Buddha's view of love is the same as yours. How beautiful!
Respecting the old and loving the young is the greatest compassion. When you help the blind to cross the road, when you hold every bite of food with chopsticks with endless gratitude to nature, when you are bathed in happy sunshine, when you look at everything in the world with kindness, even if you are crying, sad and worried, you are anxious about the world, worrying about the world, calmly experiencing all kinds of tastes in spring, summer, autumn and winter, and carefully experiencing the pain caused by thorns piercing the flesh. All these require you to have a great sense of normality to look at everything in the world.
The idea of being distracted is not terrible. The terrible thing is that you don't know why they were born. When every distracting thought comes out, think about where they come from and why they think so. Over time, you will gain insight into your heart. Gradually, you will start thinking at the ideological level. What needs to be mentioned here is, don't be blinded by what is in front of you, always remind yourself to consider long-term and broad things, always look at your conversation with God's eyes when talking to others, then answer their questions and tell them your thoughts.
I have read books about the universe and truth myself, such as The Book of Changes, The Tao Te Ching, A Brief History of Time, Hawking's Universe, and Cosmic Holographic Self-discipline, but I don't know if it will work for you at this stage. I suggest you pay more attention to China's traditional philosophy of thinking.
I just saw "Five Elements" on Baidu Know a few days ago, which is very good and can correct our previous misunderstanding:/view/4292.htm.
There are many things about the essence of China's traditional philosophy. If you can recognize these, it will be of great help to you and will be useful for life!
Without me, there is no wisdom. I suggest you look at the wisdom about "no place to live":
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