Chapter 1: More space, less attention.
Only after the baptism of the wind and snow can plum blossom stand proudly on the branches, emitting a pleasant fragrance.
Only when pearls are honed by mussels can they create tearful pearls and shine brilliantly.
Only when Haiyan is bathed in the storm can it flap its wings in the blue sky and release the wonderful life.
Everything in nature should learn to accept challenges, meet setbacks and make life more attractive. Then, as the soul of all things, human beings do not need to give the younger generation more opportunities for exercise and self-improvement, so that they can have more self-space and less external attention and love.
As the hope of the motherland, the younger generation really needs proper care and love, but it is more important to give them more room for growth and less excessive attention, so that they can develop healthily in the process of care and self-improvement. This is more conducive to the growth and development of children.
As parents, we must have the right methods to educate and take care of our children. Let children be cared for, not spoiled; It is necessary to cultivate the quality of self-reliance and self-improvement in children. Former South African President nelson mandela lived in prison for decades, during which he was unable to accompany and take good care of his daughter. But he insisted on keeping in touch with his daughter by letter, not only caring about her growth warmly, but also constantly teaching her how to learn to be self-reliant and self-reliant, and finally her daughter became an excellent reporter. Imagine the lack of education for your daughter, maybe it will be another result! Many facts have confirmed a truth: only moderate care and proper education methods can guide children to grow up healthily.
On the contrary, what happens if parents give their children everything they want? Isn't the recent "idolization of Yang Lijuan" worth pondering? Her father is obedient to her. In order to satisfy her daughter's wish, she finally sacrificed her life to satisfy her daughter's idolization. Doesn't this also reflect the phenomenon of doting on children and paying too much attention to them in society? If you just spoil your child blindly and lack the correct educational methods, it will only hurt your child's growth and hinder your child's healthy growth path. So there must be a lot of room for growth and less attention.
As a society and a school, children should be given more opportunities for self-growth and self-reliance, so that they can develop and grow healthily and perfectly.
The eagle will fight in the sky and be baptized by the storm.
If you are a dragon, you should stay in the deep water and realize the spirituality of life.
If you are a tiger, you should jump in the jungle to show the high spirits of life.
Then please give your children more space and pay less attention to them!
Chapter 2: Learn to let go.
A complete song always has a bass response, a complete poem always has an affair, and a complete life always has a trough, so things are always imperfect. Don't pray for smooth sailing in life, because that life is too monotonous. When we fall down on the road like a pothole in life, please learn to let go, let me stand up and learn to be strong.
Once upon a time, you liked me so much, loved me, relied on me, praised me and made me. Like a star holding the moon, you have radiated my light many times. In fact, I am just a dim star. Your arrogance makes me unable to see myself clearly, make me unable to estimate my own value, and make me lose myself on the road of life.
I know what you are afraid of. You have dedicated your life to me in the hope that I can have a beautiful life. You don't want me to be sad, I am sad, and you always try your best to make my life smooth. You always try your best to keep me from falling down on the road of life and go all the way to the end of life.
But, have you thought about your future life? I can live a chic and happy life in your lifetime, but after a hundred years, I know nothing like a newborn baby. How should I spend the rest of my life? So, when I fall, please don't panic or extend your hand, let me stand up and learn to be strong.
Please learn to let go, just like mother eagle. The eagle wants to spread its wings above the blue sky, so the eagle mother lets her children learn to fly and survive from an early age. Because the road of life is very long, you can't completely accompany me through this long and arduous journey of life. So when we are young, let's learn to be independent, handle our own affairs in our own way, and solve our own problems with our own wisdom.
Please learn to let go, just like mother dandelion. Dandelion seeds have their own wings. Dandelion mothers will not leave their children around, but let them drift with the wind to find a world that suits them, and then take root and grow sturdily there. Therefore, you should let us find our own sky instead of following the road you arranged for us. We are not bonsai, we don't need careful design and layout, we all have our own thoughts. If you really miss us, please learn to let go. In order to let us have a complete life, please learn to let go and let us spread our wings and fly!
Chapter 3: Please put down your hand.
If I am a kite, if I fly in the blue sky, please don't hold your hand tightly, don't hold the thread that connects you and my heart tightly, let go a little gently and appropriately, and I can fly higher and further.
If I am a grass, if you see me struggling in the wind and rain, please don't use your loving hands to stop the wind and rain from hitting me. Letting go of your hand means that my life will be tested again and become strong because of it.
If I am a clear spring, if I want to flow out of a mountain stream, please don't worry that I will be dirty by mud. Let go of your gentle hand and let me follow your fingertips. Let go of your hand, let me send a mouthful of fresh food to the hungry deer, and let me take away a dream for the fish that swam by. When I flow to the sea, I will see beautiful shells and gentle dolphins.
Let go of your hands and make my life stronger; Let go of your hand and make my life more energetic.
Please don't worry that I will fall, please don't hold me tightly on the bumpy road, let go! I'll go by myself. You gave me eyes and feet, you gave me life. What else do I need? I need the anxiety of sunshine, the wind and rain, and the threat of lightning, not your trembling, loving and gentle hands. Let me go. Turn your loving hands into your blessing words and approving eyes, and let me fly freely in the world you love. If you can't do this, it doesn't matter, just let go of your hands.
Don't be afraid of sunshine burning flowers, don't be afraid of wind and rain attacking saplings, and don't wrap me tightly with your love. Sunshine will bring me nutrition, wind and rain will give me strength, and your love will only stop me from growing up. ┅┅
When a snowflake falls, don't wrap it tightly with your hands, otherwise it will turn into a tear, and there is a free world outside your hands. When I was born, please don't surround me with love, otherwise, I will only become a pile of thoughtless meat, and besides your love, it is the battlefield where I gallop.
My own business When I fall, please let go of your hand and let me get up by myself. Don't worry that I will fall, because that will only make my steps more stable and my body stronger.
Only by sowing seeds can we get dreams; Let go of your hands and be a giant.
Let go of your hand Don't let me be your tears. Your love opens your hands and flies, so I can grow better!
Please let go of your hand!