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It was the first time I read a complete novel in English. I was very resistant at the beginning and gradually became interested because of the storyline, which lasted for nearly a month. Because it was written by the Russian writer Turgenev, some of the English is mixed with English that looks similar to vernacular, and there are also some quotations from poetry and descriptions of scenery, which is difficult to understand.
Maybe I am not a man, so I cannot experience the unforgettable feeling of first love described by the author. When I was young, it was very easy to fall in love with someone. I just took a few furtive glances at a woman while walking out of boredom. I was so moved that I lost my heart and soul. Maybe a woman who combines beauty and talent can always Easily win the admiration of men.
Before reading this book, I thought that first love was the first time a man and a woman formally agreed to date together. After reading this book, I realized that first love also includes wishful thinking, and also includes all hidden inner feelings. Metaphorical emotions.
First love is always extremely simple and beautiful. Every smile and every frown of the other person is the most beautiful scenery in your eyes. Whenever the other person frowns or smiles bitterly, he will be startled or disturbed. Love is more beautiful than sincerity.
My favorite plot is the time when young people get together to play games. After a long day of work, the young guys have a free place to relax, and everyone tries their best to win the beauty. , everyone spoke freely and had a great time chatting, making readers intoxicated and lingering in their thoughts.
The biggest twist in the article is not that the male protagonist’s father and the female protagonist are getting along, but that in the end the female protagonist finally finds the person who entrusts her life to her. She thought she could live a stable and peaceful life, but she died in childbirth. Some people say that beauties have bad luck, while some people say that it is fate. The male protagonist does not hate his father because of this, he still respects and loves him. The most touching thing is that before his death, his father begged his mother to give the heroine a large amount of money. The mother still sent the money to the heroine after his father died. This may be love in the true sense.
Before his death, his father told the hero to be wary of women and love. Maybe his father was also upset and melancholy, but when love came, he got out of hand. Thoughts after reading "First Love" 2
During the summer vacation, I was fortunate to read "First Love", a collection of Russian love novellas. Many of them were written by famous writers. It gave me the opportunity to have a glimpse of the love, values ??and outlook on life in a foreign country. They The styles are diverse and have their own characteristics. Some are profound, some are delicate, some are bitter satire, and some are angry attacks, which have benefited me a lot.
The first is Gogol's "Niva Prospekt". The novel describes the painter Piskarev's persistent pursuit of love and beauty. However, the writer focused on portraying the image of Mudwa Street. He is the flower of the capital, beautiful, noble, refined, and prosperous on the surface, but in his heart he is so hypocritical, despicable, dirty, and cold. The kind-hearted and gullible Piskarev had no experience in the world and was deceived by the illusion. Once he found out that the beautiful scenery he dreamed of was so ugly, he had no choice but to commit suicide in despair. However, the vulgar men of Piro and his ilk are at ease in this colorful world, and they continue to live in debauchery and have fun. Niva Prospekt is a microcosm of old Petersburg and even Russia as a whole. Gogol ruthlessly criticized this sinful world with his unique pungent satire, and earnestly warned his readers: "Everything is a deception, everything is a dream, everything is different from what it seems on the surface!" Don't believe this "Niva Street!"
Then Odoevsky's "Princess Gigi" created a female image that is both tender and sensitive to resistance. Whether she is sacrificing her own happiness for her loved ones or seeking legal action to expose a liar, the upper class always fabricates lies to slander her. She had to live in seclusion and live alone. Of course, there are honest people who sympathize with her. When the God of Love finally knocks on her door, her youth has passed away, and it is difficult for lovers to get married.
Reading this article after article, I seem to be in that sinister and hypocritical world, where true love is hard to find and a confidant is hard to find. Especially when I read Pavlov's "Name Day", I felt that the blood in my body was boiling. An artistic genius, just because he is a serf, becomes in the eyes of his master a machine that can play the piano, or even a bet on the card table; and just because he is a serf, he is despised by the wealthy lady who swears by him. He went through hardships and regained his freedom. When he reappeared in front of her, she had become someone else's beloved wife. This love tragedy was caused by serfdom. The male protagonist who has been frustrated by love is uncharacteristically uncharacteristically emotional when he mentions women. He is full of anger and eloquent: "Only those who are hopeless and extremely naive can expect to get happiness from women. Women are naturally fragile and cannot be loyal to one person in their lives." A feeling that cannot consistently pursue a goal.
Women are always at the mercy of others, so how can you trust someone who lacks independent opinions? A woman can fall madly in love with one person and then marry another person because her grandmother, mother, and aunt can persuade her... "It's sad that couples who love each other deeply can't be together.
The old system’s ideas of buying and selling marriages, the concept of family status, and the inferiority of men to women make people live under heavy shackles, unable to be free and unable to love at will. Therefore, I can’t help but think of the ancient Chinese feudal system, and how the society at that time treated love differently. So, from the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl to the Peacock Flying Southeast to the Butterfly Lovers and the Dream of Red Mansions, these are surprisingly similar even though they are in a foreign land. Those shocking and shocking scenes have been replayed in my mind for a long time, and I can't get rid of them... " After reading "First Love" 3
He and she were childhood sweethearts
When he was 4 years old, he started to like her.
When he was in school, she was wronged. Go find him, no classmates will bully her anymore.
At the age of 18, they agreed to go to the same university, attend class together every day, and go to the school cafeteria to eat together. She would still go to him when she was unhappy. He regarded him as his big brother.
At the age of 19, he said to her: "Be my girlfriend. "She nodded and agreed, feeling happy.
At the age of 21, they broke up. She asked him in tears: "Are you really in love with another girl? " ? He nodded, a little helpless. ? She asked again: "Is she very beautiful? ? He replied lightly: Are you sure that we are the most suitable? I don't want to give such a beautiful youth to just one person. You Don’t you want to try other men besides me?” After graduation, they had no contact.
At the age of 25, she became a popular female anchor, and he also worked as a translator for a TV station. Over the years, he had been in love one after another, and every time a relationship ended, he would think of her.
At the age of 26, she got married, but she felt very tired and wanted to find a shoulder to lean on. ?He would carefully avoid her programs because he was afraid of seeing her on TV. ?She has a good career, but she is a woman whose life is in a mess and cannot do housework. Even though there was a nanny at home, her husband was still dissatisfied with her. ?One night, they had a fight and she drove out to walk around the street all night. For some reason, she thought of him and suddenly burst into tears.
At the age of 29, she was divorced.
When he was 31 years old, he found her phone number and was overcome with depression. This was already the tenth year since they broke up. ?Ten years can change a person a lot, and his views on things are completely different.
At the age of 31, he met her in the lobby of the hotel. The past was vivid in his mind. After all the twists and turns in these years, we all know that there are not many emotions worth cherishing in life. The two spent ten years of their youth making a big circle and returning to the starting point. ?32 years old, they got married. ?I am very happy after marriage. Because she experienced a failed marriage, she already knew how to feel sorry for a man; he cherished this recurring love even more. If it weren't for these 10 years of experience, they probably wouldn't understand the importance of this relationship to each other. First love is the first test paper of love. Many times, we think that there will be a better person later. As everyone knows, sometimes the best is standing right in front of you. If you miss a stop, sometimes you will miss a lifetime.
In fact, there are some things that you should not try, because one attempt may cause indelible scars for your life. If you really want to try, you must have the courage to bear the consequences. , if you are not sure and have no courage, don't make fun of your own happiness. A person must be able to control his own happiness, see his own future, and not betray himself to the present. The male and female protagonists in the story have sold themselves to the present. The two spent ten years of youth trying their own feelings, but they There are several decades that can be used to find your own feelings and your own destination.
We don’t have so many decades to find our own destination. The only thing we can do is to grasp everyone around us, cherish the good times with them, and don’t let our boldness and ignorance cover our eyes and cannot see the road ahead. Whether it is friends, lovers, or parents, we should not use our willfulness and pride to hurt them. These are not things we can try. I think No one will have the courage to try. There are not so many ten years in life to tell us what decision is right and what decision is wrong.
Friends, take care of everyone around you, tell them how much you care about them, and tell them that you will cherish them. Thoughts after reading "First Love" 4
I am used to thinking too big about myself! In fact, I am nothing at all! Nothing, just a loser! In the movie, the protagonist looks stupid, but I don’t know how many times better than me.
I can’t do the things he did. His simplicity makes me heartache. I used to live like that stupidly every day. But I didn’t know that I had become dirty since that day! Faced with such a heartless self, I have never changed.
I once had dreams, but now they are just illusions. Numb to life and disappointed with reality.
I have never truly owned my love, I have always put my friendship first, and I have never cherished my family affection! The movie fully explains that actions are always 10,000 times stronger than words, family love will always be closest to you in the end, and love is always the most heartbreaking!
After reading this, I thought of too many people. The first thing I thought of was Si. She is the one who hurts me the most! But that was only once. What I want more is to cherish the present! My life is still long, and I will let it go through completely.
Haha, Chinese is so bad. Thoughts after reading "First Love" 5
He and she were childhood sweethearts. At the age of 4, he started to like her. When she was 9 years old and still in school, she would go to him when she was wronged, and no classmates would bully her anymore. When they were 18 years old, they agreed to enter the same university, attend classes together every day, and go to the school cafeteria to eat together. When she is unhappy, she will still go to him and treat him as her big brother. When he was 19 years old, he said to her: "Be my girlfriend." She nodded and agreed, feeling happy.
At the age of 21, they broke up. She asked him in tears: "Are you really in love with another girl?" He nodded, a little helpless. She asked again: "Is she beautiful?" He replied calmly: Are you sure that we are the most suitable? I don't want to give such a beautiful youth to just one person. Don’t you want to try other men besides me?” After graduation, they had no contact. At the age of 25, she became a popular female anchor, and he also worked as a translator for a TV station. Over the years, he fell in love Another scene, every time a relationship ends, I will think of her.
At the age of 26, she got married, but she just felt very tired and really wanted to find a shoulder to lean on. He would be very careful about her show. He was afraid of seeing her on TV. She had a good career, but her life was in a mess. Even though she had a nanny at home, her husband was still dissatisfied with her. One night, they had a fight. She drove around the street all night, and for some reason, she suddenly burst into tears when she thought of him. When she was 29 and divorced, he found her phone number and called her out of depression. This is the tenth year since they broke up. Ten years can change a person a lot, and his views on things are completely different.
When he was 31 years old, he met her in the hotel lobby. When they met, the past was still vivid in their minds. After these years of twists and turns, they both knew that there were not many emotions worth cherishing in life. The two spent ten years of youth and came back to the starting point at the age of 32. Married. Very happy after marriage. Because she has experienced a failed marriage, she has learned how to love a man; he cherishes the love that comes over and over again. If it hadn't been for these 10 years, they probably wouldn't know this. The importance of love to each other. First love is the first test paper of love. Many times, we think that there will be a better person behind us. However, sometimes the best is right in front of us, and sometimes we miss it. Missed a lifetime.
In fact, you should not try some things, because one attempt may cause indelible scars for your life. If you really want to try, you must be able to The courage to bear the consequences. If you are not sure and don't have the courage, don't make fun of your own happiness. A person must be able to control his own happiness, see his own future, and don't sell himself to the present. Both the male and female protagonists in the story. They have betrayed themselves to the present, and the two have spent ten years of their youth trying out their own feelings. However, they have several decades to use to find their own feelings and find their own destination.
We don’t have it either. After so many years of searching for our own destination, the only thing we can do is to grasp everyone around us, cherish the good times with them, and don't let our boldness and ignorance cover our eyes, making us unable to see. On the road ahead, whether it is friends, lovers, or parents, we should not use our willfulness and pride to hurt them. These are not things we can try. I don’t think anyone will have the courage to try. Life There are not so many ten years to tell us what decisions are right and what decisions are wrong.
Friends, grasp everyone around you and tell them how much you care about them. Tell them. You will cherish them very much. Thoughts after reading "First Love" 6
During the festive season, I miss my loved ones more and look up at the bright moon and miss my old friends.
We have passed each other for eighteen years, but we are lovers like relatives.
Before the Double Ninth Festival comes, I would like to express my feelings of nostalgia and longing for my first love more than 20 years ago. This cannot but be said to be: I can’t help it, and it is definitely not accidental.
When we first fell in love, we all didn’t understand love. Now when we understand love, the boat has passed the Ten Thousand Mountains, and the yin and yang are two heavens.
As the saying goes, happy families are all alike, and unhappy families are each unhappy in their own way. The concept of family is nothing more than a world between a man and a woman, plus a house, which is the most basic component. However, the family is also the birthplace of conflicts. Old conflicts were resolved and new ones emerged. The law of life is that the emergence and resolution of conflicts proceed step by step.
I found that longing for lovesickness relies on imagination, and a new life that has not yet been realized is a happy ending.
The moon in the evening is so beautiful! After reading "First Love" 7
"First Love in Huaibei" is really not like a novel, but more like documentary literature. From the article, I realized that the author's memories and nostalgia for first love are more torture. The novel is over He also let it go, and this relationship finally came to an end. The emotion that was originally like distilled water, if it weren't for that ending, I would think it was very beautiful. Many things in the world sometimes taint the beautiful emotions. It's really: it's not as good as meeting each other. Miss you. Which successful man would want to see a down-and-out woman wearing a big cotton-padded jacket and a headscarf selling firecrackers on the streets of a county town in the twelfth lunar month? And this woman was still the school beauty twenty years ago, the girl who was extremely beautiful back then - the most beautiful first love in my heart, in life! Unpredictable.
The ending of the novel is both unexpected and reasonable. I find it difficult to accept this ending. If I saw my favorite like this, I would definitely crawl into the cracks in the ground. Although I am not a vain woman, would the ground open up in such a timely manner? Haha! Thoughts 8 after reading "First Love"
No one will forget the beauty in their memory after reading "First Love". Everyone has the youth of 17 years old. Maybe many people have experienced the kind of first love and... There is no lover who enters the siege. Just like the emotional story in "The North Wind Blows", it's not that you don't love, it's that the situation is playing tricks on you, it's not that you want to love, but that the current situation is too real. "First Love" faces life directly, and faces the situations and thoughts of people in various living conditions in the world. Realm, I believe that everyone who reads "First Love" by the modern Japanese writer Genji Kita, which has a very lively atmosphere, will be moved by the touching emotional story. You will sincerely admire every character in it and have to sigh that there is no world in the world. Yukichiyo, a beautiful girl with many good people, is so smart, pure and kind, and knows how to repay kindness with a drop of water, but she is in a miserable situation, forced by life, and unfortunately becomes a geisha, and later gets the love of Ganmaru Shohei's mother Helped Congliang marry into a good family.
When Yanmaru Shohei was a boy, his feelings for his lover were so pious and serious. Even in Tokyo, in middle age, thirty years later, he has become a manager and has three children. He still puts his first love in a very important position in his heart and maintains that very subtle feeling of confidant. Yanmaru Shohei's mother deserves to be the wife of a politician. When Yanmaru Shohei's father was killed by a political opponent when Shohei was ten years old, When a hired assassin plots against her, she takes on the dual responsibilities of being a parent and a parent. When her children go astray, her education methods are so wise and strategic. He is both gentle and stern, upright and kind, generous and generous. He is also a good boy who knows his mistakes and can correct them.
When he learned from Uncle Yanmaru’s story that his mother, who had been a geisha in poverty, was a beautiful, kind, and pure girl, he eliminated his misunderstanding of his mother, changed his hostile attitude, and revealed With a relaxed smile, he said that his mother was his good mother. Thoughts after reading "First Love" 9
I had the honor to read an article "My First Love" by Mr. Lu Xun before. Thoughts after reading "First Love". Unfortunately, I couldn’t find the full text of this article after searching online for a long time today.
Thinking that the education department has recently canceled Mr. Lu Xun’s articles as a textbook for middle school students, I do have some thoughts that I want to sort out.
I never admire anyone, and I don’t have to know who Lu Xun is. But I have read a lot of Mr. Lu Xun's articles. The impact of Mr. Lu Xun's articles on me is very profound. I think I will never forget it in this life.
From the original Baicao Garden and Sanwei Bookstore to later The True Story of Ah Q and Diary of a Madman. Mr. Lu Xun's articles have a stable, balanced and thought-provoking feeling. It is so natural to say it, because it is natural, so no matter how alien it seems in that era, the avant-garde ideas are also gentle to say.
So why should we study Chinese and literature? Because it can make people think clearly and strengthen a person's ability to analyze and judge problems. Literature can cultivate one's emotional intelligence and purify one's thoughts. Mr. Lu Xun's literature is such a kind of article that can purify people's hearts.
Judging from Mr. Lu Xun’s articles, we can see his attitude towards love and life. It was not bound by the conservative closedness of that era, nor was it whipped by too much fanaticism, so it was very rational. In fact, looking at Mr. Lu Xun’s articles today, his thoughts are still very avant-garde. Isn't it, Einstein's theory of relativity and Marx's theory of communist society? Is it outdated today? Maybe one day Mr. Lu Xun will gradually fade away in our minds and thoughts. But it won't be today.
"The road is made by people, and it becomes a road when there are more people walking on it." But in that era, that era of semi-feudal society, Mr. Lu Xun was walking his way through countless lonely nights. The so-called road. In today's age where material desires are rampant and spiritual life is empty. Mr. Lu Xun's articles are even more precious. It is like a bright light in the dark night, guiding our spirit in the direction it should go. Thoughts after reading "First Love" 10
"What I want to ask is that all those who study Chinese, including me, including Hu Lancheng, including Li Guohua, we all know that people's words are true.
I don’t even want to talk about the so-called virtuous man today, the so-called benevolence, the so-called righteousness, the so-called literature to convey the Tao, the so-called literature to clarify the Tao, the so-called hunger for one’s skin, the lack of one’s body, and the awe-inspiring righteousness. No, what I want to talk about is the relatively small feelings and small things. Love.
What I want to talk about is the tradition of Chinese poetry, the tradition of lyric poetry. It is about the tradition before the Book of Songs was over-translated from a love poem by later generations of scholars and misread into a political poem. We all know that "the heart is ambition, and the speech is poetry", "poetry is related to emotion and is exquisite", and Confucius said, "Three hundred poems can be summed up in one sentence, saying that thinking is innocent." These people who learn Chinese are Hu Lancheng and Li Guohua. Why do they...
We all know that when a person speaks poetry, when a person speaks love poems, when a person speaks love words, He should mean what he says. He has "ambition", he has "emotion", and he should be "thinking without evil". So what pains me the most about this whole story is, how can a person who truly believes in Chinese betray this vast context that has existed for more than five thousand years? Why could he betray this vast tradition that has lasted for more than five thousand years?
We believe that a true literati should have a sincerity that has been tempered over time, but in the end it will only return to food and sex. So what I want to ask here is not even about whether art can be dishonest. Don’t ask Siqi whether she loves her. Of course she loves Siqi. I even believe that Li Guohua loves her at certain moments. But he doesn’t love cookies, Xiaoqi, or little girls like Siqi. What he loves is his speech, what he loves is this context, what he loves is this scene, what he loves is this picture.
“She suddenly felt that it was not the people who studied literature, but literature that had failed them.
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