feeds us the last sip of milk, let us paint her hope with a smile; When my mother's long black hair turns white, let's always dial the number at home, let's always go home and see, and enrich the color of Mother's Day with our deep filial piety; When our father is carrying the sun, let us also become an implicit full moon, shining his dreams; When my father's sweat drips into the depths of the four seasons, let us dry all the bitterness for him; When the tattoo on my father's head becomes a river ditch in my hometown, let us carry the sun at home for my hard-working father. Filial piety to parents is the first sunshine of gratitude.
How life needs such sunshine! Then let's plant the seeds of gratitude in our hearts!
"Human beings are great because of gratitude, the world is beautiful because of gratitude, gratitude is the continuation of love, and love is the driving force of all life!"
Is there any reason not to sow gratitude?
Prose: Gratitude 10 Even if you don't pay attention to appearance, it's a subconscious thing to look at your face in the mirror every day when you wash. Today's thinking is a bit boring, and I don't know why I am interested in the mirror on the wall. Why does this mirror reflect itself in it? It comes from association, which reflects whether the original meaning of the word comes from this. I'm complaining that I'm very rare. It's strange that there's nothing to find, but it's ok to discuss it in depth.
I remember when reading novels, there are often descriptions of ancient village girls dressing up on the calm water by the river and pond. Perhaps the most famous scene is Shi's huansha scene. The flowers and plants are as green as a mirror, and the busy Huansha girl is dressing up on the water. The stunning and beautiful face was covered with dark clouds, which made the fish in the stream sink to the bottom in shame. It can be seen that dressing up is human nature, and everyone has a love for beauty. Just look at their appearance "things" is primitive and natural, which is also based on the necessity of local materials. Slowly, the bronze mirror appeared, and you can enjoy it anytime and anywhere. That thing which is rare is dear. This is not the treatment that ordinary people can enjoy, but can only be called the luxury of powerful ladies. History is developing and civilization is expanding. It was not until the glass mercury mirror from the west appeared that it greatly facilitated people's daily needs. This kind of mirror was also a symbol of wealth and status at first, at least for a long time. After watching TV dramas in the war years, many young men and women who love beauty went to the front with small mirrors, and some even gave them as keepsakes to their sweethearts. This was fashionable enough at that time. In the same drama "Little Black Marries", Qin Xiao girl looks at herself in the water while washing clothes by the river, thinking about her sweetheart, Brother Black. The popularity of water surface, bronze mirror, mercury mirror and mirror does not seem far away.
The cups, plates and chopsticks brought with breakfast are nothing more than casual and ordinary. With the agitation of thinking, looking at these objects today can not help but appear magical hallucinations and continuous question marks. Maybe we have used these objects like this since birth, but what kind of scene would it be if we went back to the past? I really don't know whether to eat like an animal, slash and burn, sit on the ground or tear food by hand, whether it is an empty tire of pottery accidentally formed in the wreckage of skyfire, or whether the raw prey is cooked and turned into delicious food. Dying tribal groups make people realize the importance of food hygiene and utensils. The increasingly luxurious living conditions of tribal leaders and slaves have gradually widened the comparability of clothing and living objects, and some objects themselves have evolved into symbols of status and power. The stars have changed, and the light reflected by a small object is too dazzling. Therefore, nothing is a witness to the progress of human civilization.
An object is an inanimate thing in principle, and it may be the carrier of life before it becomes an object. Its origin may be between humble and noble, and its shape is between practical and playful, which is completely determined by people's likes and dislikes. No matter how long it takes, the owner will have an unforgettable collision of love and affection after being in contact with it for a long time, and perhaps it also contains some unforgettable experiences and secrets of the owner. Most of the people's objects are closely related to life. With the changes of life, most of them are replaced by the old ones, but some of them remain as an idea. Not long ago, I visited a friend's house, and his mother had a small scroll in her tight drawer. It's a mahogany wire board, slightly yellow and shiny. The middle is flat and the two ends are carved into peach shapes. Each groove can be wound with wires of different colors, which looks small and lovely. After years of winding, it left a clear trace on the circuit board. My friend's mother said it was something she married in those days, something her mother used. It seems that more than a hundred years of "length of service" is a cinch.
Knowledge tells us that people are advanced animals, and the biggest difference between them and low-level animals is that they can use tools. From the use of knowledge to manufacturing, for the hardships of survival and progress, for the convenience of many practical inventions, an ancient curve has continued to this day. Look at everything around us, except the body given by parents, anything that accompanies life can make us full of awe. People invented it and used it, and a wide range of objects can be touched at will. As long as there is imagination, people can always be satisfied. Whatever people use, no matter how great changes have taken place in technology, we can call it an object. We created it or produced it for people to use, and formed a relationship of dependence and mutual benefit with people. It is the fate of each of us in our life that an object is approached by them because of our emotional changes or long-term injuries. We should cherish them, safeguard them and be grateful to them.