I'm not too old. In fact, no matter what happens and how many times you meet it, it's not surprising. I think it has become a part of life anyway. As long as the sun will rise, I will continue to move forward tomorrow, and I will not let myself mercilessly toss myself for a trivial matter.
Everyone has to go through thousands of trials and tribulations before they can completely stop shouting and crying. As long as they can continue to endure it and don't touch the bottom line and principles, they will continue to be themselves quietly, but their faces will still be thrown out to each other. If they take one step further, they will be ready to turn against each other, and everyone will be ugly.
Now, I understand more and more: I no longer sympathize with anyone casually. Everyone's life is because of their own choices. Whether he is well or not, it is his own wishful thinking. You can't help him, and neither can he help you. You're a mess. Why are you stuck in someone else's world?
Whether parents or children, the script of this life has been completely arranged by fate, and you can't change anything. The only choice is to keep yourself motivated in this fate and live a better life with your own ability, so that you have the confidence and ability to shelter them from the wind and rain. If they still go their own way, you can only pray silently and do nothing.
Everyone is an individual, especially the blood relationship, which will make people constantly entangled and hesitant. They always feel that their lives are hard, and you feel guilty, regret and constantly consume yourself. If you can do more for them, it may be another situation. How can you help others if you can't even do it yourself?
Instead of obsessing and torturing yourself with rage, it is better to get rid of all entanglements, first sort out your life and get better little by little. Everyone's life is their own. If you have tried your best and they still can't change the status quo, let's do it for the time being. Maintaining their present life may be another kind of happiness for them!
Never toss yourself black and blue for others, not only can't help others, but also make yourself fall more thoroughly. If you want to set an example for children, you must first be a positive person. Every day's hard work affects them. Needless to say, just do more. If you want your parents to live a better life, don't expect to change them. At that age, too many things are a foregone conclusion, and you can make yourself better and do more for them.
Wang Zengqi said: "To live is to make a difference. The most important thing is to have a wider interest in life. No matter where you go, you should have some fun and find a way. You are always sad. Why? "
Life itself is colorful. If we feel unhappy, it is because some fetters block the bright light. Like dark clouds, they always hide the beauty in front of us into obscurity, so that our clear eyes can't see the truth clearly and miss many scenery of enjoying flowers.
You should know how to find a bright exit for yourself. Even if you can't see hope for the time being, don't stop looking for the way forward. As long as we go to the place where the wind blows, there will be a hopeful beginning and encouragement. We should keep climbing and advancing, and life will have a unique experience and epiphany in this process.
The world always belongs to sunshine and beauty. No matter how big the storm is, it will disappear one day. We just need to find a safe haven for ourselves, where we can protect our life and vitality, quietly wait for the arrival and renewal of that day, and settle our hearts. It's really a hundred times better than doing anything.
Your heart is your own world. What kind of seeds it will grow and what kind of fruit it will bear are determined by your choice, and have nothing to do with others, and will not change your initial heart and dreams because of others. Life is your own, you should be responsible for it yourself, and don't lead a miserable life of humble self-injury in the fingers of others.
Stick to your own bottom line and principles and tell others clearly that this is the boundary between you and me, and no one can break it a little. Don't be afraid, because people who are better than you don't have time to get along with people like you, and people who are worse than you won't touch your life circle, so what you can touch is basically the same or the same as you. It is this state of life that will constantly remind you that only by completely breaking it can you break through yourself for the rest of your life.
"People's final outcome is death. A hundred years later, there is neither you nor me. We can't carry a blade of grass and a tree all our lives, nor can we carry a trace of vanity and love all our lives, so we don't need to quarrel, have no time to be sad, and have no time to haggle over every ounce. Believe: people will fail you, but cause and effect will not! "
Anything that bothers you, then abandon it completely, ignore it and don't think about it. Life is so beautiful, why let yourself waste time and this beautiful time? Do things that make you happy, not those that are sad.
Life is so precious that we must be worthy of ourselves before we can leave a good impression in other people's world. You are extremely decadent yourself. Who dare to come near you? Even parents and children will stay away from you, let alone other unimportant people will not look at you. Don't think the reality is cruel, it is a fact and an unimaginable bottomless pit. If you want a chance, you have to save yourself. No one can help you. Only oneself is the most reliable guarantee.
Relax, your world is peaceful and stable, and it will eventually become a part of your life, because time is so simple, you keep moving forward wholeheartedly, and even if your world has gone through hardships, it is just a breath of time and years, and everything around it is quiet and peaceful, without too much involvement and fetters.
So, don't care too much, follow your heart to experience the purity and freshness of life bit by bit. They are free in this world, with unique fragrance and warmth. You should also have your own happiness and enjoy the warmth of time freely in the world of life. The unspeakable will be thoroughly cleaned up, and there will be no expectations and dreams for those that have not appeared.
A hundred years have passed, but in a blink of an eye. What if you care too much? You haven't finally turned into a handful of yellow sand, buried in the dark underground, and no one will remember your voice and smile again. It is better to experience life bit by bit in the days when life lasts. What is competition? What are the hesitations? Experience the beautiful side of life in this limited time, where there are birds and flowers, and your favorite mountains and rivers are vast.