Bi Shumin, female, born in Yining, Xinjiang in October 1952, is a member of the Communist Party of China, a national first-class writer, an attending physician in internal medicine, vice chairman of the Beijing Writers Association, a Master of Arts in Beijing Normal University, and a psychology major. Completed a doctoral program and is a registered psychological counselor. The following is an excerpt of Bi Shumin's prose that I brought to you. Welcome to read.
1. "Sure Face": Yes, I am not beautiful. But being naked is not just for beautiful women, but a lifestyle that all women can choose.
Look around us. Every tree, every blade of grass, every flower has no make-up. Facing the scorching sun, facing the wind and snow, they are natural and natural. They will age and wither, but aging and withering are also a reality. As the leader of all things, why should human beings hide themselves behind powder and oil paint?
We all age. I look at my age calmly, like looking at a pair of white sails approaching in the distance. Why should I hide this reality? Covering up is not only futile, it is first of all a kind of weakness. Confidence is not inversely proportional to age, just like confidence is not directly proportional to beauty. Courage is not stored in your face, but in your own hands. Cosmetics are just some polymer compounds, some fruit juices and some animal fats. They have nothing to do with human confidence and courage. Just like a building needs steel and iron frames to support it, not just a few flashy bamboo poles.
I believe that a smile without makeup is more pure and beautiful, I believe that a look without makeup is more frank and sincere, and I believe that a woman without makeup has the courage to face life head-on. If it's not for work, if it's not for etiquette. I will never wear makeup in my life.
2. "Reminder of Happiness": In short, happiness is a moment without pain. The frequency of his appearance is not less than we imagine. People often just pick up the golden mane on the ground when the golden carriage of happiness drives far away and say, "I have seen it before." People like specimens that are happy, but they ignore the moments when happiness is covered with dew and exudes fragrance. At that time, we often walked in a hurry, looking forward and backward, not knowing what we were busy with. In the world, some people predict typhoons, some predict locusts, some predict plagues, some predict earthquakes, but no one predicts happiness.
3. Real reading can happen in the noisy world, or it can be located in the cold desert. It can be in a bustling city with bright lights and green lights, or it can be on an island with dancing moonlight. No matter how many pairs of eyes are around, no matter how noisy the decibel level is, true reading is destined to be lonely. (Reading is a kind of loneliness)
4. Excellent girls have the mission of purifying the soul. Like alum, they make the world clear. Their blood lubricates the wheels like oil. History moves forward with difficulty. Scroll forward. Women's kindness is the source of human warmth. (Looking for excellent women)
5. Reading classics should not be done at a happy time. People often cannot read books when they are happy. Happiness is a pink smoke that tends to make our eyes short-sighted. There are very few words of praise for luck in famous books. They are more like pearls secreted by the clam of suffering. (Reading is a kind of loneliness)
6. A kind-hearted, wise and courageous woman must dare to sing and walk alone in the dark wilderness, and must dare to cross the wild ferry without bridges, boats and crows. , swimming across the river like a mermaid. (Looking for outstanding women)
7. Reading is a kind of spiritual massage. In the pages of the book, you can smell the tears of tragedy, touch the smiles of comedy, and see the wrinkles on the foreheads of wise men. Dare to collide with the bloody wounds of warriors... (Reading is a kind of loneliness)
8. Women's feelings are like a cold spring that accumulates slowly. Every time you take away a handful, you will lose a handful. There is no way to speed it up. flow. If you hurt the spring, the water will dry up in an instant. So women sometimes seem inexplicable. A man's heart is like a walnut. The exterior is so hard, but once the shell is smashed, there are twists and turns of flashbacks inside, which are so delicate that they are beyond imagination. A woman's heart is like a plum blossom. Savor it carefully, it has such a complex taste. Bite open the core, and there is a bitter kernel with all five flavors hidden inside. (The difference between men and women)
9. Love is afraid of hesitation. Love is shy and clever. If you are not careful, it will take the bait and run away. The beginning of love is often a weak and boneless collision and a graceful gravity. Being able to identify one's true love keenly in the very early stages of love is an ability and even more courageous. If you love a career, you will devote yourself to it regardless of your own health. If you love someone, pursue him resolutely. If you love a nation, you will devote yourself to it with all your might. If you love a career, you will work hard for it. If you love a belief, you will never regret it until death. (What are you afraid of)
10. Experience can so easily shape a person's feelings and experiences. When we are isolated from happiness for too long, when we indulge too deeply in misery, we are often at a loss in front of happiness. This strange feeling instinctively makes us reject and resist. When we regard pathology as normality, normality becomes a scourge. (Endure happiness)
11. Love needs to be expressed, like an electrical appliance that runs out too quickly and needs to be recharged every day. Describing love repeatedly and freshly is a brave and wise art. (What is love afraid of)
12. Happiness itself is warm and comfortable, cheerful and bright, soft and clear, and at the same time intense and impactful.
(endure happiness)
13. Just as there are no eternal enemies, there are no eternal lovers. Lovers rise with the new sun every day. The more emotional the love, the easier it is to go rancid. Just like delicious broth, if it is not boiled every day, it will quickly breed bacteria and even go bad. (Thousands of husbands)
14. Happiness is a dance of freedom and tranquility of the soul. Happiness is a bath that gives people the joy of loving themselves and enjoying love at the same time. Happiness is physical and mental comfort and harmony. Relaxation, happiness is a harmonious tranquility. (Endure happiness)
15. Women should not place their happiness in life on the careful selection of men before marriage, thinking that choice is everything. (Thousands of husbands)
16. Anger is one of the normal human emotions. A life without anger is incomplete. (Cherish anger)
17. Happiness is a tremor of the soul. Like an ear that listens to music, it needs constant training. (Reminding happiness)
18. Many things in the world are bound to be harmful if they are too precise. Companion is basically a fuzzy math problem, and you must be sloppy when you should be sloppy. (Thousands of husbands)
19. People like to reminisce about the specimens of happiness, but ignore the moments when happiness sheds dew and fragrance. At that time, we often walked in a hurry, looking forward and backward without knowing what we were busy with. (Reminding happiness)
20. Softness is a quality and style. It is not a loss of principles, but a kind of persistence at a higher level, an art that has never been used with swords and swords, but still maintains dignity. Gentleness is the harmonious unity of inner principles and outer elasticity. Gentleness is the humility of being open-minded and the communication of warmth and coldness. (Soft)
21. Happiness is mostly simple, it will not flash red light like a signal bomb in the high sky. It is wrapped in its true color and wraps us up in kindness and warmth. (Reminder of happiness)
22. Joy can be disguised, sorrow can be disguised, happiness can be whitewashed, loneliness and melancholy can seep into the water, but pain is pure gold. It is the spark of pain when iron and stone collide, a double-edged sword forged at the cost of human life force. (Cherish anger)
23. We must be more vigilant about happiness, and when it comes, enjoy every minute passionately. According to research by scientists, the results of intentional attention are much better than those of unintentional attention. (Reminding happiness)
24 "Creating the Heart": The border of the heart can be made very big, like the most malleable gold foil, covering the entire universe, covering the sun and the moon, without a single dark cloud. It can cover the vast territory of the soul; no earthquake or volcano can completely cover the magnificent architecture of the soul; no storm can freeze the hot springs gushing deep in the soul; no natural disaster or man-made disaster can make the fields of the heart harvestless in autumn. . The size of the heart can also be reduced to a very small size. It can only accommodate one family, one person, one sesame seed, and one drop of virus. A trace of rain drowned him; a ray of wind shattered him; a rumor made him miserable; a conspiracy made him doomed.
A good heart does not have to be gorgeous, but it must be strong. Because there are too many squeezes and blows in life, you will meet the lonely soul on a narrow road in the dark. If there is no careful special design, a simple heart will be easily hurt and unable to recover, and may never be able to survive again. Without the ability to heal yourself, there is an undefended door. A small wound will drain all the blood from the body, and a spark of gunpowder will burn down the stretching castle.