0 1.INFP needs a lot of time alone.
INFP and INTP are the two people who need to be alone most, because there are four functional groups. Don't disturb them when they are alone, give them more space and patience. If you are an extrovert like me, you are likely to be annoyed by their needs. But remember, when INFP is alone, he will cherish this relationship more. In this case, distance does bring the heart closer.
Accept the unique and different side of INFP: Sometimes you may not understand their madness, but it doesn't matter. As long as you approach them with love and accept them, you will probably get a surprise in the end.
02. Learn how to talk to INFP.
Don't let them do anything. Although they are introverted, they are also a group of logical people (Fi judgment function is a rational function). Although they don't necessarily use logic when making decisions, they are willing to accept clear ideas or models. All you have to do is show them.
You must be someone who can attract their attention: an independent person with different tastes from the public. INFP likes studying people very much. Not only that, they especially like people who go upstream and don't go with the flow. If you are a difficult person with a hard shell, it is even more attractive! If INFP thinks they can see through you, they will feel closer to you.
You must be patient (at least for emotional outbursts)
Especially for NTJ, you should know that INFP sometimes cries because it has no solution (even if it is ridiculous to some people). The best thing you can do is to ask, "What can I do for you now?" Then consider the next step. But don't expect you to help them. Sometimes it's best to just sit with them or hold them until they are emotionally stable.
Respect your INFP, especially their thoughts: they are used to being abused, neglected or hurt. Don't be that person. If you often belittle her ideas, she will eventually hate you. But if you show due respect to their ideas, then they will always love you and show you the same respect.
04. Read more literature
INFP is a poet who lives in a different world. When you know literature, poetry, art and so on, they will open their hearts to you, and if you are lucky, they will take you to their unknown secret world for a while.
Move it. You must be an excellent executive: INFP can come up with many grand ideas, but it is always difficult for them to put their ideas into practice. If you can help them realize their dreams, it will definitely make your INFP grateful.
You must be reliable: INFP needs a good cornerstone; People who can support them in difficult times; Regardless of size. In order to win their trust, you must be able to keep your promise in front of them.
05. Liking physical contact is a plus.
This doesn't mean showing your relationship in public, so INTJ doesn't have to worry. Instead, I do some small moves in private, such as at home, in the car, in the parking lot, etc. , will make them feel sweet. If you are not a particularly affectionate person, they will feel special and loved if you can touch their hair, hug them or hug them at the movies.
Gifts: INFP is not resistant to gifts. Although they pay more attention to ideas than material things in their love relationship, they like surprises. Two people dressed up, drove them to a luxury restaurant or bought a bunch of roses in advance to meet her at the office, or secretly ordered a limited edition book that they always wanted.
06. Be a suitor
INFP knows what it wants. But they change their minds every five seconds. They may decide to talk to you one minute and give up the next. You must be able to initiate a conversation and make it clear to them that you want them to take you to heart.
Single-minded, not just their short-term infatuation: the lovely INFP is often attracted to certain people and things. It is easy for them to fall in love with someone. You must know this, but don't take advantage of them. You must prove to them that you want to spend your life with them.
Don't brag or exaggerate your achievements: they will see through at a glance and feel sick. Bragging is a sign of lack of self-awareness. Even if you are the richest person in the world, remember to be modest when you want to be with INFP. Believe in yourself and just be yourself.