Cousin said with regret that he is really envious when he sees others playing the piano gracefully. Why didn't Dad force himself at the beginning? If he persisted, would he have gained another skill?
In fact, this phenomenon happens from time to time in life. People often don't have such a long-term vision. They only see the pain in front of them and choose to escape, but they don't know that the difficulties you have escaped at this time will still be faced one day.
When the pianist Lang Lang was a child, he had to practice piano for six hours every day. At first, he cried and felt too hard and tired to give up. As a result, his father increased his piano practice time to eight hours. When Lang Lang wanted to give up, his father was beaten, so he had to insist.
After he practiced the piano well and won the prize, he suddenly fell in love with the feeling of playing the piano and began to thank his father for his "persecution".
you never know how good you are unless you push yourself.
Lin Yutang said that people are sad because they don't look far enough. When you walk too little and your knowledge is far from enough, you will feel that you can't get past it when you encounter a little bumps.
sitting at the bottom of the well, the frog always sees only the sky overhead. If you don't expand your knowledge, you may always stick to a city, and you don't know how vast and beautiful the outside world is.
Many people often think of difficulties first and then shrink back when they encounter things, but they don't understand that sometimes difficulties are a great boost to people's growth.
If a person's life is too smooth, once he encounters a little setback, he may take it hard and make extreme choices.
Some time ago, I received a private letter from a reader, Gao Lin, who described an experience after her lovelorn.
When she was just lovelorn, she felt that she could hardly live. As soon as she closed her eyes, her mind was full of each other's faces.
When being entangled in lovelorn is unbearable, she sticks her body to the window on the 21st floor, and imagines that she will jump off the window and never have any troubles again.
But when her body came into contact with the cold glass, she suddenly shivered and woke up. What on earth were she doing? She just graduated from college for more than a year, and she hasn't come to repay her parents for their kindness.
for a little emotional injury, so hard? Thought of here, Gao Lin climbed down from the windowsill. She carefully examined her own shadow in the glass, looking unkempt. She had not left the house for a week.
My parents live next door. They are so worried about her every day that they are afraid of affecting her mood. Every time they finish cooking, they just tap on the door twice to signal her. Because of her pain, her parents didn't even turn on the TV.
Gao Lin opened the closed door and went out to hug her parents. She said to them with tears on her face, "Everything will be fine". Then I went downstairs to do a new hairstyle and gave myself a slap.
In the past, Gao Lin valued love more than the sky, and everything made way for love. After several years of love, others upgraded their research on the university campus, but she spent all her time in the flowers and the moon.
When it finally dawned on her, she devoted all her energy to her study. Before, her parents wanted her to take the postgraduate entrance examination. At that time, she pushed from pillar to post, but now she took the initiative to chew on difficult textbooks.
In the past, her classmates called her to run together, but she couldn't get up under the covers. Now she has taken the initiative to ask her running friends to keep exercising.
When Gao Lin started her life with a brand-new look, she found that her life was unprecedented.
compared with love, the present life has helped her find herself again-she was once excellent before love.
The past can't be repeated, and it's never too late to start if one really figures it out.
I really appreciate Gao Lin's attitude. Many people after be lovelorn chose to degenerate, and some even tried to die, and some lost control and went to extremes. Fortunately, Gao Lin was awake in time and avoided a disaster.
She said that it's just a coward's practice not to live for love. Everything in the world is trivial compared with life and death.
Wang Xiaobo said that all human sufferings are essentially anger at their incompetence.
many people instinctively think that they can't make it when they encounter difficulties, and even give up the chance to try easily.
however, it is easy to be the weak in life, but one day, when all the problems are in front of you, you will eventually have to face them. Of course, some people feel that they can't live, and they choose to be suicidal.
It's easy to die, but you leave easily, which hurts those who love you.
Think of your parents' white-haired people giving you black-haired people. They have raised you hard, but their licking calf has not been repaid, but it has made them suffer more. Life is not only painful, but also has many beautiful things.
If you choose a suicidal person, you can't get it all at once. Even others think you are an extremely naive person through your choice.
children still know how to persevere, and adults should know that persistence is the only way to break through the darkness before dawn.
when you have a hard time, go to the hospital for a walk. Look at those people lying in the ward, they are trying to live even if they are entangled in diseases. And you are a healthy person, what else can you carry?
anyone can be a coward, but not everyone wants to be one.
all the hardships you suffered when you were young will make your future. Don't always think that life is too difficult. The root cause of your pain is ultimately because your vision is too short-sighted.
if you have really experienced it, you will find that those who can't beat you will make you stronger after all.
You think it's too difficult to bypass the immediate difficulties. Perhaps you have gained temporary relief, but when you see others' success, you should know that you can only get it through the pain.
Life is just like this. Perfection has never been so easy to get. Nothing can be achieved without going through difficulties and obstacles.
believe in yourself, life will only give you honor after it hurts you.
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