The psychology of married women after cheating, the cheating rate of married women in China is as high as 80%! Modern people's pursuit of sex has become more and more open, but married women have to bear certain family responsibilities, and married women's cheating has become as common as men's cheating. Psychology of married women after cheating.
Psychological changes of married women after cheating 1 Four psychological changes of women after cheating.
Indulge in it
Women may not feel the romance they have never experienced since they fell in love in marriage, but they can often find this exciting feeling in extramarital affairs. They seek and long for men's special care and passion. When they feel the feeling of falling in love again, they will be more likely to indulge in it. This feeling will make them keep asking for it from their derailed object until the other party can no longer give them freshness and passion.
I feel guilty and worried that things will be revealed.
Even if some women cheat, they still have traditional family values and views on marriage and love. Influenced by these traditional ideas, they can't find a high-sounding excuse to get rid of their inner guilt. These traditional ideas rooted in the heart will always condemn themselves, so women who cheat will have a sleepless night. They are worried that things will be exposed one day. At that time, they will not only destroy the family, but also bear a shameful crime.
It doesn't matter, it doesn't affect the overall situation
A woman's mind can remain calm after an affair. It is not true that she can see these things so frankly, but the biggest sorrow is the death of her heart. This kind of thing is irrelevant in a woman's mind. It doesn't matter whether she cheated or not, so to speak. Even if she does something wrong, she won't be afraid, because her heart is dead.
When the fact that I cheated was discovered, I was ready for a divorce, so I could regard this kind of thing as unimportant in my mind.
Feel the joy of revenge
Women are very vengeful. When women find that their men are cheating behind their backs and can't find a better way to deal with them and protest effectively, they often choose this extreme way to retaliate against their men, thinking of seeking spiritual comfort from revenge.
It is indeed the stupidest behavior to choose to cheat because of this motive. The way to heal the wounds caused by the betrayal of the other party is to let go and forgive, not to answer blows with blows. This is different from forgiveness. Forgiveness is a choice to let go of anger and hatred, which may be impossible for most women. However, the man who retaliates against himself in this way of tit for tat will not get rid of it, and what will meet you next will only be an endless abyss.
Psychology of married women after cheating II. The psychology of married women cheating.
Women's psychology after cheating: "curiosity-seeking" psychology
Due to the materialistic desires in modern society, people's hearts are not ancient and derailed, which has become a kind of "fashion" for many people. After dinner, many women often deliberately inquire or tell others about "affairs". At first, they held a kind of "contempt" mentality, but after a long time, it seems that there is a feeling of "seeking fish from the edge of the wood". When they are alone, they often ask themselves, "Why can't I touch a monk?" ? As a result, there will be a feeling of "ready to move" in the depths of my heart. Once given the chance, they also want to "retreat and form a network." This type of infidelity looks similar to the "Qing Ye" type, but this type of woman should be more rational, and generally just "taste" to satisfy her curiosity.
Women's Psychology after Cheating: "Confused" Psychology
This type is generally small, and most of them are "unintentional willows." This kind of woman is often deceived or "forced" by the other party without psychological preparation. Of course, this is not an infringement type. Although I don't mean that to each other, I don't hate or reject them in my heart. As long as there is an environment or atmosphere, as long as there is no danger to health or reputation, it will eventually be "postponed" in confusion.
Women's psychology after cheating: "revenge" psychology
Women with this mentality generally have no age limit. They have a * * * personality characteristic, which is to hold grudges. No matter who it is, there is a kind of rebellious psychology of "you give me the third grade and I will give you the fifteenth". No matter how old this kind of woman is, no matter how loving the husband and wife were at the beginning, as long as she knows that her husband is having an affair, there will be a kind of "since your state official set fire, I, a small ordinary person, will also light a lamp." As a result, they took the initiative to derail with the mentality of "self-discipline". What's more, they deliberately let their husbands know that they are cheating. People with this mentality are not pursuing the satisfaction of desire, but purely psychological satisfaction. Therefore, they are not picky about the object of cheating, as long as it is a man, even those "old bachelors" who can't marry a wife can accept it. This kind of deception is the most terrible. Therefore, I suggest that couples who like to cheat should keep a low profile on the way they cheat, keep it as secret as possible, and never let their wives find out. Parentheses: If your wife is a vindictive woman. (Haha, there is applause here)
Women's psychology after cheating: "panic-type" psychology
This type of women is generally very old, mostly between 40 and 50 years old. When they were young, most of these people were well-behaved, devoted to their families, children and husbands, and had almost no "criminal record". But with the growth of age, the child is older and doesn't need her care. Husband also has his own career and doesn't need his own help. At this time, they began to have a lot of time to recall their past and imagine their future. In the process of thinking, they suddenly feel that time flies and they have missed their youth before enjoying life! ! So inexplicably produced a kind of "time flies, youth is fleeting, Feng Tang is easy to get old, Li Guang is difficult to seal" panic. At this time, they just want to catch the tail of youth and run with the bull to make up for the wasted youth. So, they began to look for the right man, trying to find the lost passion years from other men, trying to burn them before their youth is about to die! !
Psychology of Married Women after Cheating 3 Why Married Women Cheat (Three Psychology)
Lonely psychology:
Some husbands often leave their wives because of work or separation. If such a husband lacks a sense of family responsibility, doesn't care about his wife, and doesn't often write letters to express his thoughts, over time, the feelings between husband and wife will inevitably become indifferent, leaving his wife feeling lonely and without spiritual support. At this time, if you meet the right opposite sex, your wife may lose the ability to resist temptation.
Resentment psychology:
Sexual life is a very important part of a couple's life. If the husband is busy all day because of sexual dysfunction, or neglects to give his wife warmth because of pursuing a career, or the husband is greedy for sex and alcohol outside, he can't meet his wife's normal physiological needs. Over time, it will make the wife feel resentful, and it is very likely to be an "affair."
Revenge psychology:
Yes The husband cheated on his wife and had an affair outside. Once exposed, it often leads to unpleasant endings. If the wife is thoughtless, she may retaliate in a rage and look for sustenance.
Why do married women cheat (a brief talk)
Men will feel tired when they get a woman, because after men get it, love begins to get cold, while women's love feeling has just begun. What men think is how to end love, and what women think is how to last forever. Separating sex from emotion is a kind of human romance for men, but it is a kind of human torture for women.
Women need romantic feelings. Love without sex makes them feel sacred, while romance with sex makes women forget and lose themselves. A woman is a captive of love, and no one can change the fate of being a slave. For love, women are willing to be cows and horses. Women want men to be kind to them, but the good standard is the unity of love and sex.
Smart women don't care about men. Because they are too smart, they are lonely. Infatuated women only know after being injured that there is no place full of scars to dazzle. When a woman has no love, she thinks she is a waste and is afraid of missing the good time of falling in love in her life. Only after being used by men did she know that love was just a dream of spring. The person who let her die was just a vulgar person, so she regretted it and hated it. If a woman loves with her heart, she will always get hurt. Like a man, she loves with the mood of picking flowers and planting grass, and it is also a very casual thing for a healthy man to abandon her old lover after he has a new goal.
A man is always selfish, and he will choose the best choice for himself. Maybe he once loved, but that's all in the past. Who would give up a thousand new relationships for 100% love? But for a spoony woman, this may be the cruelest thing. Infatuation is the enemy of women. Women are always passive. Once a seduced woman abandons her lover or all her ideals are shattered overnight, she will fall into a desperate and abnormal revenge mentality.
Some silly women keep him with their lives; Some women naively used their bodies to keep him, and as a result, both women failed. Men accept women at first because they love your upper body. He likes your personality, your wisdom, your knowledge and the different feelings you bring him. But when he loses his old feelings for you and says goodbye with his upper body, his desire for his lower body becomes indifferent. If a woman is eager to keep a lost love with her lower body, then she may overestimate a man's infatuation with her. A man can admire a woman for a long time because he wants her upper body more than her lower body.
In this crazy age, after all, it is a minority. Men's hunting nature cannot be changed. So smart women think with their bodies, mediocre women think with their faces, and the stupidest women think with their lower bodies. Some people say that you have to love three people in your life to really remember love. In this case, there is no need to cherish the memory with unnecessary pain. Save the rest of your energy and time and wait patiently for the upcoming two. Maybe that's the perfect love!
But no matter what the story is, please remember: love starts from the upper body! Yue: the beauty of learning lies in confusing people; The beauty of poetry lies in inciting men and women to cheat; The beauty of a woman lies in being stupid without regrets; The beauty of a man lies in lying.