Reading people, judging people and being philosophical prose

cultivate yourself in a low profile: being a low profile person is a seemingly dull but profound strategy for dealing with the world, whether in officialdom, shopping malls or political and military struggles. Humble people always live: humility is a kind of wisdom and the golden rule of life. Those who know humility will be respected by people and admired by the world. It's the art of keeping the dark: "Great wisdom is foolish" focuses on a word "if", which designs a huge illusion and scam, covering up real ambition, lust for power, talent, reputation and feelings. This kind of low-key life skill, which is willing to be stupid and weak, is actually a subtle calculation. It encourages people not to strive for the first time and not to reveal the truth, so that they can clearly live their lives. Treat people with peace and leave room: "There is a way to do things, and there are rules for doing things", and being a man is no exception. It is also in line with objective requirements to treat personnel with a peaceful attitude, because being a low-key talent is the key to success. When the time is not ripe, we should hold on: people are not sages, and no one can get rid of worldly desires without daily necessities. Even if we escape into an empty door and "jump out of the three realms and are not in the five elements", we should "be a monk with a generous mind. Good! Good! " Never leave the mouth. Therefore, in order to achieve great things, we must distinguish between priorities, size and distance. Those who have to give up have to give up what they have to give up, and those who have to take a long-term view, so as to realize their ideals, achieve great things and create great things. When you are not rich in hairiness, you should know how to make concessions: being a low-key person is often a useful coup to win the support of your opponent, eventually become stronger and stronger, and then stretch your power to make your opponent yield. Waiting for the opportunity in "stupidity": Being foolish, you can not only show inaction and cleverness, but also pretend to be noncommittal and not show your attitude as if nothing had happened, then wait for the opportunity, tell your own superiority at once and catch your opponent off guard. However, the key is to have a strategy to deal with each other in your heart. Often use "confusion" to confuse the other person's eyes and ears. It is better to show inaction by doing something, and never show inaction by doing nothing. If you are confused, you will pretend to be smart, which will be self-defeating. Taking the initiative to suffer is grace: at any time, mutual affection cannot be trampled on. Take the initiative to suffer, the mountain does not turn, and maybe there will be opportunities for cooperation in the future, and we will come together again. If a person refuses to suffer losses everywhere, he will want to take advantage everywhere. Therefore, he is delusional and arrogant. And once a person has an arrogant posture, it will inevitably infringe on the interests of others, so there will be disputes. In the midst of being besieged on all sides, how can it be invincible? Applauding opponents is a kind of wisdom: virtue, wisdom and self-cultivation are the capital of our life. Applauding opponents is a kind of strategy. Those who can put down their posture and applaud opponents will surely succeed in doing things. To be tolerant of others' mistakes: take a step back and be calm for a while. There is nothing wrong with blaming others for their mistakes, but forgiving others with a broad mind will make the world more wonderful. Second, if you want to be low-key and successful in your mentality, you must keep a normal mind: high-profile work is a kind of responsibility, a kind of boldness of vision, a style of Excellence, and a spirit of persistent pursuit. Even the trivial and monotonous things you do should represent your highest level, embody your best style, and improve your quality and ability in doing things. Don't be conceited: when you get achievements, you should thank others, share with others and be humble, which just gives others a reassurance. If you are used to being arrogant and looking down on others, then one day you will suffer the consequences for yourself! Please remember: it is a taboo to be a man to rely on talent and pride. If you forgive others, you will show your true colors: being generous and wise and keeping a low profile is sometimes more helpful to solve the problem than being arrogant. Being generous to others' faults is actually a low-key attitude, which will make people unforgettable and grateful for life. To be a man, you should be harmonious and accessible, not sharp-edged: success requires a humble attitude, consciously be a spectator in Vanity Fair and open up a broad mind. Contented people are always happy: if we can lower some standards in life and take a step back and think about it, we will be satisfied. People should realize that they are indispensable, and this is the greatest wealth. Don't take yourself too seriously: don't take yourself too seriously, so that you won't be complacent, and you can constantly enrich and improve yourself and create a perfect life. Humility is a virtue that benefits all one's life: a person who knows how to be humble is a person who really knows how to accumulate strength. Humility can avoid giving others a too loud impression, which just enables an employee to accumulate experience and ability in life and work, and finally achieve success. Indifferent to fame and fortune and selfless dedication: those who are bold in character are bound to be open-minded, those who have boundless ambitions are bound to be radical in their thoughts, and those who are radical in their thoughts are bound to offend the secular and so-called authority. Therefore, the society requires those who achieve great things to keep quiet, do high-profile things and be low-key. Treat subordinates with tolerance: As a boss, you should be tolerant. Since you have given the task to your subordinates, you should fully miss them and give them the opportunity to display their talents. Only in this way can you give full play to your talents. Simplicity is the foundation of being a low-key person: being simple and low-key in life will not only help one's moral cultivation, but also win praise from top to bottom. Third, it is wise to keep a low profile in behavior: if you publicize yourself too much, you will suffer more wind and rain, and the exposed rafters will naturally rot first. If a person shows off too much in society at an inappropriate time, no matter how good he is, he will inevitably be hit and attacked by an open gun in the back. The rafters in the early days are easy to rot: people who are slightly famous often boast proudly everywhere and like to be flattered by others, and these people will suffer sooner or later. Therefore, when you are in a passive position, you must learn to hide your front, pretend to be stupid and tell good, and never turn yourself into the target of the other party's shooting. Talent is too big to be arrogant, and you can't be proud of it: Nian Gengyao, who is arrogant, ended up in a sad end because of his ignorance in life. Therefore, it is the foundation of being a man to be big but not arrogant, and to take credit without being proud. Under the fame, its reality is difficult: when actively seeking the peak period, we might as well consider the attitude towards life advocated by Yan Zhitui, try to understand the taste of contentment, capture the essence of the golden mean, and make the pace of life slightly balanced, so as not to easily fall into the trap of excessive extreme life. Don't be too smart: be a low-key person, don't be clever, keep yourself in a calm state all the time, and be conscientious under the control of a "low-key" mentality in order to achieve great things. Extremely happy, extremely happy begets sorrow: in the process of life's joys and sorrows, people should choose their own position at any time and place, and the starting point should not be too high. As Mencius said: "If you can be an official, you can stop, you can stop for a long time, and you can speed up." Be humble: Humility can overcome arrogance and build good interpersonal relationships, because people respect those who are humble, not those who love vanity and boast. Only by avoiding the limelight can we take a good life path: Lao Tzu believes that "a strong army will destroy, a strong wood will fold" and "a strong beam will not die." Laozi's strategic thought of standing aloof from the rest of the world profoundly embodies the inherent law of motion of things, which has been proved by countless facts and has become a widely circulated philosophical saying. To be a low-key person, you can turn around: keep a low profile when dealing with others. When you are at a disadvantage or in danger, you might as well give in first. This will not only avoid its sharpness and get out of trouble, but also find another way to regain the initiative. If you want to do things first, you must be a man first: if you want to do things first, you must be a man first. Be a good person before you can do things. Be a low-key and modest person, do things with high-profile and confidence, and when things are done well, the level of low-key life will go up to a higher level. Retreat after success, the way of heaven: A man who knows how to retire after success is sensible of the times. He knows when to save himself and when to achieve others, and laughs at life with elegance. Fourth, keep a low profile in words and don't expose people's scars: you can't make fun of your friends' shortcomings. Don't make fun of each other's shortcomings and expose people's scars just because you know each other very well. That will hurt the other person's personality and dignity, and go against the original intention of joking. Lower your speaking posture: In the face of others' praise and congratulations, you should be modest, polite and open-minded, so as to show your gentlemanly demeanor, dilute others' jealousy towards you, and maintain harmonious and good interpersonal relationships. Don't hurt others' self-esteem when you speak: speak in moderation and don't hurt others. Courtesy is not cowardice in interpersonal relationships, but reducing unnecessary attacks to zero. Don't get carried away: when you are proud, you should talk less and be more humble, so that you can win the respect of your friends. There is no need to get into trouble when trouble comes from your mouth: if you want to keep a comfortable job in the office and get along well with the leaders, pay more attention to your words and deeds. Bosses are more willing to use people who are low-key in attitude and practical in work. If you are lucky, you are likely to be unexpectedly entrusted with an important task by your boss. Don't try to speak quickly: think twice before you speak, and your words are no exception. Think before you speak, and make sure that you won't hurt others before you speak, so that you can play the role of keeping your word, and you can be respected and recognized by others. It's a disaster for those who talk wildly: Is it because of the birth of materialistic civilization? Nowadays, there are people who talk wildly in all kinds of occupations in society. It's hard to ridicule and ridicule: words speak for the heart, and language is dominated by thoughts, reflecting a person's moral character. Irresponsibility, nonsense, slander, gossip and so on are immoral. Don't always complain about the original unit: Job-hopping is a normal phenomenon in today's society, and it's not surprising that job-hoppers can often find their own positions in new teams and create better performance. If this step hasn't been achieved, you are in a hurry to play "lip service" to improve your popularity and status in the new team by belittling the old team, then you are all wet! Don't be too explicit: don't think that telling the truth will make others grateful. You know, we can never be reckless and reckless. It is a mature way of dealing with people to consider the feelings of others before speaking. Silence is golden: silence does not mean that everyone will never speak, but should be said when it is time. Just like the Buddha, people will still talk to others and teach Buddhism. Moderate language itself is a kind of silence. 5. Give yourself a high-profile hope ideologically: No matter how many heart-wrenching setbacks you encounter, you should move yourself and others with persistent confidence and perseverance, and temper yourself into a person who does great things. Keep up * * *: We need * * *, and we need to develop. Let's start from now on, work hard, blaze new trails, do our job well in a down-to-earth manner, and burn * * * in ordinary work. Self-confidence is the secret of high-profile work: confidence is of great significance to successful people, and the desire for success is the source of creating and owning wealth. Once people have this desire and form a kind of self-confidence through self-suggestion and subconscious stimulation, this kind of confidence will be transformed into a kind of "positive emotion", which can help people release endless enthusiasm, wisdom and energy, and then help people get great achievements in wealth and career. Don't let excuses "eat" your hopes: at any time, we should not make excuses for ourselves. Only by doing our duty, going forward bravely and not making excuses can we realize our ideals and create a brilliant life. An ugly duckling can also become a white swan: a person with hope and perseverance will have the ability to create; A person with hope and persistent efforts will achieve his goal. Ignite the fire of hope: a hopeful mind has great creativity, which will stimulate people's potential and realize their ideals. Success needs to pay a price: from ancient times to the present, those who have achieved great things have suffered hardships and completed their self-education in hardships, which has naturally achieved their careers. Take the initiative to do what should be done: only those who are lazy and aggressive can continue to succeed and achieve good results. Don't give up easily, and you will succeed if you persist: hold on to the belief that you will never give up, even in an atmosphere of regret or sigh, tolerance or accusation. Yes, don't give up at any time, no matter how difficult the conditions are, as long as you can stick to it, success will definitely belong to you. Learn to encourage yourself: A person who can encourage himself is not a success, but he will never be a failure. You'd better practice this "Kung Fu" as early as possible! Always keep a good mood: the way to break through the predicament is to eliminate the enemies who are happy and successful in the chest first, and then to concentrate on their thoughts and strengthen their consciousness. Only by applying correct thinking and holding firm spirit can we break through from adversity. Stimulate one's own potential: If you interview ordinary losers, you will find that they fail because they have never walked into an environment that can inspire and encourage people, because their potential has never been stimulated, and because they have no strength to cheer up from bad environments. Don't be afraid of poverty and hardship: everyone who walks in the jungle of life should remember that if you are suffering from hardship, it is not a bad thing at all. "Heaven will have a great responsibility for the people of Sri Lanka, so you must first suffer from their minds, work hard on their bones and muscles, starve their bodies, be empty of their bodies, and mess up their actions." Because god wants to give you the heavy responsibility, he must first temper and test you! Discover one's own strengths: when great pressure, extraordinary changes and great responsibilities press on a person, all kinds of abilities hidden in the deepest part of his life will suddenly emerge and make him achieve great things. Firmly believe in life: Difficulties can test a person's quality. If a person dares to face up to difficulties, actively seeks solutions to problems, and can always be full of enthusiasm and firm belief in life in any unfavorable environment, then he will succeed sooner or later. Take setbacks as stepping stones: in life, some people are knocked down by setbacks, while others take setbacks as stepping stones and keep moving forward. As long as we face up to the ups and downs and never give up our pursuit, the hardships of life will be trampled under our feet and life will shine forever! Enthusiasm for life: with enthusiasm, you can regard extra work as an opportunity, turn strangers into friends, and sincerely tolerate others. With enthusiasm, you can make full use of your spare time to complete your hobbies. With enthusiasm, you will abandon resentment and become broad-minded. With enthusiasm, you will overcome difficulties and achieve success. Sixth, we should pay high attention to details in detail, and start from small things: people who can't see details, or don't take them seriously, lack a serious attitude towards work and can only perfunctory things. People who pay attention to details not only take their work seriously and do small things in detail, but also find opportunities in the process of doing details, so that they can embark on the road to success. There are no small things in work: a touch of stone turns into gold and a drop of water turns into a river. Only by taking everything you do seriously can you overcome all difficulties and achieve success. Take every training seriously: Those who take it seriously in the usual training and preparation process, on the other hand, are more likely to show a calm mind in key games because they have been receiving high-intensity simulation training, because in their minds, this is tantamount to a simple game and training at ordinary times. Do something good for others quietly; Try to help others sincerely. When all this comes from your will, you will feel how happy it is.