Pushkin's wife

1October 29th, the heart of Pushkin, a great Russian poet, stopped beating. When this unfortunate news came from Moika 12, people could hardly believe their ears: How did Pushkin die? However, the God of Destiny played a big joke and recalled the talented poet "The Sun of Russian Poetry", who was only 37 years old, to heaven, leaving people with infinite sorrow and regret. The fall of this great genius is a great loss to the world's poetry circles, so I come to trace his life, trace his life footprint, consult a lot of materials, and give the unknown a real treat. Among the sad people, there is a special person. She is Pushkin's beautiful young wife, Na Dalia Goncharova Pushkin, who is only 24 years old. At this moment, she not only has to bear the pain and blow of losing her husband, but also bears the bad words of people. People blamed her and even cursed her. It was her frivolous behavior that led to the duel between Pushkin and Dundees, so that her husband died at the gunpoint of his rival in love. Unharmonious Marriage The combination of Pushkin and Nadalia, according to China's traditional viewpoint and the standard of "perfect match", can be said to be a perfect match. 1830, Pushkin's reputation as a poet reached its peak. At this time, 18-year-old Nadalia is like a rose that has just opened. She is bright and fragrant, and everyone wants to pick it. Pushkin was fascinated by her. How many girls had been infatuated with him before, but none of them distracted him so much as Nadalia. There is a saying in China that a hero is sad. Although Pushkin was a great poet, he had to fall at his feet. 1828 After his first proposal was rejected, 1830 he proposed again and finally realized his dream. In fact, this marriage was pregnant with an unfortunate seed from the beginning. According to modern interpretation, there is no * * * relationship between Pushkin and his wife with the same language. For Pushkin, poetry is an important part of his life and everything to him. Other than that, he has nothing. But for Nadalia, poetry is like a boring official document. She is not interested at all, and of course she doesn't understand. Every time Pushkin recited her new poem, she shouted: Pushkin, I've heard enough of your poem. On one occasion, several friends came to Pushkin's house. They are reading Pushkin's new book together, and Nadalia is there. When people asked her if reading influenced her, she said politely, read yours, I won't listen anyway. This shows her indifference to poetry. After marriage, Pushkin was in trouble. Although he has a beautiful wife around him, it satisfies his possessiveness and vanity. But it is not easy to win the favor of this beautiful woman, and it takes a lot of energy, time and money. In order to maintain a decent life after marriage, Pushkin had to borrow money to live. So that when Nadalia, who came back late from dancing, was still sleeping in bed, the doorbell of the creditor who came to collect debts rang at the door. Pushkin owes money to everyone: the timber merchant, the milk seller, the bread seller, the carriage repairman and his own servant. He owed 777 rubles to the wine account, 450 rubles to the tailor, 3,364 rubles to the female fashion designer to make clothes for Na Dalia, and the same amount to the bookseller. In the first four years of his marriage, his debt had reached 60 thousand rubles. In the next two years, it is not to pay off the previous debts, but to owe more and more. It has reached120,000 rubles before dying. Debt is on Pushkin's head, and entertainment makes him lose valuable writing time. He felt more and more mental pressure and his spirit was in trouble. Pushkin wrote painfully in a letter to his good friend Nashkin: "I have no time to feel lonely because of my worries about life. I didn't have time to write freely when I was single. " My wife is very fashionable, and all this needs money. And I can only make money by writing. But writing requires silence and solitude. ............................................................................................................................................ ............................. faced such a wife, Pushkin wrote painfully again: "What kind of helper and worker are you? Your job is just to dance at the ball and help men spend money. " Poor Pushkin! Although Nadalia is a housewife, she has no other responsibilities except sleeping with Pushkin and having children. Even the children's education is mostly in the charge of her second sister Alexandra. Among the three sisters, Nadalia is the youngest, the most beautiful and the earliest to get married. Alexandra, on the other hand, is ugly and knows that she can only be a foil, so she seldom goes out to social occasions. However, although he is not beautiful, he is smart and capable. He worships Pushkin. She volunteered to shoulder the burden of managing the family for her sister. Pushkin got the care and love that his wife should have given him from her, and realized some exchanges in thoughts and emotions. Unfortunate Pushkin! Anonymous Letter 1836 1 1 On the morning of April 4th, Pushkin received a paper bag. I opened it and found three membership cards sent to him by the "Green Hat Association". The certificate says: the cuckolded winner of the highest medal, the knights and knights gathered in the medal bureau. Under the auspices of the distinguished Chairman naresh King, it was unanimously agreed to appoint Pushkin as assistant to the Chairman and researcher of medal history. Signed: Permanent Secretary-Polci. In addition, in the morning, Vyazemski, Gorschi, Vasily Czekova and others also received the same anonymous letter. Suddenly, gossip spread all over Petersburg, and Pushkin became the laughing stock of the upper class and the object of ridicule. Even at a party, a young man named Togo Erukov put two fingers on the back of Pushkin's head to make a claw shape, which means "wearing a hat". Is it true that someone deliberately framed Pushkin? Maybe! But as the saying goes, there is no smoke without fire. How beautiful is Pushkin's wife, Na Dalia? How charming is she? Bo Gu, Pushkin's good friend, described it this way: "I have met many beautiful women in my life, and I have met women who are more charming than Pushkin. But I have never seen such a perfect combination of a classical and dignified face and a well-proportioned figure. Tall figure, A slender waist .................................................................................................................................................. ....................... No wonder, even women selected from the most beautiful women will be eclipsed in front of her. I fell in love with her the first time I saw her. It must be admitted that there was not a young man in Petersburg at that time who did not secretly admire Pushkin. Her brilliant beauty and magical name are intoxicating. I know some young people who are very confident that they are in love with Pushkin. Not only those who have only seen Pushkin once, but also those young people who have never seen Pushkin at all. " As can be seen from this description, Pushkin's wife is really beautiful, and her beautiful appearance has invincible charm. This is a woman that everyone loves. Pushkin took care of and showed off from the very beginning in his six-year marriage with Nadalia, and was proud to get such a beautiful woman as his wife. By virtue of his reputation as a talented poet, he introduced his wife to friends, queens and czars, and brought her into the upper class and social circle of Petersburg, which aroused people's amazement. People marveled at the perfect match of this pair of "perfect talents and beautiful women". However, everyone loves beauty. Pushkin loves beauty, so do other men, and Tsar Nicholas I loves beauty more. As Pushkin took his wife to more and more dances, Nadalia's charm became more and more obvious. At first, she made friends with dignitaries through Pushkin's name and enjoyed the honor of being the wife of the first poet. But soon, her charming aura has surpassed her husband's reputation as a poet. Now, at all kinds of dances, people are no longer talking about Pushkin and his poems, but his wife and her beauty. People like her, worship her, love her and even yearn for her. After all the stars are holding the moon and many men are courting, Nadalia has fainted. She began to accept the attentions of all men, regardless of flirting with them in front of her husband. Especially after the appearance of Dundees, the adopted son of the "handsome prince" Dutch minister, her unruly behavior became more obvious, and sometimes even reached the point of bohemian. Nadalia and Dante, I don't know who fell in love with whom first. Maybe it was love at first sight. Dantè s, a tall man with a beautiful face, has two big rough and brave eyes protruding slightly forward. Very confident, lively, humorous, happy and witty, he is a lovely young man, the same age as Nadalia. In Petersburg circle, Pushkin began to like him because of his lively personality. The tsar loved him, and the women loved him like the apple of their eye, grabbing him from one person's arms to another's. His success in trading is comparable to Nadalia's. In this respect, they can be said to be a natural couple. Dundees used his status as a foreigner, the trust of the czar and the people's love for him to boldly pursue women, especially Na Dalia. Nadalia was also attracted by his youthful charm, so instead of refusing and stopping his pursuit and licentiousness, she was happy to accept it. This situation lasted for two years, and Nadalia's indiscretions became more and more outrageous. Those close friends tried to persuade her to be smart and sensible, and flirting with Dantè s would not have a good result. But every time I hear the following answer: I feel happy with him, and I just like him. Please rest assured that nothing will happen, just like these two years. This is 1836 when Pushkin received an anonymous letter, Nadalia and her performance. As for whether Nadalia is closely related to Tsar Nicholas I, it is hard to say, but I think, as mentioned above, Nadalia's behavior is enough to make people think that she has put Pushkin on a "green hat". Pushkin has been on pins and needles since he received the anonymous letter. In order to defend his dignity and his wife's honor, he resolutely decided to challenge Dante-duel. For Pushkin, honor is above everything else. After receiving Pushkin's challenge, Dentis's adoptive father, Gerenton Sr, the Dutch minister, felt the seriousness of the problem. He realized that seme had gone too far. At the same time, he also knows what Pushkin means to Russia. Dueling, no matter what the outcome, is unpleasant. Therefore, he began to run around and mediate in many ways to avoid this tragedy. As a result, Dantè s was arranged to marry Dalia's elder sister Yekaterina, and the wedding was held on 1837 1 month 1 day. At least on the surface, it gives the impression that Dantè s is not chasing Na Dalia, but her sister yekaterina, thus withdrawing Pushkin's challenge and saving his honor. Dundees played an unfortunate role in this marriage. Yekaterina is not only ugly, but also six years older than him. Dantè s's psychology is so unbalanced that even the Queen is indignant for him: "I sympathize with him. Is he a generosity or a sacrifice? " "A storm seems to have just passed, followed by a sunny day. In fact, there is a bigger storm. After Dundees married yekaterina, he used his brother-in-law's legal status to catch up with Nadalia more boldly. As long as there is Nadalia, there is him, Dante. He openly and defiantly drank to the health of Na Dalia, invited to dance, and spoke loudly with praise. Not only that, he also dated himself alone through someone else's appointment with Nadalia, monologued his love, and threatened the other party with suicide. In the face of Dante's attack, Nadalia sank deeper and deeper. She didn't realize how dangerous her game was and how serious the consequences were. She even ignored her husband's order to forbid her to attend all young people's parties, and still went her own way and paraded through the city. As Sofia karamzin wrote in her letter to her brother, "I tell you the tragedy that happened last Wednesday with a heavy heart. That day, that moment had a sad ending. Poor thing. What a mental shock he has suffered in the past three months since he received that despicable anonymous letter that day! It was this anonymous letter, at least on the surface, that caused this tragedy ... but the specific reason for the duel was thought to be at the Vorontsov family's party last Saturday. Pushkin's anger reached its limit when he saw his wife and Dantè s laughing and dancing Waltz. And this careless woman doesn't mind seeing Dante again at McClairsky's house on Sunday and at Vyazemski's house on Monday! Faced with such a "virtuous" wife and rogue's brother-in-law, Pushkin, even if he has a gift for poetry, is of no help at this time. He has no choice but to fight! So, he challenged the duel again and determined the extremely cruel conditions: the distance between the two sides was only ten steps. After the two sides failed to hit each other for the first time, they continued to duel until one side fell to the ground. It seems that Putin is really desperate. (All the latest information about the game comes from bbs.7gg.net) 1 8371On Wednesday, 27th, a duel was held in Montenegro, not far from Farewell Castle. Thus, the situation at the beginning of this article appeared. The great poet died and his wife was reviled by people. She killed Pushkin. Pushkin became a victim of her beautiful appearance and frivolous behavior. . (The latest information of all the games is in bbs.7gg.net)