Why is the oath of love just a lie? Isn't it trustworthy?

Love is a poison. None of us want to drink poison, but we must try. Love is blind. First love is like a fire, which can't be extinguished. At that time, love was like an oath. I really thought I could love you forever, forever. Because love will paralyze you and make you feel only sweetness and happiness. However, not all love will have a result. Not all love lasts forever. At the beginning of love, their vows moved you so much. In fact, they are just the impulse of love. It's not fake, because they were in love at that time, and everyone thought that reality really looked like an oath. However, some love has a shelf life. Fire comes and goes quickly. It was left behind. All that's left is a scar. Therefore, the oath will be regarded as a lie. Because we have broken up, or the shelf life of love has come, the love in my heart is not so strong. In fact, true love doesn't need an oath. Saying vows is only to consolidate the original love. The deeper the oath, the deeper the scar. Therefore, there is no need for any oath. If you really love someone, just give it to him. After all, it's all over, just a memory. Why are you sad and unhappy about the vows you made for love on impulse? Not worth it! Really not worth it! Well, I wish you happiness and make that oath your best memory!