It's where will you go, the reunion of dreams. It was heartbreaking!
Wang Fu married Su Shi at the age of sixteen and died at the age of twenty-seven. They have gone through eleven years of ups and downs. Meeting in the best years is happiness; Farewell in the best years is despair. In the face of vicissitudes, Dongpo can laugh it off. In the face of separation from his lover's life and death, Dongpo only has "a lonely grave thousands of miles away and nowhere to talk."
Legend has it that Dongpo planted 30,000 pine seedlings in the "Dwarf Songshan" where Wang Fu was buried, so in the years when Wang Fu left, endless thoughts were rooted in the deep soil like pine trees, and the longer and deeper.
Getting such care in a man's dream is an unreachable dream for us ordinary women.
There is only one love in a person's life.
This kind of love, "Once the sea is difficult for water, it will always be amber", just like He Zi, Lin Bumei's wife, will never get married; Wei, who has been widowed since he was thirty. There is also Yang Guo in The Condor Heroes, who is infatuated with the little dragon girl, confused with the beautiful women around her, and refuses the true feelings of women such as Guo Xiang.
Let the person I love stay in my heart day and night.
But life is really not like this.
Wang Fu is dead. What about the three children? Life goes on. Su Dongpo must have considered the reality, and then made a very pragmatic choice: he married his dead wife's sister, Wang Runzhi. Compared with girls in ordinary families, my sister will certainly show more pity and care for the children of her late sister.
Compared with Wang Fu's love, Su Dongpo and his second wife, Wang Runzhi, have less hops in piano, chess, calligraphy, painting and poetry, and more rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea. Their love is full of fireworks.
Wang Runzhi is a very virtuous wife. He followed Su Dongpo for twenty-five years. During these twenty-five years, Dongpo rose and fell, and she followed him with joy or sadness. She treats her sister's children better than her own flesh and blood. During the wandering years in Danzhou, Huizhou, Huangzhou, she waited for him silently, cared about his life and was heartbroken for his lonely struggle.
In Houchi Fu Bi, Su Dongpo was hanging out with friends on that bright moon night. He was so excited that he wanted to drink and went home to discuss with his wife what to do. Wang Runzhi told him, "I had a beer fight, and I hid it for a long time for a rainy day." . What a good "just in case" to keep each other's preferences in mind, when you need it, I will give you a surprise, and I am also happy to see each other satisfied.
Unfortunately, Wang Runzhi did not understand the value of Dongpo's poems. Dongpo was arrested for writing five poems, and Wang Runzhi scolded him:
When I look for it again in the future, it will be gone in seven or eight cases.
If two people in marriage can't stand on the same level, they will feel familiar strangers. However, the daily necessities of marriage and childbearing can also sharpen love into affection and melt it in the blood.
After twenty-five years with Dongpo, Wang Runzhi also passed away. For this wife, Su Dongpo thanked her for her no regrets in the ups and downs of her career, and made an oath of "living as a roommate and dying as the same hole".
Don't underestimate the weight of this oath. When a person has several wives, who to bury with is really a difficult problem.
Zhang Xueliang's two wives gave him this problem. Yu Fengzhi and Zhao Yidi both left a piece of land in front of the tomb, and Zhang Xueliang finally chose to be buried with Miss Zhao Si. Su Dongpo's three wives are all ahead of him, and he chose Wang Runzhi, who has been with him for the longest time in his life, which is enough to show Su Shi's gratitude to Wang Runzhi.
After Dongpo came back from Hainan and died of illness, his younger brother Su Zhe helped him realize his old oath.
Generally speaking, when Wang Runzhi died, Dongpo was in his fifties. After going through ups and downs, a person wants to find someone who can talk to him. At this point, accompanied by his side is Shi concubine.
Wang Chaoyun, the servant girl of Dongpo's family, came to Sue's home at the age of twelve, and Dongpo personally taught him calligraphy and painting. Chaoyun's talent is extremely high, with expert guidance, and it has its own fairy spirit and spirituality. Dongpo called her "Tiannv" with appreciation.
Su Shi once laughed at his friend Zhang Xian for marrying a concubine of 18 years old at the age of 80. This allusion once made me very happy. Please have a look-
First, Zhang Xian's poems:
Su Dongpo quipped:
This "a pear tree hits a begonia" is also unique! So is Zhang Xian, and so is Dongpo himself?
An old man with few wives added fragrance to tea. What is rare is that this tea is also a confidante. When Dongpo smiled and asked, "Guess what's in my stomach?" At that time, some people around said it was knowledge, while others said it was talent. Only when they smile at the cloud, do they gently respond: "Sir is out of place." Dongpo said with a smile, "He who knows me has a cloud on his face."
Therefore, when Chaoyun unfortunately left Huizhou, Dongpo wrote sadly: "Out of date, only Chaoyun can know me;" Talking about ancient songs alone, I miss you every time it rains. "
After going to Chaoyun, Su Dongpo wrote a song "Mourning Chaoyun" to express his feelings of missing, and he has been widowed and unmarried. Among the poems written by Dongpo to his wife, the most was given to Chaoyun. "High sentiment has faded, and pear blossoms do not dream." People who are as otherworldly as fairies are like colorful clouds!
Three wives and three feelings, Dongpo's life is worth three lives of others.
After all, which one does he love more?
For his first wife, he can plant 30,000 pine seedlings after her death. He can write down Jiang's dream with tears and order people to read it.
For his second wife, he used "death is the same point" to explain the weight of this feeling.
For his third wife, he expressed his lifelong understanding and homesickness with poetry.
It's really hard to say In A Dream of Red Mansions, the lotus root official first fell in love with Guan Ai, and he was crazy. After Guan died, she was gentle and considerate to Rui Guan and said something like this:
The player's knowledge is the same.
In real life, where are so many "if she doesn't marry or if he doesn't marry?" Stick to a relationship, just stick to your persistent self in this relationship. But shouldn't life go on after a relationship?
Accordingly, it is possible that Baoyu married Xiangyun or Baochai after Lin Daiyu's death. After all, what keeps life going is not necessarily the love between life and death, but the warmth of each other.
New love and old love can be Zhu Shazhi in my heart. Su Dongpo explained it to us with his whole life's emotion.