In the teahouse where we often go, in front of the window where we often sit, she sat there alone, lonely and covered all over her body. See me, haven't speak, she has choked up, tears streaming down her face ... such a calm, elegant woman, not so calm in front of the trivial things of the world of mortals, her panic, let a person feel distressed.
During the conversation, I learned that recently, she has encountered a series of thorny problems: children's education, her career and her feelings. From her intermittent statements, I know that with her efforts, children's education problems have been significantly improved, and the reasons for encountering bottlenecks have also improved. The only feeling of being immersed in life is in despair. The man who once loved her deeply became irritable because he loved her too closely, and lost the enthusiasm and beauty when he first met her. Finally, she broke up and ended their lifelong relationship. ...
After chatting and listening for a while, my girlfriend gradually calmed down. My best friend is an excellent woman, talented, intelligent, connotative and capable. After she confided, the whole person became much more relaxed. She told me that although the end of her relationship was a great blow to her, she would get better gradually, manage her life with heart and let herself meet happiness. ...
The conversation with my best friend is over, and her life is calm on the surface, but this conversation deeply moved me.
They are the wrong people at the wrong time. This feeling is only love, no responsibility. They are two individuals together. They have no common children, only two loving hearts. Sometimes, love is really pale and powerless in the face of facts, and time mistakenly writes "forever" as "once". In the face of sudden hardships, we can only endure setbacks and make life calm.
Love is a consumable, and often in the end, love is exhausted. At this time, if there is no interest dispute, separation is inevitable. And men's love consumes many times faster than women's love. Once he feels tired, he will let go. Love for men is limited, and being too close to each other is a kind of harm. Because it is no good, if you are a woman who can only give him love, he is not afraid to offend you.
On the basis of love, there must be interests. If you are the mother of his children and have close interests with him, he will always take you to heart and will not let go easily.
Men's feelings are like fog, sometimes it covers the sky, and sometimes a strong wind disappears. We should take a step back from the noisy world, be a rich person, be a warm person, and then walk into life beautifully, without fear or grievance, and let life be calm.
A person's real calmness is not to escape the noise and disputes, but to face the confusion and confusion positively. I have always believed that the pattern determines a person's fate. Pattern is the vision and boldness of life. No matter which stage of life a person is in, he should nourish his mood and big pattern. Remember, only when you are not tired of fame and fortune, things (including family, love and friendship) and the world can you have a pattern of immortality. A good artistic conception is far-reaching, and a big pattern is beautiful, which can make life calm.
A bitter experience can make a person calm and peaceful. Judging whether a person has connotation is not by how many books he has read, but by the way he handles difficult things; Judging whether a person has quality or not depends not on his attitude towards people who are higher than him, but on his attitude towards people who are lower than him; Judge whether a person really loves himself or not, not by what he is saying, but by what he is doing. Happy people are not without troubles, but are not affected by them. Life has quality, supervision and dreams; Meet people, choose cities, die. ...
On the journey of life, pain and happiness always go hand in hand. No matter at which stage of your life, you should face everything you have experienced with a positive attitude and keep your thinking in a positive state. Go all out to do what you are interested in. One day, your suffering and fatigue will turn on the light of life and illuminate your way forward.
Nothing in the world can be smooth sailing without hard work, and how many twists and turns you can endure is worthy of happiness. May we wash away the dust in the face of confusion and open a clean lotus from our hearts. May we face the world calmly and live a peaceful life in the long years.
Time is the best proof. No matter whether everything is short or long, time will give us the best answer.
Getting too close to anyone is a disaster. Family, friendship and love are all the same. When we encounter difficult things in life, don't rush to find answers and leave the questions to time. Wait and see, and finally push the boat, time will give you the best ending.
Pain takes the emotional route, and chilling takes the philosophical route. All tears are secretly shed because of heartache; All the blood and tears are put down because of chilling; All self-exile, because meet; All phoenix nirvana is due to the desire for rebirth.
Dear, you have to believe that suffering is meaningful in this world. The suffering you have suffered, the pain you have endured and the tears you shed will eventually turn into energy and light, illuminate every journey of your life, make you experience the baptism of hardships and make your tortuous life calm.
Dear, the cold winter of life will eventually pass, so let yourself turn around in the spring: not for gorgeous, but for maturity. In the rest of my life, may you never suffer again; May your life be calm and peaceful.