The three of us are a dreamer, a simple and warm family of scholars. They help each other, get together and lose.
Good things in the world are not forced, colorful clouds are easy to disperse, and glass is fragile. No matter how good love is in the world, there will be a day of separation.
After reading this book, I can't calm down for a long time. I remembered what Jiang Yang said: "He is deliberately walking slowly now, let me send them one by one, get together as much as possible, and pull a little dream into the Great Wall of Wan Li!"
This is what Qian Zhongshu said to her in the hospital. He knew that his time was running out. Even though he was ill in hospital, he wanted to do his best to accompany Jiang Yang for an extra trip.
When I imagined this scene, tears came out unconsciously. The most precious emotion in the world is lifelong dependence. The cruelest separation of people's time is No Country for Old Men, keeping a home alone!
In The Three of Us, Jiang Yang recalled his life of acquaintance, love and separation with Qian Zhongshu.
0 1 acquaintance: love is meeting.
1911July 7 17, Jiang Yang was born in a famous intellectual family in Wuxi. Father Yang Yinhang was a famous barrister in the Republic of China. After Jiang Yang was born, her father named her Yang Jikang.
Jiang Yang, who loves reading and is smart, wanted to apply for the Foreign Languages Department of Tsinghua University at the age of 17, but Tsinghua had no place in the south at that time. In desperation, she had to bite the bullet and go to Soochow University.
In the senior year, Soochow University was closed because of the student movement, and Jiang Yang and three other students were admitted to yenching university. However, on the way to school, Jiang Yang fell in love with Tsinghua. She gave up the opportunity to study in yenching university and decided to go to Tsinghua as a temporary student.
Maybe the fate between people is arranged by heaven, and some people have to meet all the time, because he may be the one you were destined to be in your last life. When Jiang Yang, 2 1 year old, was transferred to Tsinghua, it happened that Qian Zhongshu was also in the Chinese Department of Tsinghua University.
1932 In the spring, Jiang Yang met Qian Zhongshu for the first time on the campus of Tsinghua University. Although it was only a quick glance, they didn't have much communication, but they were unforgettable.
Everyone thinks Qian Zhongshu is "stupid", but Jiang Yang thinks his brow is "beautiful". Qian Zhongshu once recalled his first sight of Jiang Yang in his poem: "It is easy to see the bright eyes, and the new petals of a rose are soaked." I don't know if I ate safflower and snowflake when I washed my face before. "
The so-called love at first sight is probably like this. When they met at first sight, they were heartbroken.
Later, Qian Zhongshu wrote to Jiang Yang and asked her to meet him. When we met for the second time, Qian Zhongshu eagerly clarified: "It is rumored that I am engaged. That's not true. Please don't believe it. "
Jiang Yang also took the opportunity to explain: "It is rumored that as many as 72 Confucius disciples are pursuing me. Some people say that Fei Xiaotong is my boyfriend, which is not true."
Two people who never pay attention to rumors can't help but clarify rumors when they meet for the second time, eager to tell each other that they are still single.
Because we can't meet from time to time, we pass books, exchange literature and talk about life.
One to two, the two fell in love.
That year, he was 24 years old and she was 23 years old.
Love: Love is satisfaction.
Once upon a time, horses and chariots were slow, letters were far away, and I could only love one person in my life. As Qian Zhongshu said: "I never thought about getting married before I met her;" I have been married to her for more than ten years, and I have never regretted marrying her! "
According to fairy tales, the prince and princess live a happy life after marriage, but this is not the case in reality. ...
Because Qian Zhongshu was an international student in Tsinghua University, in July 1935, after they got married, Qian Zhongshu planned to study in the UK before graduating from Jiang Yang. However, fearing that her husband can't take care of his life and study abroad alone, she had to follow him all the way, tossing and turning. ...
When they first arrived in England, they lived in Laojin's house, and four meals a day were provided by the landlord, but Qian Zhongshu was not used to western food. Jiang Yang often keeps half of what Qian Zhongshu used to eat in his bowl and tries to make him full.
Later, worried that Qian Zhongshu's nutrition could not keep up, Jiang Yang tried to find a house. In the life after moving, this lady, who has never touched the spring water, started washing and cooking to take on all kinds of housework in order to take care of Qian Zhongshu, so that Qian Zhongshu could study with peace of mind.
Although studying abroad is hard, their lives are interesting. But there is no eternity and no simple happiness in the world. Happiness is always mixed with troubles and worries. But Jiang Yang never complained.
1938, the war broke out. After they returned to China, Qian Zhongshu went to Tsinghua to teach, while Jiang Yang stayed in Shanghai to take care of her daughter and family.
Later, when Shanghai fell, Qian Zhongshu returned to Shanghai, and their life was very difficult. In order to subsidize the daily necessities at home, Jiang Yang wrote a script while making up lessons.
Jiang Yang's "Satisfied" quickly became popular after it was staged in major theaters. Jiang Yang became an instant hit in the literary world, and Qian Zhongshu's name outside became "Mr. Jiang Yang".
Some people say that the so-called matching is not only the family background, but also the same frequency.
Seeing that Jiang Yang became a celebrity, one day Qian Zhongshu said to Jiang Yang, "I want to write a novel. Do you support it? "
Jiang Yang was very happy and encouraged him to start writing at once.
For Jiang Yang, she always supports her husband's decision and believes in his ability.
In order to realize her husband's literary dream, Jiang Yang asked him to reduce teaching time and concentrate on writing. Later, life became tight. In order to save money, Jiang Yang fired the maid, took charge of all the housework, and cut wood for cooking.
The lady turned herself into an all-round housewife. She also learned to calculate carefully. In order to save coal and mud, she thinned the stove, mixed pulverized coal with coal ash and made her own coal cake. All of a sudden, 300 kilograms of pulverized coal became four or five hundred kilograms of briquettes.
Facts have proved that Qian Zhongshu did not disappoint Jiang Yang. 1945, Fortress Besieged was published, which was called a must-read masterpiece at that time.
Qian Zhongshu said in the preface of Fortress Besieged: "This book was written for two years. For two years, I worried about the world and hurt my health, and repeatedly wanted to end it. Thanks to Ms. Jiang Yang's constant urging, she stopped many things for me, saved time, and was able to finish writing at every penny. As usual, this book should be given to her first. "
Qian Zhongshu commented that Jiang Yang was the most virtuous wife and the most talented woman. Without Jiang Yang's fulfillment, her supervision and care, how many years will it take to finish Fortress Besieged? It can be said that Jiang Yang fulfilled Qian Zhongshu's mission and contributed to the publication of Fortress Besieged.
Separation: Love is waiting.
They fell in love at first sight, known each other for 2 years, got married for 63 years, and went through 65 years of ups and downs together, but still didn't have enough love. Affectionate for a long time, but always invincible.
In his later years, Qian Zhongshu suffered from severe asthma. Every time he is sick, he can't lie down and sleep, sometimes he can't even stay in bed, so he can only walk on the ground. At this time, Jiang Yang always lies in bed with his clothes on for several nights.
/kloc-in the winter of 0/975, Jiang Yang and Qian Zhongshu were almost smoked to death by gas. Jiang Yang took sleeping pills and smelled gas when he slept, but he couldn't open his eyes. If Qian Zhongshu hadn't fallen to the ground, the loud noise startled Jiang Yang, and both of them might have been poisoned.
Jiang Yang got up quickly, dressed Qian Zhongshu, put on his hat, wrapped him up, opened the window to get some air, and sat beside him all night for fear that he might catch cold.
Jiang Yang spent most of his life taking care of Qian Zhongshu, caring for him as a baby, and never giving up when life is difficult; Take good care of patients; Willing to be his strong backing and crutch!
When people get old, they can't escape the torture of diseases, and Qian Zhongshu is completely hospitalized. Eighty-four-year-old Jiang Yang stepped on fallen leaves, dragging his own shadow. Trembling slightly between home and hospital every day.
Qian Zhongshu is lying in the hospital and can't go home. When he sees Jiang Yang every day, he always says, "I've been waiting for you for a long time."
In Qian Zhongshu's mind, whenever, no matter what kind of disease he is experiencing, as long as Jiang Yang comes, everything will be fine.
Qian Zhongshu once made an oath to Jiang Yang: "In the future, we will only die." They only loved each other all their lives, but they never left each other. But I can't escape death. Don't.
On the last night of his life, Qian Zhongshu said to him, "Jiang, be good."
Jiang Yang said to Qian Zhongshu, "Don't worry, I am here!"
1at the end of 998, when the leaves of the ancient post road were all over the ground. Qian Zhongshu passed away, just like the withered willow beside this ancient post road, the leaves are rooted for life.
Stepping on the dead leaves of the ancient post road, Jiang Yang walked home alone, ending the rush between home and hospital. From then on, she was the only one left in their family.
Jiang Yang wrote in "The Three of us": "I wish I could turn into a stone, stand on the top of the mountain and look at the boat that I can't see anymore." This is Jiang Yang's life oath to Qian Zhongshu. In the future, she will be like that hard stone, guarding Qian Zhongshu forever.
It turns out that love has nothing to do with wealth, time and distance. It's not even about life and death, but just about your own heart.
Love is not love at first sight when you are young. Love is the kind you are very sure of. When you are 80 years old, no matter in health or disease, you will still hold this person's hand and walk together.
Love is that this person can make you feel hope and warmth under the torture of illness; But whether you are sick or alive, rich or poor, you will never be separated from me.
There is no eternity in the world. But Jiang Yang and Qian Zhongshu only love one person forever!
There is a hand to hold your hand, and there is love to grow old with your son!