On the road of life, we will always be unhappy in one way or another, but don't be hard on yourself, be kind to yourself. Only in this way can we get spiritual liberation, take the road of our own choice calmly and do what we like. In this world, there are many things that we cannot predict, but we can control ourselves. We can't predict the future, but we can grasp the present.
When we are faced with life choices, please stand at both ends of the spiritual balance. Measure your life value. No matter how difficult it is, let your heart go to the side of justice and let your soul be filled with the fragrance of fantasy. The sound is everywhere, the wind and rain of nature, cicadas singing and birds singing, songs and books in life, laughter and crying, comfort, encouragement and criticism from relatives and friends, and heartfelt calls. ...
Among them, there must be some kind of voice that you will never forget. It may remind you of a past event, and it may make you have a rich imagination. When a person has hope, he will make unremitting efforts towards it. If you look at the stars in the sky when you are tired, you will be full of strength and continue to work hard.
Each of us should face life with a smile. Without complaining, there will be no sadness. A hopeful person will be full of confidence in life. As long as you look at the world with a beautiful mind, you always face life with an optimistic spirit.
More self-confidence, less disappointment, affection, friendship and love all come from your beautiful heart. If you look at this world with a beautiful mind, it will give you endless wealth and happiness all your life! When you are troubled by setbacks in your life, your family will comfort you and encourage you one by one.
Silently support you behind your back. But at this time, you got the most beloved thing in the world-family. People say, "advice when you are unhappy is helpful to your actions, and good medicine when you are bitter is beneficial to your illness." Spring flowers and autumn moon are always beautiful, and people suffer because they are too awake. When they were awake, they forgot to reveal a lot of helplessness. They are used to watching the spring flowers bloom until the plants wither, and often they really want to be a girl without sorrow.
The most painful thing in life is that there is no way to go after waking up. Sometimes I wish I could live in that fictional world forever. Life is like a dream. I hope this is really a dream. Beautiful dreams, like beautiful poems, are hard to find. Introspection, gently brush away the dust of the soul, and return the mind to a clear sky. How can you see the rainbow without wind and rain? The vast sea of people, purple red dust, with you in the rolling red dust, the days will be so beautiful.
A sweet dream, a romantic trip, or a memory of reading all make me dream, put myself in a distant, quiet and gorgeous world created by predecessors, and use my life to appreciate the colorful changes of time and space.
It turns out that people's lives are tenacious because they have experienced wind, frost, rain and dew and hardships, but they are still intact and enjoying the sunshine. But those imperfections in life often make it a unique landscape in life!
Essay on Life Comprehension (2) A friend is engaged in sales, and it didn't take long to drink an obvious beer belly. He said that drinking is a need of work, and many projects may not progress for a long time, but they will be signed as long as they drink once. Another friend is very popular with his girlfriend. Everyone asks the secret, and the answer is simple. Every time his girlfriend is angry, suspicious or unhappy, he doesn't need too much nonsense. He just hugged him and kissed him. He tried every time.
Problems that cannot be solved by negotiation can be solved by drinking. Problems that cannot be solved by argument can be solved by hugging.
By extension, emotions can solve problems that reason can't. Problems that logic can't solve can be solved by intuition. Problems that science cannot solve can be solved by religion. Zhuangzi can solve problems that Confucius can't.
In this sense, emotional people are actually the most rational, while rational people are very emotional. If a person tries to solve all problems with reason, he will often fail miserably, and it is not clear why. Because rational thinking doesn't work in many times in life. There is always a feminine temperament in human society-more willing to be influenced than persuaded; I would rather rely on my feelings than trust my reason.
If you want to persuade customers to buy insurance funds or clothes and jewelry, you don't need to tell them what benefits these products have. The harder you work, the easier it is for them to think that you are fooling them. On the contrary, you just need to make them trust you emotionally, and things will be done.
Therefore, a person should never rely on his strong logical level and thinking depth. () Even if you think your logic is absolutely correct, impeccable or even perfect, so what? No amount of eloquent reasoning is as simple, beautiful and useful as a sincere hug.
A truly rational person must know how to solve difficult problems by emotional means. Note that it is not a solution, but a solution. Because he clearly knows that rational thinking has too many limitations, and people are spiritual animals and need to be influenced.
On the contrary, it is irrational to cling to your own reason and think that reason can solve all problems. This kind of person doesn't consider other people's feelings at all, but starts from his own feelings and takes his own right and wrong as well as others'. Beneath the surface of human reason is the essence of sensibility.
Everyone's intelligence has its limitations. Everyone's reason also has boundaries. A basic assumption of classical economic theory is "rational man". If human beings were so rational, economics would have become a sideline of physics. Modern economics has already developed the concept of "bounded rationality", acknowledging that human behavior is not so rational.
No one can solve all the problems in this world just by thinking. Neither Newton nor Einstein can do it, let alone you and me. So, don't try to figure out all the problems, it will only make you fall into a terrible swamp of rational thinking. What should I do if I encounter a problem that I can't figure out? Don't think, just feel. "Zhouyi Xiangua" said: Feeling and communication.
No one who wrote the most beautiful poems in ancient times was cocky and lived in the study in poverty. They either send their feelings between mountains and rivers or cross rivers and lakes. Everything in the book is dead, but life is alive. They must personally feel everything between heaven and earth, watch autumn go and spring come, and watch the geese return on the ice plate, in order to truly experience all kinds of beauty in the world. Instead of sitting and thinking silently.
Life Perception Prose (3) Life is a song. Life is different in love, tacit understanding in silence, but connected with the heart. I went to Qiu Lai in the spring, but my true feelings still exist. They are not with me, but I am in my heart. I walked into my heart. Not holding hands, but attached. What I have is touching, my heart is close, my heart is warm, my feelings are sincere, I care about my life, the sunshine warms my body, my true feelings warm my heart, and the spring breeze blows on my face. Accompany with your heart, pay, and wholeheartedly, regardless of the ends of the earth, use family warmth to understand the burden and helplessness in life, give spiritual support, know how to be strong after disguise, and give the truest love when you cry. There is nothing like someone knowing that someone hurts, that love is the truest, that someone hates someone and loves someone, that a word of missing you will make you feel happy and miserable, and that you will be born alone.
Life is nothing more than ups and downs in gains and losses, entanglement in grievances, reversal in right and wrong, and reciprocating in sorrow and joy. No matter how wonderful and dull, we will be silent. No matter how narrow and wide the road is, we must move forward, learn to be open-minded, learn to be free and easy, and learn to be happy. For some people and things that can't be let go, we must learn to be calm and let go. Gradually, we will eventually grow old. We can't have everything in life. In fact, the beauty of life is not in the past, not in the future, and always in the present. We don't ask others at will, we don't blindly ask ourselves, we are kind, sincere, tolerant of others, and we are strict with ourselves. Gains and losses, success or failure, gathering and parting are all growth, pessimism, good mood, optimism and life.
Love is silent, it is good for two hearts to know each other, but the feelings are not revealed. They know enough. On a quiet night, the hearts of people who miss you are very soft. A piece of riverside flowers and moonshine is rippling in your heart. With melodious songs and long feelings, you can render lovesickness and convey love, and let the sun light up your clear sky. I entrust my concern to the breeze, and let my blessing bring you peace and happiness. When we meet in the vast sea of people, not everyone can love each other. I feel your breath in the air, I listen to your voice in the song, I look for your figure in the moonlight, I would like to turn into a beautiful butterfly and stay at your window, I would like to turn into a blue silk and wrap it around your eyebrows. Have you ever read my heart? I don't believe in love, but I believe in you. I believe your happiness is because you met me. I want to put you in the softest place in my heart so that you can feel my warmth and happiness.
I am a person who believes in fate. I always believe that it is also a kind of fate that you and I meet and know each other. Buddha said that you stared at each other 500 times in your last life and only got a brush in this life. Then my meeting with you in this life is also a hard-won practice of love. Love is always a thousand times. How many times can a person really love in his life? Don't ignore the seemingly ordinary possessions around him, not to mention. I have been told countless times that 500 years of staring at each other will bring me a sum of money in this life. Only in your warm arms can I enjoy the greatest happiness and happiness in the world.
Sometimes when you don't talk, you actually feel deeper and don't respond. In fact, you don't feel sad. In fact, the pain remains in your dreams, but you don't cry. In this world, not everything can be seen with the eyes. Sometimes what you see with your eyes is just an illusion created by others. Life has to go through too many games and too many traps that we can't see. You can keep your eyes open. When we close our eyes and take care of our hearts, we suddenly realize that knowing ourselves means knowing others, seeing our hearts clearly and seeing the world clearly. You treat people as treasures, but people treat you as grass, you treat people as the only one, but people treat you as one. Emotionally, many people always pretend to be short-sighted, looking at the mountains, eating bowls and watching pots. How many banquets have ended, but they can't see deep feelings, and then there will be endless.
No one can afford to break a fiery heart. If there is no feeling of giving back, everyone has to give up. Even if you lose it, it's too late to recover it, make up for it, and regret it. Because they don't understand a truth, don't cherish it, don't deserve it, and always remember it. Don't squeeze into the world where they can't enter. If they humiliate themselves for others, then don't force feelings that they can't get. If they lose their dignity, they will slow down and leave. It's sand that a broken heart doesn't want to get hurt again and can't stay. Why don't you just raise it? If you can't let it go, try not to care. Everyone has a bottom line, is it trampled, is it true, is it played, is it love or friendship, and would rather leave proudly than humble, and would rather give up with a smile than cry.
Who you are, who you are, who you are, who you are, who you are, who you care about, you will forget who you are, and you will know who you are when you forget who you are. In fact, no one is who you are, who you are, why do you do it? Who are you? After taking the initiative for a long time, I found that my heart has gradually cooled down with lukewarm words, and I feel that love has accompanied me too much. With a heart and a wound, we are strong. If you have someone, you will forget it. Emotionally, it is very important to get up and let go. It's easy to forget someone. Don't be mean. It's hard to give up a relationship. You can't say, you can't think, but you can't forget. Only suitable for collection, thinking about it, thinking about it, dreaming about it.
Love doesn't hurt. What hurts is a pledge of eternal love that can never be fulfilled. Losing is not terrible. Touching the scene is very hurtful. If you gamble on the happiness of your life, those who love you will never let you lose, and those who don't love you will make you cry. We are human beings, not gods, and we are bound to get hurt. We love ourselves more than love. Some people lose it, which will make you regret it for a lifetime, while others are full of love. Don't be too proud, too desperate and too thick-skinned, because you care enough, but don't be persistent and don't let go. You only blame yourself for your lack of ability, but don't be depressed. You don't deserve the best if you can't accept the worst. If you don't understand your good intentions, you are not qualified to get your good intentions.
Feelings have always been your wish, and sometimes being willing is not a good thing. Fate likes to joke like this. Those who need it can't get it, and those who get it don't need it. Emotional changes, there are many places to comfort. It's hard to find spiritual comfort. Remember the deepest, often hurt you the most thoroughly. Always holding an umbrella for you, you often ignore it automatically. Loneliness is when you want to talk, no one listens, and someone listens, but there is nothing to say. Indifference makes you lose your heart, but when someone leaves, you close your heart. In fact, the most precious thing in the world is what you have got and what you may lose at any time. Do not be blind. The intersection of parallel lines is not accidental. Don't play dumb. Anyone who plays the fool will be chilling. Don't let people who are really nice to you.