When faced with two choices, tossing a coin is always effective, not because it always gives you the right answer, but because you suddenly know what you want it to be the second you throw it in the air.
There are three kinds of people who are my friends: those who love me, those who hate me, and those who are indifferent to me. Those who love me teach me gentleness; People who hate me teach me to be cautious; People who are indifferent to me teach me to stand on my own two feet.
The most stubborn thing is a person's heart. You can convince everyone, but not your own heart.
If you are tired, have a rest. Why are you pushing yourself so hard? Tired, let your heart stop beating, which also takes time to sort out; If you are tired, stop, even if it is patting the dust, to make your mind clean again; If you are tired, stop. This is not a cowardly escape, but a release of self. Stop when you are tired, even if you just look up gently, maybe there will be better scenery.
6. Life is too short to leave us time to wake up with regrets every day. So love those who are kind to you and forget those who don't cherish you.
7. Love and marriage are like picking up shells. Don't choose the biggest and most beautiful, choose what you like best and what suits you best. Besides, don't go to the seaside if you find them.
8. I gave you trust and told you to close your eyes and cover your ears. Even if the whole world says you are wrong, as long as you deny it, I will believe it.
9. I am waiting for you. This is what many boys say when they can't get girls. In fact, they are not waiting for you, but waiting for the next girl to appear. He loved you before she appeared, and he had plenty of time to wait for you. After she appeared, he was tired and stopped loving. Everyone will say something nice, but not everyone will do it.
10, I have been to your world, but it's a pity that I just passed by; You live in my room. In my heart, I hate that I can't get rid of it. I am your passer-by, but you have become a permanent passer-by in my heart ... I can't find a reason to be sad, and I am not qualified to judge you no matter how you treat me.
1 1, I just want to be a gorgeous flower without asking for a name. Neither evil nor fragrant, old and naive. It won't be too lonely to blossom in your own garden, nor will autumn scenery, which is a little bleak. Moonlight is like water, autumn is cool, open to yourself. I don't care whether you appreciate it or not.
12, everyone will be tired, no one can bear all the sadness for you, and people must learn to grow up for a while.
After many years, we have all grown up. After lying, accept the deception, get used to perfunctory, forget the oath and let go of everything.
14, the rich are afraid that others will know that he has money, while the poor are afraid that others will know that he has no money. What a realistic sentence.
15, be grateful in good times and bad, and let yourself contain the world with a soft heart. A soft heart is the strongest.
16, the most boring feeling is not becoming a stranger, but a gradually unfamiliar attitude.
17. Now I don't blame anyone, laugh at anyone and envy anyone. The sun is shining, running in the wind and rain, dreaming your own dreams and going your own way. Everything's fine, really. Everything is fine.
18, the ancestor dharma said, "Don't worry about the future, don't worry about the present." It is also safe to walk and sit; Poverty is also safe, and wealth is also safe; Live up to your mission and watch the flowers bloom before the court; Gains and losses are unintentional, look at the clouds in the sky. This is the real liberation.
19, after the years, I picked up the abundance of my heart, stranded my heart in the dull days, waited for a quiet window with a warm spring heart, and listened to the whispers scattered by the years.
20. Life is like a dandelion. It seems to be free, but it can't help itself. Some things, not care, but care. Just try your best. There are no ifs in life, only consequences and results.
2. What poems describe "Once a good friend is now a stranger"?
1, "Mulan Ci" archaized Cambodian Friends Ci
Qingnalan Rong Ruo
If life is just like the first time, you don't have to draw a fan in the autumn wind. It is easy to change, and it is also easy to change.
Lishan language stops midnight, and the rain bell doesn't complain. More importantly, if you are lucky, you will be more willing than before.
2, "and the king's main book Ji Zhe complained about love poems"
Nanzi xietiao
Ye Ting hired a unique country, and Nagato lost a feast. Talking about weeds when they meet, they spoil sad fans.
Flowers fall and butterflies fall, and the wind curtain enters Shuang Yan. ACTS make spring to take credit, sit and cherish red makeup.
Take care of a lifetime, the past is precious and cheap. So people's hearts are still high, so they can't see people's hearts.
3. Young Beauty Listening to the Rain
river
Teenagers listen to the rain and sing upstairs. The red candle is weak. Listening to the rain on the boat in the prime of life. The river is wide and the clouds are low, and the broken geese are called the west wind.
Now listen to the rain monk Lu. The temple is full of stars. Sorrow and joy are always ruthless. Before the next step, drop by drop until dawn.
4. Mulan
Ouyang xiu in northern song dynasty
I don't know how far you are after leaving, which is bleak and boring. Drifting away, no books, rich water and heavy fish.
In the middle of the night, the wind and bamboo knock on the autumn rhyme, and Chiba hates it. So, if you look for it in a single pillow, the dream is not a lamp, it will burn.
5. Xijiang Moon
Su Shi in Northern Song Dynasty
It's a big dream in the world, how many times is it cool in autumn? At night, the leaves of the wind have sounded in the gallery. Look at your eyebrows and temples.
The wine base is often worried about fewer customers, and the moon is cloudy. Mid-Autumn Festival, alone and * * *, sadly looking at the north.
3. Ancient Poetry with Faded Friendship 1 Farewell to Jingmen Ferry Tang Libai
Sail from Jingmen Ferry, and soon you will be with southerners. At the end of the mountain range and the beginning of the plain, the river winds through the wilderness.
The moon rises like a mirror, and the sea clouds twinkle like palaces. The water brings you the feeling of home and makes your boat travel 300 miles.
2 "Send a friend" Tang Libai
Green mountains are located on the north side of the city wall, and the sparkling water surrounds the east of the city. Here we say goodbye to each other, and you, like losing your father, are floating in the wind and traveling far away.
Floating clouds are like wanderers, like wandering, and the sunset slowly goes down the mountain, which seems to be nostalgic. With a wave of his hand, he will be separated from now on, and his friend on horseback will carry him on a long journey, blowing a long wind, as if reluctant to leave.
3, "Mulan Ci" Qing Na Lan Xing De
If life is just like the first sight, why draw a fan in the autumn wind?
It is easy to change, and it is also easy to change.
4 "Zhuangzi" Warring States Zhuangzi
A gentleman's friendship is as light as water, but a friend's friendship is true.
The appearance is far from the heart, just like passers-by.
5 "Mei Xin Zhu Yun Poetry Collection Ding Hai Collection" Modern Song Yuping
Remember that this night is not a night, and the text is full of emotion and ink.
It is fate to smile under the bodhi tree and meet unintentionally.
Why did the ancients like to use the sunset to describe the weakening of friendship?
Because the "sun" is the sun, when the sun just rises, it is warm and hot at room temperature, and its light is very powerful. At the beginning of friendship, when the sun began to set towards the west, the sunshine and temperature gradually disappeared with time, which means that friendship began to fade.
4. What is the change of passers-by at the end of a sentence? When the gate entered the sea, Xiao Lang became a passer-by.
Refers to the deep house compound of a prominent family, with strict access control, which is difficult for ordinary people to enter and exit. It is a metaphor that old friends are alienated and isolated because of their great disparity in status.
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Poems for handmaids
The prince and grandson followed in their footsteps,
Green beads shed tears and dropped towels.
As soon as Houmen entered the sea,
From then on, Xiao Lang became a passer-by.
At the end of the Tang Dynasty, Fan Gang's Friends of Yunxi recorded that Cui Jiao, a scholar, and one of his aunt's handmaids loved each other at the end of the first year of Tang Chaoyuan. But later, the handmaid was sold to a nobleman. Cui Jiao is full of sadness. One year at the Cold Food Festival, the maid who went out met Cui Jiao and Cui Jiao by chance, and she had mixed feelings. She wrote Poems for Handmaiden: "The prince and grandson followed in their footsteps, and the green pearl wept. As soon as Houmen entered the sea, Xiao Lang was a passerby. " It is not difficult for us to understand the poet's sadness of being deprived of love. Later, after reading this poem, Yu was moved by his infatuation, so he took his maid away and had a beautiful talk for a while.
Xiao Lang was a passer-by as soon as Houmen entered the sea. "Back door" refers to the home of powerful people. "Xiao Lang" is an idiom in poetry, which refers to the man that women love. Here, Cui Jiao refers to himself. These two sentences did not explicitly point the finger at the "Houmen" that caused their separation and isolation, but it seems that women regard themselves as strangers as soon as they enter the Houmen. But with the foreshadowing of the first couplet, it is not difficult to understand the author's real irony. The reason for writing this way is that it conforms to the tone of "To the Maid", which is convenient to express the poet's sad and painful feelings, and can maintain the harmony and consistency of the whole poem style, highlighting its implicit and implied characteristics. The image metaphor of "deep as the sea" in Back Door reveals the poet's deep despair, and the tone expressed by the two related words "once" and "from now on" can touch people's hearts more than straightforward lyricism and arouse readers' resonance.
5. Ancient poems describe passers-by children fishing _ Hu Lingneng
Hearing the voice of passers-by, the child waved, afraid to disturb the fish and dare not respond to passers-by.
Zheng mengzhou's song of recruiting women
There were guests from Liaoyang when they met, and everyone asked the way to Jintou.
Chandy Ridge Map Author: Zhang Yu
Zongzi only goes to see family members, and passers-by come to see the monument.
Listen to Zhang Yu's cicada singing.
I am eager to hate the country, and I want to talk to passers-by.
Livestock Pelican Birds in Zhang Huan, Zhu Fu Author: Yuan Kai
How many people are homesick when they don't see the four seas at war.
Send sick number author: Yu
It's hard to live among hooligans, but it's hard to trust people on the road.
6. That poem can describe a stranger. "Xiao Lang is a passerby from now on" can describe a stranger.
Source:
It comes from a four-line poem "To the Maid" written by Cui Jiao, a poet in the Tang Dynasty.
Meaning:
The whole poem summarizes the tragedy of the robbed poet's lover and reflects the love tragedy caused by the disparity of family status in feudal society. It has profound meaning, implicit expression without explicit expression, resentment without anger, euphemistic twists and turns.
Background:
At the end of the Yuan Dynasty and the beginning of the Yuan Dynasty, the aunt of scholar Cui Jiao had a beautiful handmaid who fell in love with Cui Jiao, but was later sold to a powerful person. Cui Jiao was fascinated by it and longed for it. During a cold meal, the maid occasionally went out to meet Cui Jiao. Cui Jiao wrote this song "To a Maid" with mixed feelings.