Some people treat marriage as a child's play, get married hastily, and divorce lightly. The two met, fell in love, and seemed to have no problems. They didn't know each other well enough, so they hurriedly entered into marriage. After getting married, when the marriage life really started, I discovered that there were many differences and conflicts between the two, so various problems began to appear in the marriage life, which were not handled well, and eventually divorced easily. Nowadays, marriage and contemporary love seem to pursue a kind of freedom and individuality, and more consideration is given to one's own feelings. This is related to people. If you are too self-centered and emphasize yourself too much, you will easily ignore the other person's feelings. A woman's first marriage is very important, so important that it will affect a woman's happiness throughout her life. Making the wrong choice or looking at the wrong person will affect not only a marriage, but also the subsequent relationship. In fact, marriage and divorce are both normal phenomena of marriage. The freedom of marriage we know includes both the freedom to marry and the freedom to divorce. But divorce is free, not divorce is hasty, not divorce is free. Divorce should be a last resort option for men and women whose relationship has completely broken down. But sometimes, men and women will divorce impulsively and not calmly. In fact, they still have feelings for each other and are still involved, but they have not reached the point of divorce. Therefore, in this case, in order to give each other a chance, there is an option, and that is to remarry. After remarriage, if both parties have realized their mistakes, they will be more attentive to managing their post-remarriage life. However, there are three types of divorce. Even if you are reluctant to give up and regret it, I do not recommend you to choose to remarry. What are the three types of divorce? 1. Divorce caused by betrayal by one party. The reason why I put divorce caused by betrayal in the first place is enough to illustrate the seriousness of this situation. Betrayal is the cancer of a marriage, and once symptoms appear, it is difficult for a marriage to heal. More importantly, in many people's minds, there is only a difference between 0 betrayals and countless betrayals. Therefore, once it appears, there is no way to eliminate it. Moreover, if you don't handle it well, it may become a kind of connivance, which will make the other party get lucky a second time or a third time. So, if you get divorced for this reason, basically it means that you can no longer accept it, and you can't get over that hurdle. Therefore, after this kind of divorce, even if one party regrets it or is reluctant to let go, it is better not to remarry. If I could be given a chance, I wouldn't get divorced. I would have given the chance long ago. 2. Divorce caused by incompatibility of views. At this point, the fundamental difference between two people is not simply a difference in living habits or behavior, but a difference in some consciousness in their thoughts. This difference in three views leads to many differences and disagreements, which are often difficult to resolve. You can't communicate. Each other is based on their own three views, both think they are right, and both disdain the other's ideas and thoughts. In this way, there is no basis for communication. For example, there are differences in understanding on whether or not to give a bride price, or how much to give. One party may feel that it is recognition and importance to oneself, while the other party may feel that if it is too much, it will change the taste and lose the meaning of the betrothal gift. Therefore, conflicts will arise from time to time, and once they occur, they are difficult to resolve. Especially for those men with serious chauvinism and strong women, this difference in three views is more difficult to change. 3. Divorce caused by one party’s mother’s baby. When it comes to "mother's babies", many people think that only men who have mothers are terrible. In fact, women also have mothers' babies, and women's mothers are even more terrible. Men who are mommies, as we call them, can be intolerable to some women. And when a woman is called "Mother's Baby", it causes even more headaches for men. The characteristic of Mommy's baby is that she has no ego and no independent opinions. She obeys the arrangements of her parents in everything. And he is willing to be arranged. No matter whether it is right or wrong, just follow the blind obedience of "accepting". Such men and women do not really have a partner in their eyes. Even if they do, it is just a role. They are not regarded as partners at all. They are always a dispensable role, or their partners are only used to help them. Obedient to parents. When this goal cannot be achieved, or differences arise, it is when the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law becomes irreconcilable. Therefore, if you divorce because of your mother's baby, you must not remarry again. Because it is very difficult for mommies to quit. If this problem is not solved, remarrying will mean repeating the same mistakes. Marriage management is a science. Even if there may be some problems, if you know how to manage them and you can manage them, they may be able to resolve them well and the relationship between husband and wife will be harmonious. If it is not handled well, problems will arise in the marriage and the marriage may fail. As for divorce caused by the above three reasons, I think even if you regret it, even if you still don't want to give up the marriage, you should not remarry. There is only one reason, because these reasons that lead to the failure of marriage are difficult to overcome. These reasons that lead to problems exist, and there will still be conflicts if they continue.
Then remarriage would be meaningless! Therefore, it is better for each of you to take care of yourself and start your new life again! Come on come on! ! ! ! ! ! !