The love vows in "The Book of Songs", why don't you dare to elope with me?

What does the oath represent? People in love must have made many promises, big and small, but whether they were fulfilled later is another matter.

Just like the people who promised to be together forever may have become strangers now, but at least they were sincere at that time.

When it comes to oaths, "Heaven and Earth are united, so I dare to break up with you" in "Shangxie" is the most decisive. There is also a poem in the Book of Songs. This oath is full of helplessness and determination.

If you put aside the pressure and pressure that lovers cannot be together, Unfortunately, this vow is romantic.

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The sill of the large car is like a sill. Don’t you think about it? I don't dare to be afraid.

The cart is rolling, and the clothes are as naked as a feather. Don’t you think about it? Don't run if you are afraid of your son.

The grain is in a different room, and the death is in the same acupuncture point. Saying I don’t believe it is like the sun rising!

"Jianji" is an onomatopoeia, the sound made by the wheels of a cart. The cart moved forward slowly, with a carport made of blue felt. This poem may have been written by a man. It could also have been done by a woman, assuming it was done by a man.

The man said: "Do you think I don't miss you? It's just that you don't dare to fall in love with me. " From this conversation, it seems that it’s not that girls don’t love her, there may be more reasons.

There is a saying that a big car is a noble's car, so it may be due to status. The woman was strongly blocked and did not dare to fall in love with this man. Class and family status are likely to be unbridgeable gaps. So women dare not say love.

A day later, the man came again. The cart was heavy and slow, with a red hood. The man is full of passion and hopes that the girl will elope with him.

But the girl is still very hesitant. After all, what she leaves behind when she elopes is her parents and siblings, and she also has to suffer the social consequences. Ethical accusations.

Look at how the eloped woman is criticized in "Locust": "A person like Nai Ru is pregnant with a blind marriage. He has no faith and does not know his fate! " It is said that the woman who eloped did not follow the matchmaker's words, did not listen to her parents' words, and was not trustworthy and chaste.

Therefore, when a woman wants to elope, she faces much greater pressure than a man. This man also truly loves her. If he cannot be under the same roof while alive, he will be in the same tomb after death. Although this oath is loyal and unswerving, it is not a kind of sadness.

You can't stay together with the one you love. You can only think about sharing the same cave after death. If they really can't be together, how can they be in the same cave after death?

Like Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai, it is another tragedy of love. A man makes a lot of vows just to make a woman believe in his sincerity.

Want to escape together from this place that hinders their love. He said: "If you still don't believe it, let the sun be your witness."

Later, many people made such an oath. The poor blue falls into the underworld and stays with it.

Hurry up! Hurry me! Hurry me!