If you want to succeed, you must rely on your own positive actions. Others have no obligation to provide you with the conditions for success, and you should not complain because others have not provided you with the conditions to help you succeed. That only proves that you are a coward.
be self-reliant
To cultivate self-reliant people, we must achieve self-improvement through self-discipline, rather than relying on others to achieve strength. Everyone is an independent individual, and everyone has different directions and goals. If we choose to rely on others, it will be difficult for us to achieve the results we want.
Being strong and masculine doesn't mean that we don't need to be weak when we do things. Do things with both rigidity and softness, but whether you have independent thoughts or not, you will get different results in the end.
With an independent mind and a work style of combining rigidity with softness, we know that every step we take is moving towards our ideals. If we are not independent ideologically, then we are just a puppet.