Women in love should be the happiest, right? But why is there always a little lost emotion hidden in her happiness?
We haven't seen each other for several days, and she knows that he is busy. His life is good, too, and he is single-minded about his feelings. There should be nothing to be demanding. All right! That's it! Sleep! Before going to bed every day, she is used to hypnotizing herself in this way.
Just then, his phone came.
"Baby, haven't sleep yet! I'm going to get something from my friend's place and pass by your house. I am good at hungry oh, and I went downstairs to eat noodles with me. "
His natural tone left her no room for refusal.
What about her? I haven't seen him for days, and I really want to see him. So, I promised: "Good! See you downstairs in 5 minutes! "
She jumped out of bed in a hurry, changed her clothes, combed her hair and went to the appointment happily. When I got into the elevator, I remembered, "Why? Why is he always like this? "
Looking back carefully, the two have been dating for more than a year. Besides the month when they first fell in love, he paid more attention to arranging the appointment time. Later, he never planned ahead. Every time he suddenly thought of it, he said, "Let's go to dinner!" "Come shopping with me!" "Are you free tonight?"
Even on the day of celebrating her birthday, there was no news until the evening. She thought he had forgotten, but she didn't expect to receive his call until after 6 o'clock: "Let's go! Today is your birthday, it's my treat. " There is no need to talk about other days, such as Christmas and Valentine's Day. He always puts off asking her out until the last minute. The surprise he inadvertently created because of his lack of planning will eventually scare her.
On the other hand, when she takes the initiative to ask him out, she may not be able to do it.
His reply was nothing more than: "Busy these days!" "The time is not sure." "I'm afraid it's a deal with you now. You'll be disappointed if you can't go then."
Men are afraid of promises, and even more afraid of criticism and punishment when promises cannot be fulfilled.
This way of communication has gradually cultivated a strange love mode. When she misses him, when she wants to meet him, when she wants to go out with him, she always can't get a definite, real-time and specific reply. And when he wants to ask her out, when he wants to be with her, when he wants to find her to pass the boring time, he can easily achieve his goal.
She also wanted to be impulsive and deliberately refused his impromptu date. Although, I rehearsed it in my mind dozens of times and said, "No, I can't right now." However, as soon as the phone rings, she immediately surrenders, which is really difficult.
"If you love each other, you must seize every moment you can be together." She thought.
In this way, he ate her. Love is very wronged, but I can't stop.
Obviously, he regarded her as "love instant noodles". Think about it, when you are hungry, when you can't eat the Manchu-Han banquet, you can brew it at will, which is very delicious.
Eat it every day, it's easy to get tired. I haven't eaten for a long time, but I'm too greedy to eat. "Love instant noodles", convenience is the most important, and people who eat it don't care whether the nutritional value is high or not.
For men, love is the best instant noodles, just save trouble. Maybe, when I am addicted to it, I don't mind taking it as a staple food. Add some shallots and egg drops, and you won't lose the delicious food made by ramen restaurant.
The bad thing is that many lovers don't know how to cherish and love.
You give him convenience, and he will treat you casually.
You know he is busy and not good at time management. Over time, he will become disrespectful and think that you can be on call, even if you don't pass it on, you won't run.
If love is a feast, please remember to pay attention to your service and the other person's eating.
I believe that good food and simple meals have their own advantages. Everyone should learn to express their unique taste, and also find a real expert gourmet to savor it.
However, love is respect. No matter how much you love him, you must never be wronged by the other party into instant noodles that can be handed over to you at any time. The happiness of life can sometimes be considerate and convenient, but it must not be casual.