Holding the son's hand and growing old together with him" comes from the "Drumming" chapter in "Beifeng" in the "Book of Songs". The original sentence is "The relationship between life and death is broad, and it is said with the child. Hold your hand and grow old together. ”
This is a typical war article. The poet reveals his deviation from the mainstream consciousness and vents his resistance to war. In the perspective of the true nature of human war, the work calls for the individual The respect for the concrete existence of life and the acquisition of happiness in the details of life are described throughout the article:
Whether we are together or alive, I have sworn to hold your hand and hold it tightly. I will live with you until I grow old.
I sigh that I have been separated from you for a long time, and it is difficult to meet you again. I sigh that the distance is too far, and I cannot fulfill the vow. It's war, whether it's a brutal military campaign or a battle to defend the country, soldiers will face separation from their loved ones. This separation may be short or long, longer than a lifetime. War has a profound impact on a country. Various meanings, for an individual, if we don’t look at the big picture, they are more of the intolerance of “I am traveling south alone”, the worry of “I will not be able to return home”, wandering around without a place to live, The desolation of a soldier losing his war horse. "The bond between life and death is broad, and I am happy with my son. I hold my son's hand and grow old together with my son." "It means that the separation from your lover will become eternal. How can you fulfill the vows you made?
So the original meaning of this sentence is the longing of the soldiers for their lovers and relatives when they face death in the war. and reluctance, but later people borrowed this sentence to express the love between husband and wife, to stay with each other until old age, never to be separated, and to remain together until death.
Now it is translated as "love". It is: Holding your hand in this life, we will always be beautiful, and we will never be separated from you until we grow old. It has been praised by people for thousands of years and has become synonymous with undying love.