The less capable a woman is, the more she can blame a man.

0 1. Women who have no ability to live at home all want to live a good life, but under normal circumstances, once a woman marries a man, she will have no other ideas, but she wants to live a good life with a man wholeheartedly. However, a woman without a skill will blame a man for incompetence when she finds that the situation is not what she imagined. Actually, the family belongs to two people. When you call a man incompetent, it means that you are not that good yourself. If you are excellent, you won't find an incompetent man. Even if you are wrong about someone, if a woman is very capable, you can still live well. Those capable women don't complain that their men are incompetent. On the contrary, the more incompetent women are, the higher the requirements for men are. It is unreasonable to think that men make their lives so miserable. Husband and wife are equal and need to work together to live a good life. You always complain about men like this, and the rest of their confidence may be gone. Can you live a good life? Therefore, when a man is really incompetent, don't always expose his scars. He is very helpless. Being insulted by the closest person in this way will hurt him and degrade himself. It is better to work hard and show a man his skill. In this way, you will have more confidence to scold. Otherwise, you are calling a man incompetent, but he is still responsible for all his food and clothing. How dare you scold a person for incompetence? 02. The society that likes to compare with others has developed to this point today. Many people actually have a good life, but it is normal for people to lack food and clothing. If everyone was satisfied, society would not develop so fast. Besides, money can really improve people's happiness. From this perspective, never being satisfied can keep forging ahead forever. But the problem is that some families are already very good, and men are also very hard and fierce. They may be envious in the eyes of others, but in front of their own women, they always hold their heads up and are constantly complained and abused by women, always feeling that men are incompetent. It's really not a question of men's ability. The point is that such a woman likes to compare with others. Since it is a comparison, of course, I always stare at people who are better off than myself, and I can't compare with people who are not as good as myself. Such people are more popular than others, and the huge psychological gap will make the originally happy family suddenly lose its light. It turns out that there are still people living in villas and driving luxury cars. This is also called life, and I can only be considered alive. This comparison, when you look at men, is purely a loser, where there is any skill? Then you will feel resentful and complain about insulting men's skills. This kind of life is good in itself. It is often from the heart that a woman dislikes men because of comparison, because in her mind, who is not beautiful, does not study well and has a poor family, but marries such a good man and makes her live like a rich woman, and the reason why she is so miserable is only because she marries a loser with no ability. Have you ever thought that people in the past may not be as good as you, but they are better than you in one thing, that is, their lives are better than you. Why can't you think so? What's more, as long as you are willing to keep your eyes on the sky, there will always be prosperous and unreachable scenery for you to see. Compared with others, you can only feel that you are the one with the worst life. So let's face the reality, be content and be considerate of men. He has worked hard, don't be so harsh, and don't scold a man's self-esteem like "incompetence" in front of him. It's really hard to live the same life as your competitors. 03. Angry Some men in real life are really outrageous. They said nothing about eating, drinking, whoring and gambling. They don't take women seriously at all and have no sense of responsibility for their families. But since women marry such men, most of them often bite their eyes and think that at least he is the father of the child, always thinking that men will suddenly find their conscience one day. But as the saying goes, a leopard cannot change his spots. Some men may take some detours when they are young, but they will wake up one day. However, some men may be in a state of ruin all their lives, not knowing convergence and repentance. This kind of person is the kind of person who doesn't want to make progress in his bones. This kind of man is harder to know and harder to work hard than the sky. Just like that unpleasant saying, he wants dogs not to eat shit unless they die. How can a woman talk to such a man calmly? It is light to scold him for incompetence, but it may not be with him at all if it is serious. How can she scold him? Although this kind of woman scolds men, it doesn't matter, but she will still live with men and she will work hard. We don't think this kind of woman is too much, but it will give birth to some regrets about marrying the wrong person. When such a man's woman scolds a man for incompetence, it is entirely a man's problem. It is no wonder that women, on the contrary, men should reflect on their behavior. Women scold you like this just because they are angry. Time to wake up. At this rate, it may be a question whether they can continue. Do you still want women to whisper to you? Just wishful thinking. The less capable a woman is, the more she can blame a man. Only when a woman is not good enough can she blame the reality of men. I believe most women do not agree with this sentence, because human nature is generally like this. It's easy to blame others, but it's harder to find reasons from yourself than to ascend to heaven. But the fact is always the fact, and no one can change it. 1. It is natural for a high-quality man to find a suitable partner. How normal is it for a good man to find a suitable partner? It's like you don't want to find a man with a monthly income of 20 thousand, unless it's really because of love, and you love it deeply, and you can sacrifice everything for it. But such feelings are very rare in real life, what's more, most of them have no good end. After all, the levels are different, and the door is not right. Even if forced together, it is impossible to have a good result later. When a person is good enough and reaches a certain level in thought, talent and all aspects, he will not be attracted by vulgar things. What really attracts him must be an excellent person who can make his eyes shine. It's like most princes are attracted to princesses, but they can't be seduced by a civilian's daughter. In the same way, it is natural that high-quality men are attracted to the right women. This kind of marriage is more stable, which is reasonable both emotionally and realistically. 2, women are not good enough, and men don't want to be low. It's only strange that men don't want to be low when women are not good enough. Many women think that men should not care about women's material conditions, education and even ability, as long as women can have children. What a ridiculous idea this is. People at different levels have different ideas about marriage, while women at the bottom tend to attribute the value of women to childbirth, but in fact, the value of women is far more than that. High-level men don't want to find fertility tools when choosing the other half, because all women will have children and have more money. What they want is someone who can keep pace with them. Women are not good enough to enter the eyes of high-quality men, so all kinds of complaints blame men for their reality and don't want to be low, but why can people be low? Why do men who can touch the white swan have to choose sparrows? It doesn't make any sense. Let's put ourselves in others' shoes. If you can marry Sean Shaw, even Yifeng Li and Yang Yang, do you still value ordinary men in real life? Men have no obligation to help the poor. As for marriage, the common rule is that men marry women, so it has become a normal state that men are strong and women are weak. Even so, there are limits and boundaries. Lions protect swans, which can be regarded as strong men and weak women, but lions and sparrows are not the same kind of people at all. It is irrational to talk about the reality of others by means of moral kidnapping. Men have no obligation to help the poor, because they have gone through hardships to get their present life. Naturally, I don't want to make wedding clothes for others, and I don't even want to find someone to drag down my living standard. The more successful a man is, the more he knows the importance of joining hands, not to mention that only such a good woman can make them tempted. Women complain, it is better to improve themselves. In real life, there are many complaining women. They complain that they can't meet rich men and that their men can't give them a satisfactory life, but they never complain that they are incompetent. This is the most thought-provoking. If you find that your life is unfortunate, please stop complaining, try not to improve yourself and make yourself a truly excellent person. Women are people first, then women. Since you are a human being, you must have the ability to change your own destiny and hold the steering wheel of life tightly in your own hands, instead of always thinking about relying on others and kidnapping others. If you live a sober life, you will be more likely to touch the stars in the sky and enjoy the warmth of the sun. The less capable a woman is, the more she can blame a man. 3. The more incompetent a man is, the more he will have these three characteristics and all kinds of big talk, but he doesn't want to do anything. If a man is bragging about all kinds of things every day, boasting a lot about himself, which is easy to be millions, tens of millions and hundreds of millions, but in real life, this job is boring, he doesn't want to do it, and he can't even earn thousands of dollars, then this man is not a potential stock, but a man who likes to relax, hates work and has no skills at all. A truly capable man is always down-to-earth and never shows off blindly. Only those men who are incapable will always talk big, always fantasize about getting rich overnight, and always rely on bragging to attract others' attention. Be mean to those close to you and be timid outside. A truly capable man should not only be capable, but also know how to respect people. He will respect outsiders and know how to respect his relatives, especially his wife. Not only will he not be mean to his wife, but he will spoil her. And those men who have no ability, he not only has no ability, but also does not know how to respect others. The closer he gets, the less respect he will have. These incompetent men, when he was outside, were completely frost-beaten eggplants and timid, but when they came home, they were completely changed. They throw their weight around people close to them, lose their temper and are very fierce. Always complaining, always blaming this and that. Capable people never complain about anyone. When he encounters a problem, he will bear it silently and then find a way to solve it. Men who have no ability always complain endlessly, even if they encounter a little thing. He always complains about this, that, this and that, as if the whole world is wrong, but in fact he is right. He never knows how to take responsibility, and even needs women to stand up for him in everything. He never knows how to reflect on himself. He always blames others. He lives in his own narrow world and always feels that everyone is sorry for him. The less capable a man is, the more he likes to talk big, the more he loves to lose his temper with people close to him, and the more he keeps complaining about life. Dear, when you meet such a man, you'd better think more about whether to marry him or not. Marrying such a man will not only give you a stable life, but even need you to support him. Not only will he not feel bad for you, but he will often make you angry. Not only will he not give you a healthy living environment, but he will also make you fall into misfortune. You'd better not marry such a man.