Yu Xiuhua's first marriage was arranged by his parents. Because of her disability, her parents married her to a man much older than her. She has no feelings for this man. So after the divorce, I gave my ex-husband a sum of money and quickly walked out of that failed marriage. Since then, she has been longing for her own happiness. Although she is physically disabled, her heart is very active and sensitive. She longed for love, so she met a lover much younger than herself.
As for why Yu Xiuhua chose a man 14 years younger than herself as a partner, it was because this man brought him the romance she wanted. Therefore, in the face of love, she has not considered age. Yu Xiuhua feels that he has found a person who has been entrusted with his life, but there is still a certain gap between his real life and his ideal. Women look forward to love no matter what age. Let her not get the love she wants from her ex-husband. She hoped that I could find longing in this man 14 years younger than myself. Two people are not married, but it can be seen that there are many photos of two people falling in love on the platform. This can also prove that these two people were once in love.
A writer has a romantic soul. From Yu Xiuhua's poems, we can see her different understanding of the value of life. Therefore, in Yu Xiuhua's eyes, what we are troubled by the secular is not choice at all. Choosing a man 14 years younger than himself, Yu Xiuhua himself did not consider these secular reasons. Perhaps that pure love gave her infinite courage and strength.