Everyone has only one life, and she is a woman who is loyal to us. We might as well try our best to guide her and enrich her, but no matter what she becomes in the end, we should at least love her.
When a person measures anything, what he values is their significance in his own life, not how many practical benefits they can bring to himself.
All the good things in life, the return is just around the corner. The reward of love is the intoxication and satisfaction when you are in love, not the marriage one day. The reward of creation is the intoxication and satisfaction of creation, not the fame of the world one day. If the thing itself can't give people a sense of intoxication and satisfaction, it is not good enough.
The meaning of life, happiness at the secular level, morality at the social level and belief at the transcendental level all depend on the attitude towards life.
For modern people who stay in front of the TV every night, the starry sky overhead does not exist at all.
Look at the sea, you must be alone. With others, you can't see the truth of the sea. People who paddle on the beach and close companions around them will become shelters, where your eyes and heart hide and escape the threat of return. You must have nowhere to run, and let inexplicable forces swallow you up. Time has disappeared, space has disappeared, human beings have disappeared, cities and civilizations have disappeared, and you have disappeared, or you have merged with the sea and merged into eternal desolation.
We might as well pursue the best-the best life, the best career, the best marriage, the best friendship, and so on. However, whether you can get the best depends on many factors, and you can't succeed by hard work alone. Therefore, if we try our best, the result is not the best, but the second best, and we must accept it frankly. Life is inherently flawed, and you need to compromise in life. Refusing to compromise and having a hard time with yourself is actually a kind of stupidity and ignorance of life.
Although there are countless leaves in the world, there will be countless leaves. Even if all the leaves will eventually wither, I still want to pull out my own green shoots.
From the psychological point of view, the reason why people need to be alone is for internal integration. The so-called integration is to put new experiences in the proper position of internal memory. Only through this integration process can foreign impressions be digested by themselves and the self become an independent and growing system. Therefore, the ability to be alone is related to whether a person can really form a relatively self-sufficient inner world, which in turn affects his relationship with the outside world.
The hobby of being alone has nothing to do with a person's personality. A person who likes to be alone may also be a lively person who likes friends, but no matter how happy he is to associate with others, solitude is always a necessity in his life.
Man is a gregarious animal. He needs to communicate with his peers, love and be loved, otherwise he can't survive. No one in the world can stand absolute loneliness. However, a person who can never stand loneliness is a person with an empty soul.
Reading is talking to the great souls in history, so as to take the spiritual wealth created by human beings as your own. Writing is a dialogue with one's own soul, thus transforming the external life experience into the internal spiritual wealth. Faith is talking to God in your heart, thus accumulating "heavenly wealth". These are three indispensable conversations in life, and all three conversations are conducted in solitude.
I want to make a principle for myself: every night, every weekend, and the end of each year belong to me only. In these days, I don't do anything to fulfill the contract, just read the books I want to read and write what I want to write. If I don't want to read or write, I will do nothing. I'd rather be idle than handle errands. There are endless errands, and the only way is to limit them artificially to ensure your free time.
With the growth of years, my life has become more and more spiritual.
Time is money, and life is simplified to making money and spending money as soon as possible.
One day is very short. I found in the morning that only a small part of the plan was completed in the evening. Life is too short. When I was young, to be honest, I found that I only realized a small part.
The most worth pursuing in life is Excellence and happiness.
Values are not abstract at all. When you get great happiness from the values you pursue and cherish, you will know that you are right, so you don't find it difficult to persist.
Excellence: a kind life, a rich mind, a free mind and a noble soul.
The most important part of everyone's life is the job he loves, through which he enters the world and stands in the world. With this job that he can devote himself to, his life has a core, and his whole life is organized into a whole around this core.
For people with different inner worlds, seemingly the same experience has completely different meanings, in fact, completely different.
Nothing in the world can take away what you have experienced.
There is one thing in the world that is more loyal to you than anything else, and that is your experience. The days in your life, the people and things you meet in them, the joys, sorrows, feelings and thoughts brought by these experiences belong to you only, and cannot be transferred to anyone else, even those closest to you. This is your most precious wealth, as long as you cherish it, it will be your most reliable wealth, and no one can take it away. On the contrary, if you don't cherish it, it will be lost with the years and can't be found anywhere in the world. Because of this, I have always advocated that everyone develop the habit of keeping a diary.
How to determine whether a career is suitable for you? 1 Strong interest, even to the point where you have to do it without giving money; Have a clear sense of meaning and be sure that your life value has been realized; I can feed myself on it.
The little troubles in life are not worth mentioning, and the great pain is hard to say.
If a person doesn't think about the big problems in life, won't he live happier? In fact, it is not because of thinking that it hurts, but because of pain. Whether you want this kind of question is not your choice, it is basically determined by your natural endowment. Most people who are already thinking about this kind of problem are sensitive and serious by nature. He didn't want to think about it deliberately, but he couldn't help himself.
Almost everyone will have such a fit in childhood and adolescence, and his self-awareness will gradually awaken. Suddenly one day, he will understand that he will die like everyone else sooner or later. This is an extremely painful inner experience. Like an earthquake, the happiness and confidence of life are shaken and even collapsed. Thinking that your existence in this world is only temporary and will disappear one day may lead to fundamental doubts about the meaning of life.
My expectation for children-1,peace. If you think the environment around him is full of accidents, this wish is almost extravagant. 2 Healthy growth of body and mind. As for what she will do in the future and whether she will achieve anything, I don't want to care, and I don't want to care. Everything will be natural.
One day, man suddenly found himself an orphan on the earth, so he gave birth to a father-God.
Since then, a person has become a hopeless thinker and scholar. No matter what career you are engaged in in in the future, you can't change your habits and hobbies of learning, thinking and research, and you can admit that you have received a college education.
The original meaning of education is to awaken the soul and make it exist in various scenes of life.
The measure of a book's value to me is whether I can't help writing something after reading it, even if what I want to write seems to have nothing to do with it. It gave me an atmosphere, a state of mind, and made me feel that I was in a suitable climate, so the seeds hidden in my heart sprouted and broke ground.
I have lived, felt, thought and recorded some things I have experienced. More things have existed before I realized it, still sleeping and wonton. When reading, because of * * *, because of struggle, and even because of distraction, the deep sleep is awakened and chaos becomes clear. For me, one of the greatest pleasures of reading is self-discovery and knowing that I still have such good things.