Marriage is like a door, made of glass, with a clean and transparent appearance and a sensitive and fragile texture. From the outside, marriage is dazzling, bright, colorful and dazzling; I sincerely look forward to the moment when the door opens; Looking at marriage from the crack of the door, you can see it at a glance, and you can really feel the dullness.
Two people in a marriage look at each other like two mirrors, clearly reflecting your emotions, and their advantages and disadvantages are exposed in an unobstructed view. When you are happy, you can see from your eyes how you feel about the spring breeze; When you are depressed, you can read your locked melancholy from your brow. In marriage, two people who really love each other do not need to hide, tell each other directly, and make deliberate guesses. When they looked up and frowned, they showed their true colors. All external and internal subtle ups and downs will be closely related, and they will get news. Marriage, there is no need to wipe the background color, whitewash the appearance, otherwise it will only be shattered glass.
Love in marriage, over time, is like a flower in the mountains that no one watches, quietly opening and quietly revealing fragrance. This kind of love is more like a kind of affection, a kind of interdependence, and the tacit understanding is natural. It doesn't need emotional diarrhea, but it slowly seeps into the heart and spleen like a warm current. Maybe there is no passion and impulse of love, but there is warmth and thickness of love. Passion is followed by fatigue, and warmth is followed by long-term touching.
Love is not far away in marriage, just like a cup of tea. It is in your hand, within reach, but you are tired and can't lift your arms. Your lover inadvertently handed it over. It seems to be a simple and natural gesture, but it contains warm care. There are no ups and downs in life, no sweet words to please, only silent care and support around, which is also the true meaning and realm of love in marriage.
The door of marriage sometimes rotates, just like the revolving door of a company. When it is lightly rubbed and collided, it will keep spinning. The entrance and exit of marriage go round and round, changing the notes of life, but eventually they will stop swinging and return to the original point. Careful thinking in marriage adds a lot of fun to marriage, but remember, even if you have any skillful acting skills, the performance is ridiculous and clumsy. Occasionally, I want to hide some private money, find some friends to have a small meal and drink a few glasses of wine; Or playing mahjong with friends, men will play some tricks, make up excuses, and trick their lovers, but you will be seen through by the other person from your angry or depressed expression. She sometimes secretly laughs at your naivety, sometimes disagrees with you, gets angry and complains, and even escalates to anger and the cold war. But when you spend tens of dollars to buy her a lipstick or a silk scarf, in a flash, she will smile through tears and prepare a delicious meal for you. These lovely, funny, small beats are like harmonious variations in marriage, warm and interesting.
If it is a door, it will inevitably be contaminated with dust; If it's a door, it's possible to fly in, and so is marriage. Misunderstandings and disputes occur from time to time in marriage, the workplace is not smooth, life is tight, ideas change, and external temptations induce some disharmonious and unclean factors. It is necessary for people with a heart to slowly wipe away the polluted stains and restore the simple and transparent door of marriage. If you want to commit a crime, it is an unforgivable marriage. Maybe you think you are smart, smart, then you are all wet. You didn't expect her to notice your abnormality from your fake natural expression or a little guilty behavior. At this time, women's intuition is particularly accurate and their IQ is extremely high. Don't make such small moves, they only get what they deserve when they have an affair. A woman's intuition tells her that this is a principle that can never be forgiven. It is a fly that will never be swallowed up by disgust. In the love of marriage, betraying you is not allowed, even mentally, and it is unforgivable. Love is pure and sacred, and the key to the heart is firmly in your own hands, and outsiders are not allowed to open and intervene. This is her heart and her emotional bottom line. There is no room for manoeuvre. It's like a rusty broken key spring. No matter how you oil it and twist it, it is not difficult to open it. Even if it does, it won't last long. Once the heart door is closed, it is difficult to get in!
Long-term marriage, slowly stepping into old age, is like a fence door, blocking the scenery outside, even the beautiful scenery is like a passing cloud, floating away. One evening, thousands of miles away, ups and downs. The distance between heart and heart is unstoppable. Even without romantic feelings and poetic lingering, there is real happiness and romance in marriage.
On the weekend of two people, close the door and cook a delicious meal together in the kitchen, listening to the "banging" of pots and pans, just like a variation; Or watch a short and pithy broken TV series at my parents' house, as if I were in it, and go back in time, repeating the ups and downs of life, causing repeated nostalgia and endless regrets. Or after dinner, open the door, take the children to the park to watch dancing, listen to music, take a walk, think about tomorrow, nag about children's study, the health of the elderly, and the recent situation of friends together. Such a day, just like a cup of warm water, won't be scalding, won't make waves, just hold the bottom of the cup and feel the warm temperature. Sometimes, perhaps when the water overflows, it will involuntarily flow out, losing its instantaneous balance on the scaffold of marriage, just like the friction of life, and slowly returning to calm after an instantaneous shaking.
In marriage, there is a door between heart and heart. When you open your heart, you are one step closer to the other. There is a lock between your heart doors. When you close the door, you lock yourself, your lover, your trust and understanding, your warm love and warmth!