Optimism, serenity and openness
Although happiness is an emotional enjoyment, it must be pursued with reason.
Happiness comes at a price. If you want to be happy, you must first hone your patience, pay hardships first, and wait first. We must sow the seeds first, harvest the irrigation slowly, and wait for the fruits of happiness with a rational mood. Don't be impatient with the invisible distant hope buried in the soil. Many people can't wait for real happiness and eat the seeds of happiness. Many people regard seemingly beautiful things as happiness, so they taste the bitter fruit.
If you want to taste the happiness of success, you must first pay the price of diligence and hard work. If you want to taste the happiness of making friends, you must first overcome your selfishness. If you want to taste the happiness of love, you must first learn how not to abuse love and sacrifice yourself. All happiness must be cultivated first, and then it is expected to be harvested.
No matter what kind of study or career you are engaged in, it is best to put aside the idea of success or failure. Treat your knowledge and career as works of art, and only seek to satisfy your ideals and interests. Only in this way can I broaden my horizons and broaden my mind, and all my troubles and tensions will naturally be reduced, but the possibility of success will increase.
When you have a vast world in your heart, you naturally don't want to care about the grievances in the narrow life circle.
Women make life not really disillusioned and become a cold void, so we should have an obsession of deliberately not looking; This is seriousness. In order not to let ourselves fall into the illusion of human suffering, we must be sober enough to quit at any time and be a bystander; This is open-minded.
Courage and confidence.
Everyone is vulnerable sometimes, only to see if he has any way to get himself through this emotional low tide safely. If you are strong enough, you will find that there will always be a tortuous day.
When you think it's not a cold and terrible world outside, you should open the door and go out to see if it's true.
If you have confidence, you won't hesitate about the future. If you have courage, you won't be afraid of future difficulties or dangers.
There should be two lights in everyone's heart, one is the light of hope; One is the light of courage. With these two lamps, we are not afraid of the darkness of the sea and the sinister storms.
A person's life is like walking in the fog; From a distance, it's just a blur, and you can't tell the direction and good or bad luck. However, when you summon up courage, put down your fears and doubts and move forward step by step, you will find that with each step, you can see the next step clearly. "Go, don't stand in the distance!" You can find your direction.
When a dangerous and tense accident happens, it is useless to be nervous and flustered. The most important thing is to be calm and strong. When you are prepared for the worst, there is nothing to be afraid of.
Appreciation of Roland's Prose: Treating others with dignity and detachment
Some people say that it is more difficult to deal with people than to do things. If you just do things, as long as you show your skills and work hard, you won't worry about no results. Communicating with people is not that simple. People are often offended by neglecting the details of getting along with people. Because of the uncoordinated personnel, the work was hindered, so that what could have been successful failed. Or although successful at work, it is not popular.
According to my usual observation, I found that, roughly speaking, there are two kinds of people. One kind of people are versatile and stick to the human body. Every colleague, every relative and every friend remembers happy birthday and Chinese New Year, and lets their children celebrate their birthdays, graduate, win prizes, be admitted to school, and so on. He always takes the lead in socializing, giving gifts and congratulating. Speak more tactfully at ordinary times, and you can't offend people everywhere. You can handle everything when you see what others say.
Supposedly, this kind of person is the least likely to offend people. However, I found that even if he is not a sinner, he must be very bitter and tired. Most of his life is occupied by these details, so that he has no extra strength to take care of what he really should do. And because I don't want to offend people too much, I often feel sad and nervous when someone says that he is not good. It makes him sad to feel that he is so attentive to himself and still can't get the goodwill of others.
At the same time, we find that people are often cruel. For a more comprehensive person, if he is occasionally found to have omissions, the less he will forgive him. Because people will think, take care of everything like him, be so careful and live.
However, this negligence is intentional, so it is unforgivable. It's not easy to be a versatile person!
The other person I met was just so-so. I don't care about anything, go my own way, never care about other people's affairs, let alone their emotions and difficulties. Although this kind of person is more worry-free for himself, he can also concentrate on doing what he should do. However, it is this kind of person who is troubled by personnel. They are so careless that they don't know if they have offended others, and they don't try hard to win others' trust and understanding. Therefore, they will also be blocked and fail.
In my opinion, it's best to keep a little distance from people. In calmness, some sympathy and sincerity should be added. Don't join a small group of personnel disputes, and don't talk about anyone's right or wrong behind their backs. In this way, you can not only avoid falling into the whirlpool of trivial entertainment and idleness, but also preserve your emotional connection with the people around you. Let people believe in your sincerity and understand your detachment. When you do things, it is not easy to meet hostile people to hold you back!