What do I want to say to myself at the age of 27?
A person quietly leaned on the pure cotton quilt sent by my mother from her hometown in Hubei, recalling what my parents said to me when I went out, and recalling every unpleasant conversation with my brother, I was lost in thought.
I wonder why I lost my temper when I talked to my parents in the past. My parents always laughed it off and were tolerant enough. At the same time, I say a word, you will understand when you get married and have children.
I wonder why I had an unpleasant conversation with my brother in the past. My brother would take pains to smoke one cigarette after another and try to tell me patiently why. At the same time, I will say that you are still too young, and you will understand when you experience it.
Why do you lose your temper? Why are you unhappy? Cheng Jia said that many of us make decisions based on experience. Then, can I understand that my decision based on my own experience leads me to be an elder and think too little when communicating with my brother? Because I don't understand, I don't understand, so I am stubborn, which leads to bad temper and unhappiness.
My evaluation of myself at the age of 27.
Just because I was stupid at first, because I didn't listen to my family and took many detours. In these 27 years, I rarely stopped to think seriously. Actually, I don't want to be so sad. Actually, I don't want to waste it. I live alone and don't want to tell anyone. Alcohol and tobacco are what I am now.
I have a role model around me, and this role model is my brother. Recently, I have chatted with my brother a lot more than before, and there are fewer and fewer unpleasant situations. I will think about it for a long time. I was born like my parents, but my brain is different. Why is there such a big difference?
After chatting, I realized that it lies in the way of thinking. In the process of chatting with his brother, he repeatedly mentioned the way of thinking, the underlying principle and the underlying logic. As Cheng Jia said, the most powerful decision-making basis is based on the underlying principles, not experience. So I can't overturn many of my brother's things, I can only take them orally.
My thoughts after I was 27.
When I stop to think deeply, I think I will be different from what I am now. I will not repeat my own mistakes or torture my brother, because if I go on like this, my parents will feel the worst. I will learn to enjoy my life alone, with my brother, with my parents and with my friends!