Unfortunately, only the parties themselves may know, but parents with a child at home will face this problem in 20 years, which is quite realistic and helpless!
If you are worried that your child will develop in a different place, whether it is a son or a daughter, the biggest worry may be that your child will develop in a different place.
Ji Bolun said: Your child is not your child. They come from you, but they don't belong to you. The poem is beautifully written, and perhaps many parents also have this idea: try not to regard children as their "private property" and try to let them fly.
But in the face of the facts, there are really few parents who can be so free and easy. In the just-concluded TV series Everything is Fine, two sons are abroad, one is based in the United States, and the second is going to Africa to do a project. The responsibility of taking care of the elderly falls on the daughter. If this is a one-child family, how should the elderly handle themselves?
The old aunt has only one son. She told her children from an early age: be closer to your mother in the future, so that she can see you every day, without asking for more success.
My cousin majored in golf in college. I can't find a job in a small town at all. I have been working in a small business in a small town since graduation. I have changed two jobs and I am not satisfied. Now I take care of my baby at home. My aunt and daughter-in-law are teachers. Sometimes we ask auntie: Do you always regret it? Although my cousin is by your side, he is not happy at work.
Menstruation always said: I don't regret it. Failure to find a suitable job is temporary, and it will not be a lifetime without a suitable job. But if I let him travel, it will be difficult for me to keep him around when I am old.
There are many old people who think like aunts. There is a colleague, junior high school and senior high school, all in this city. Colleague said: My mother is my only child. When she applied for college, she didn't let me see other cities at all, let alone let me go out to college. I have never been anywhere by train alone.
Perhaps in our opinion, these parents are selfish and always want to tie their children to themselves, but when you think about it, they are also helpless. After all, China has been a tradition for so many years. Blood is thicker than water, and everyone wants to be old.
If there is only one child at home, will you let the child go to a different place to develop?