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What you think is only the limit of others' starting point is the third book of a maverick cat. She is a very diligent and demanding person.
This is a real bowl of chicken soup, super rich. If you just drink it without taking action, you will get indigestion.
The author, Mr Zhao, is an activist himself.
From the age of 23, I have to write 1500 every day, no matter how late I get off work, I have never stopped for 7 years;
He lost his father before college and lived with his mother. After work, I saved money desperately to buy a small house for my mother in Beijing.
During my college years, I studied English hard, won the opportunity to be an exchange student in Tsinghua, and began to know a wider world and better people.
Never flinching in the workplace, invincible and rising steadily, she finally bought a house of her own in Beijing. Later, she met Mr. G who loved her, formed a family, had a son and a daughter, and lived happily.
I have no background, but in Beijing, a city where "the sea is wide and the fish jumps, and the sky is high and birds fly", I have created my own world.
It took her seven years, from a little girl with nothing to today's "winner of life", and now she is only 30 years old.
Seven years is not a long time in a person's life, but it can bring life to a new level. Life is still a long way to go, and you need to keep accumulating strength.
Yang Xiwen, a writer I like very much, once said in an article: There is no road in life in vain, and every step counts.
I have always felt that those efforts and methods that emphasize efficiency must have taken some detours to learn, and this lesson was learned because of her down-to-earth actions.
Their charm lies not only in the words themselves, but also in the people behind them. They are a kind of power in themselves.
Words are not chicken soup, let alone something that poisons you. They have been inspiring and inspiring readers.
All you have to do is work hard and be yourself.
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"The limit you think is only the starting point of others" tells the true story of Miss Zhao herself or around her.
Truth is always powerful. It makes people feel chicken soup, because she is far away from us. Think of the powerful people around you. Don't say no, there must be, not only there is, but it is probably the one you envy.
Always easy to meet, moved by a little achievement, the reality is still far from what I expected, but I relaxed my requirements for myself.
So when I saw the name of this book, an idea flashed through my mind: where is my limit? Can I get close to it?
It is also because of my personality that my principle of doing things has always been: not taking a step, not entering a mile, but I also lack the courage and action to make up my mind.
After reading this book, I actually despise my once thought: When have I ever been cruel to myself?
Nothing but touching yourself.
And some people, she has been doing something that others think is desperate and crazy, thinking that she will bite the bullet and knock herself to death when she does these things, and then it is terrible to think about it.
In fact, other people's efforts really bite the bullet and end up with themselves bit by bit, but they are not terrible and do not feel bitter.
For them, hard work is just the normal state of life, just like some people like to put more soy sauce in their meals, they just like to pay more.
Then, time passed and everything became different.
Don't bully the young poor, don't despise the young ambition.
You should also tell yourself this: No matter where you used to be or what you used to be, when you made a decision and started to act, your change began.
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When diligence becomes a habit, I don't feel tired at all
When you can see the back of the Great God, you will know where the gap between you and them is, how big the gap is, and what is worth learning.
I am a restless person and always busy. People sometimes ask me, "What are you up to?" Perhaps the unspoken sentence is: "You are just busy."
I have been very sleepy before, and I feel that such busyness is meaningless. But then I stopped thinking like this, because I was sure that everything I did was meaningful.
Running three times a week seems to have nothing to do with life planning, but because of running, my back pain is relieved a lot, my physical fitness is improved, I don't catch a cold casually, and my perseverance and endurance are greatly improved.
Yoga once a week can make me relax, concentrate, enjoy the weekend morning with peace of mind, think about what I hope and think quietly in my heart, and then plan my work and life reasonably next week;
Reading for an hour every day, taking notes and writing, I feel that my heart is gradually filled and no longer empty. Now I have received several manuscripts, which I didn't expect when I started writing six months ago. I don't think I will stop writing, just like you won't give up what you love most;
Say good morning to a little friend every day and encourage each other. We have never met, but we said good morning to her with confidence.
Others don't understand what I'm doing, and I don't want to know what people with different aspirations are doing.
Seriously, when you are just busy, but you don't know what you are busy with, your heart is like a deserted desert. A few words from others can set off a sandstorm in your heart, and your heart is fragile.
And when you determine the value of being busy, you will find that what others think is not important at all. When people talk about you, you think: What should I do next?
Action changes thinking, and thinking affects action.
I was poor at math in my first year of high school. I can't learn during the day. Stay up late at night and study until two in the morning. At that time, my roommates were sleeping, and even the sound of running water in the sewer was clearly audible.
But in fact, I know in my heart: this doesn't work at all, because I didn't do the problem just because I stayed up late reading the theory.
The correct way should be to consult teachers or classmates, understand the practice of such topics, and then find similar topics to do, practice makes perfect, mastery, rather than doing useless work.
It was after graduation, especially after I decided to write, that I suddenly had an axis, stability and diligence, and I didn't feel tired of paying for it. No longer do useless work, but be more practical and firm.
Because I am sure of one thing: when a person knows what she is busy with, when she knows that the accumulation has not been in vain, she will feel that everything is worth it.
She will be happy, proud and proud of what she has done and the efforts she has made.
When you know that time will be stored in your body like a grain of rice, making you grow taller and fatter, you won't think it's a waste and you won't envy others.
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Many people know about hard work, including myself, but because of laziness, I often let myself miss opportunities for growth and development.
For example, writing a manuscript should be done once a day, but because I am lazy, I will put it off until two days. I should write when I don't work overtime after lunch, but I stand and watch TV for a while and then sit down to write under the excuse of "I can't sit still after dinner".
Isn't this laziness?
You can read while standing!
You can write it on your mobile phone!
There are two ways to overcome laziness: one is the ideal in the heart, or in layman's terms, the desire in the heart; The second is willing to take down-to-earth actions.
Desire? Do you know what your wish is? You can answer this question now, specifically and in detail. Can you say it right away?
For most people, this is very difficult.
So, if you want to take action, think carefully first: what am I doing this for? What am I willing to pay for this? If I encounter difficulties, what kind of determination and action will I use to overcome them?
If you act directly without thinking, there is a great chance of failure.
Down-to-earth action is more difficult, which includes two parts: first, measures have been taken to do it; The second is to overcome difficulties smoothly.
Every step is not easy.
Most people die in the first step, and before they take a step, their inner desires and impulses have vanished; A small number of people died in the second step. Difficulties do not necessarily refer to specific setbacks and setbacks. More difficult is their laziness: knowing what to do but not taking action.
This only shows that your desire is not enough. In other words, if the conditions are ripe, you will do great.
Teacher Zhao said in the article: The so-called spelling is really a little bit. No sword shadow, no fire, just a little.
All greatness is created.
Everyone fell asleep in the dead of night, while I was still reading, sorting out articles and taking notes. At that time, I didn't feel bitter at all, even a little sweet.
Because I do what I want to do.
Now there is nothing to disturb me after work, no family, no children who need to be with me all the time, and no old people who need personal care.
Every time I think about this, I feel scared: I can't control my future time and destiny, and I still don't grasp the present!
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Everyone has his own spiritual idol, not necessarily for life, but it will certainly promote our growth in a certain period of time.
As a girl, I like listening to the songs of female singers and writers, probably because I am eager to be closer to them.
We like a writer because we see what we want to see in her. For example, Han Meimei's writing is true and indifferent; For example, Yang Xiwen's words are affectionate and delicate; For example, Liu Yu's writing is frank and humorous.
I think every 20+ year-old girl should read Miss Zhao's writing, because it is written by a 30-year-old who has just gone through a rough decade with her personal experience and what she has seen and heard.
The girl's desire, the journey to realize her dreams, the joy of achieving results and the charm of years are all revealed in this strong woman.
The limit you think is only the starting point for others. I came to read it to get closer to my limit.
If you read it, what will you see? What will come to mind? What changes will that make?
Thank you for coming. I am Yuehua, a stubborn girl who has never stopped growing, and I am eager to move towards a better future with you.
Let the present be practical, let the future shine, let us work together, come on!