Are you a talkative person or not?
As for me, I should be quiet. Although depending on the situation, opponents sometimes become eloquent, but it is usually a mystery. I dare not explain in detail, and try not to do such a thing.
Answering the phone is a pain, and talking to others at the party is also a weakness. Answering interviews also exhausted me, even replying to emails. Let me talk and communicate with others, and I will refuse them all.
If I am ordered to shut up, I can shut up forever without feeling any pain. Reading, listening to music and going out to play with cats alone, a week passed quickly. When I was in college, I lived a single life and sometimes I didn't say a word to anyone for half a month.
However, even my taciturn life has its exceptions. From the age of 24 to 32, for seven and a half years, I made a living in the service industry. Because I didn't want to work in the company, I borrowed money, opened a shop, played jazz records and held live concerts.
The guest came and said with a smile, "Welcome!" Chatting with regular customers. Although I feel "as if I can't do this kind of work", I think it's for my life, er, so I have to deal with it with my life. When you meet a talkative and boring opponent (there are many such people), you can also sit patiently and chat with him kindly. Looking back now, I was so amiable during that time that I couldn't help admiring myself.
However, many years later, when I met my acquaintances again, I was often told: "Chun Shujun ignored people a long time ago and didn't talk much." I can't help but feel lost, thinking: hello! I try my best to be kind to others. If I knew this, I would let nature take its course from the beginning.
But I did try to be kind to others in my own way, and this feeling is still firmly in my heart. Although it didn't seem to work at that time, I feel that it is the memory of that relationship that firmly supports me now. It's like a social training. I'm afraid there will be a time in your life when you need to use muscles that are rarely used at ordinary times, even if this effort is fruitless.
People who don't like to talk, please live hard. I also support you silently behind your back.