Motto Lian Bi: Sit still and think about yourself. Gossip is not about people's mistakes. He who can bear hardships is an ambitious person, and he who is willing to bear hardships is not an idiot. Respect the gentleman and show virtue, but fear that the villain is incompetent. Retreat to the sky, three points calm. If you want to make progress, you need to think backwards. If you start thinking about letting go first, if you are proud, don't go back. Take more steps in everything.
"Sit still and think about yourself all the time. Gossip is not aimed at people." It means: calm down and always reflect on your mistakes before you can reject right and wrong and do good. Don't talk about other people's gains and losses when chatting, leave some room when doing things, and leave some lip service when speaking. This is an important moral cultivation method advocated by Confucianism.
Always sit down quietly and think about your own mistakes. Don't discuss others' right and wrong when talking to others. Those who can bear hardships are ambitious, and those who are willing to suffer losses are not stupid. Only by respecting a gentleman can you show your virtue. Sometimes it's not incompetent to be afraid of villains. If you have something to be proud of, don't always be happy, and leave room for everything.
The book "Motto Lian Bi" is a collection of sages' body and mind, which sets a good example for future generations, makes a detailed analysis and gives reason to feelings. The main contents of the book include learning, saving, holding a bow, taking photos (attached), appreciating goods, doing things, managing things, family, benefiting the good and rebellious. The so-called treasure raft for adults is also a ladder to hope for sages.