Studying after middle age makes me feel that Xue Baochai is better and has no strength to be a little girl from time to time.
I'd better compare two people.
First, in character, Daiyu is emotional, outgoing and frank; Baochai is rational and introverted, not the kind of person who can see through at a glance.
In Wang Xifeng's evaluation of her, "Don't do your own thing, don't open your mouth, ask and shake your head."
But objectively speaking, Baochai is a relative or guest of Jiafu, so it is understandable that she is not easy to express her opinions on Jiafu's affairs, and she is not smooth and hypocritical.
Second, management ability, Lin Daiyu is not interested and never participates; Xue Baochai showed a statesmanship and thought there was a way to deal with the woman and daughter-in-law in charge of contracting.
It is reasonable to share part of the income with the neighbors inside and outside the yard, redistribute the property and maintain the harmony of the lower class in the Grand View Garden. Even today, hundreds of years later, it is out of date and still has its practical significance.
Third, Daiyu is a poet, who can only write poems and is not good at being a man. Poor health, always angry, not good at dealing with interpersonal relationships.
These are Baochai's strengths and advantages. She is tolerant, caring, good at housekeeping and healthy.
Fourthly, in concept, Daiyu is pure, frank, persistent in the pursuit of love, and rebellious to some feudal ethics, but she is willful and suspicious, which seems to be really a shortcoming: on the other hand, she thinks her own truth is very valuable. Much better than Baochai. Baochai, on the other hand, is worried about others gossiping everywhere, trying to hide her affection for Jia Baoyu and lacking self-awareness.
The disadvantage is that they are ruthless in some things, such as the deaths of Jinchuan and You Sanjie, and they have a strong feudal consciousness.
Daiyu and Baochai are both women portrayed by Mr. Qin Xue, each with his own strong points.
But on the whole, you asked me which one I like best, and I still like Xue Baochai best.
I am fragrant, and my prose gives birth to fragrance. Please don't hesitate to give me your advice.
Pinger ~ the most suitable woman to be a wife. She is loyal, kind, intelligent, witty, gentle and lovely. It is more than enough to swim in a big family; Can handle family affairs properly. Married Pinger, you can feel at ease and enjoy happiness.
My favorite woman in A Dream of Red Mansions is:
Lin Daiyu! It looks good when you have it.
I once remembered that Chrysanthemum won the first prize in poetry.
There are many characters portrayed in A Dream of Red Mansions, all of which are vivid and lifelike. You should not ask which one you like, but which one you like. I like Lin Daiyu's talent. Her poems are well written. She stole three pears and borrowed a bunch of plum blossoms. The cold pond crosses the crane shadow, and Leng Yue buries the flower soul; They are all classic famous sentences. I like the round life of Xue Baochai. When I was at the theatre, I knew how to take care of Jia's emotions and get on well with the sisters in the Grand View Garden. She likes to explore the spring, and she is brilliant and intelligent in the Grand View Garden. Like Xiangyun, like her, I'm afraid Shi Lianghua will fall asleep and get drunk in the flowers. Pinger is not bad either. She is the gold medal assistant of housekeeper Wang Xifeng. How smart and calm can she be to handle the old and young in the Grand View Garden?
There are too many characters in the Red Chamber to comment.
Among the twelve women, Tanchun is the most outstanding.
Born ordinary, not inferior, brilliant and gentle.
Just like a wild flower in the mountains, bathing in the spring breeze is chic.
Xue Baochai embodies the feudal ideal and life path. She is a noble lady deeply educated by feudal gentry, which fully embodies all the "good family" characters that meet the orthodox standards. She can be called a talented woman trained by feudal orthodox culture. She is gentle and honest, sophisticated and calculating. On the surface, she is knowledgeable, "good character", "open-minded" (the fifth time), "few words, people call it playing dumb; Be quiet and self-disciplined at all times "(the eighth time), but in essence, she is more savvy and has rich social skills. In the snobbish, dark and intrigued Jiafu, she is exquisite in all directions, very "good at being a person", looks virtuous in every move, and makes good use of small favors to buy people's hearts and win the appreciation of people around her. So as soon as I entered Jiafu, I won recognition, attention and love from top to bottom. Jin Chuaner was forced to death by Mrs. Wang, but she said many words of comfort to Mrs. Wang, showing a clever side. In the social environment where Bao and Dai always felt bound, depressed and dreary, she was carefree and comfortable, and gained secular glory through the imperial examination, which always attracted her. She believes in the marriage of gold and jade, secretly has feelings for Jia Baoyu, and hopes to become a housewife of the Jia family as soon as possible, but she is very dissatisfied with his "madness". She persuaded him to join the road of fame and fortune whenever she had the chance, and tried her best to induce Mr. Jia Baoyu, who was suitable for her, to have both fame and fortune. To this end, she is cautious in words and deeds, appears calm and cautious, and always pays attention to maintaining a gentle and sincere image of a good family. To this end, she can even compromise Baoyu, instead of being as free and willful as Lin Daiyu. Therefore, Jia Baoyu became even more disgusted with her. Although she won the favor of Mrs. Jia and Mrs. Wang by flattery and achieved the goal of being "grandma Bao", she did not win the love of Jia Baoyu and soon fell into the fate of widowhood. She is a tragic figure with deep sympathy and regret.
Lin Daiyu, the heroine of China's classic Dream of Red Mansions.
Two books written by twelve women in Jinling, one is the reincarnation of the crimson pearl fairy grass on the western spiritual shore. Jia Min is the daughter of Fu Rong, Lin Ruhai is the only daughter of Yangzhou Salt Officer, and her mother Jia Min is the youngest daughter of Jia Daishan and Jia Mu. Lin Daiyu is the granddaughter of Jia Mu, cousin, lover and confidant of Jia Baoyu, and Jia Fu is called Miss Lin.
She is born beautiful and poetic, and is a classic female image with great aura in ancient literary works. Smart and comely since childhood, her parents regard her as a treasure. He went to school at the age of five, and his mother died young at the age of six or seven. He was enlightened by Jia Yucun at the age of 10.
Jia loves her daughter Jia Min, and also loves me and Daiyu. 65,438+00 years old, raised and educated by her side, just like her grandson Jia Baoyu. I live with Jia Baoyu, 1 1 year old. All the food and clothing are taken care of by Jia Mu. She thinks she is above Sanchun, but she is only a close relative from generation to generation. She is very unhappy because she is the last person to be sent palace flowers by Mrs. Wang's servant. 1 1 years old, my father died again. Since then, I have lived in Jiafu, and I have developed a aloof and arrogant character. 12 years old, after Jia Yuanchun got married, Lin Daiyu moved into Xiaoxiang Pavilion, nicknamed Princess Xiaoxiang in the Grand View Garden Poetry Society, and expressed her true feelings with poems.
Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu were childhood friends, and Zhi Yanzhai said that "two jade are close to the Central Plains" and "far away". The myth of tears returning from crimson pearls endows Lin Daiyu with charming poetic temperament, and at the same time sets the tone of tragedy.
Lin Daiyu and Xue Baochai tied for the first place in the list of dreamland talented women. Both of them have a battle of virtue and politics in human nature and a battle of Jin Mu in marriage. They appreciate each other because they are endowed with good and evil. Lin Daiyu finally died in tears on the wedding night of Jia Baoyu and Xue Baochai.
I like her beautiful appearance. When Daiyu first entered Jia's house to meet Baoyu, she described her appearance as: her two bends were like frowning, and she seemed to be happy but not happy. The state has two sorrows, and it is sick. Tears a little, breath slightly. When you are free, it shines like a beautiful flower on the water, and when you act, it looks like a weak willow tree. It is good to learn high. The judgments of Lin Daiyu and Xue Baochai in Twelve Women in Jinling are summed up together: it is a pity to stop work, but it is a pity to praise it. The jade belt hangs in the forest and is buried in the snow. Honest temperament. Daiyu usually likes to be a "small temper", but her small temper is by no means importune and careless. Her "small temper" is nothing more than two reasons: jealousy and sensitivity. The jealous "small temper" must be caused by Baoyu. Sensitive "small temper" is mainly her situation and inferiority. Pure character. There is a cloud in "Burying Flowers": May Nong have wings today and fly to the end of the sky with flowers. After all, where is Xiangshan? Hide the wind without a trick. Strong feelings. When Daiyu and Baoyu met for the first time, they already made eye contact. Since then, we have been intimate, sitting and lying together, and loving each other. Daiyu's love for Baoyu is firm. Even if he is a "devil who is at peace with the world", even if he loses the jade, she is still faithful to him.
She is my favorite woman!
The women in A Dream of Red Mansions all have their own characteristics and personalities, such as Lin's sentimental sister, Bao's dignified atmosphere, Xiangyun's charming and lovely, and so on.
Speaking of my favorite, Xiangling is still a woman with fragrance in her soul. She was born in a poor family, but still in her heart, let herself like it.
She asks Daiyu for poems, and she can be obsessed with them wholeheartedly. She doesn't have the qualifications of those ladies, but because she likes it, she devoted herself to her studies. Her soul is full of fragrance.
Her life is very poor, and she should have been happy, but she was misunderstood by the world.
Even so, the "string" in her heart that loves learning still plays a warm voice.
She doesn't know where she comes from or her parents, so she can only accept everything. After such a poor life experience, she still maintains her yearning for poetry.
This is a woman with fragrance in her soul.
"Romantic love is always blown away by wind and rain". Lin Daiyu is my favorite person in A Dream of Red Mansions and my most pitiful person. She is the saddest one in Thousands of Red Wan Yan and the freshest woman in the author's works.
First, Lin Daiyu's tragic life experience is very embarrassing.
The second time Daiyu appeared for the first time. The author wrote: This female student is young and weak. Shortly after her mother died, the female student was "too sad and timid, so her old illness recurred." The death of her biological mother was her first setback.
Daiyu left her father for Beijing. "She is reluctant to leave her relatives", but she has to rely on others for education, which is beyond her father's ability. This is the second setback.
The death of her 14th biological father, Lin Ruhai, left her completely orphaned, without the support of her relatives. So far, she has suffered three major setbacks in her life.
Living in Jiafu, I always feel that "the wind and sword are pressing" and I have to look forward to my "cleanliness". For her, life is full of setbacks.
Second, Lin Daiyu is the first of twelve women and very talented.
Everyone writes poems about Bai Haitang in Qiuzhai. Dreams must be sweet and fragrant before they are finished. The rhyme is limited to "basin, soul, scar and faint". Everyone is thinking quietly, and Daiyu "fondles the phoenix tree, watches autumn scenery, or laughs at the ladies-in-waiting", as if lifting weights easily. After a while, a romantic and unique Haitang poem was swept away by her: half-rolled incense curtain and half-rolled door, ground ice into soil, jade as a basin. Steal a pear for three cents and borrow a plum blossom for a soul. The moon cave fairy sews robes, and the woman who always wipes crow marks in my heart in autumn. Who do you complain to in silence? Tired of leaning on the northwest night, I have fainted. Everyone cheered in unison and praised her for having a different heart.
Lotus sings chrysanthemum, and Daiyu easily wins the championship. 12 of the poems, she sang three solo poems, and "Chanting Chrysanthemum", "Asking Chrysanthemum" and "Dreaming Chrysanthemum" occupied the top three. Li Wan commented that "the topic is new, the poem is also new, and the concept is updated". "Who is lonely and proud? Is it too late to bloom now? " It's Daiyu's character. She went her own way, unified in Xiaoxiang Pavilion, reciting poems and playing the piano, unlike Baochai who calculated people's hearts. There is also the shadow of the author here, who is brilliant, but unfortunately his family has fallen.
Third, the tragedy of Lin Daiyu's character is embarrassing.
Daiyu lost her mother in her childhood and lacked the support of her biological mother. Even if she teaches in Yucun, there is no limit on the number of classes, and she is always absent from class. After arriving at Jia Fu, Li Wan and others were even more inconvenienced because they were guests. Traditional boudoir training and education is far away from Daiyu, which not only helps her, but also destroys her.
She never persuaded Baoyu with "bullshit" such as official career and economy, and got Baoyu's love. But this does not meet the standard of a good wife and mother. She lost the favor of feudal parents such as Mrs. Wang.
When I first arrived in Jiafu, I was very loved because I was the granddaughter of my ancestors. With the appearance of Lady Wang's niece Baochai, Daiyu went from bad to worse in Jiafu, because Baochai was a "good person" and Daiyu was too "real". Lady Wang forced her to death, Baochai comforted her and sent clothes to accompany her, but Daiyu was indifferent, making Lady Wang feel no warmth at all.
Fourth, Lin Daiyu's love tragedy is the most lamentable!
"Good things in the world are not forced, colorful clouds are easy to disperse, and glass is fragile." Lin Daiyu got love, but she couldn't spend the rest of her life with Baoyu.
Happiness depends on misfortune. Daiyu's childlike loss of her mother is a "curse", and it is a "blessing" to be able to "sit day and night" with her cousin. The appearance of Baochai is the curse of "good fortune", and the love between two jade is "good fortune".
However, Daiyu's "body" made her excluded from marriage. She "breathes a little" all day, "only weak willows help the wind", and ginseng nourishing pills can't dig out the root cause. To make matters worse, a love that no one can rely on destroyed her body. Baoyu sent someone to deliver an old handkerchief in the middle of the night, and Daiyu wrote a poem. Unconsciously, her condition worsened: Daiyu was about to write, and her whole body was hot and her face was burning. When I walked to the mirror, I opened the brocade and saw that my cheeks were red, which really overwhelmed the peach blossoms. Congenital deficiency, coupled with inner friction by all means, leads to deep feelings and long life.
Daiyu's "oversensitive" is obvious to all. "Annoying", "small-minded", "mean-mouthed" and "finding fault" are all her labels. They are not as gentle and sincere as Baochai and do not meet the standards of mistresses. Knowing that my uncle hated Baoyu's "love for red" and saw that Baoyu had rouge cream on his face, he said lightly, "What have you done? Just do it, and be sure to take out the cover. ..... When I heard my uncle's ears, everyone was dirty and kind. Her "heterogeneous behavior" made her not conform to the three views of feudal parents; Daiyu cut Baoyu's ear, and Grandmother Jia noticed her heart disease, which also became the heart disease of the old ladies, so this "immoral" behavior was greatly curbed.
"The heart knows better than the stem, and the disease is three points." Daiyu is the embodiment of the author's love and nature, and has always been loved by millions of readers in Qian Qian. In this respect, she won eternal life, which amazed you and me.
I like granny Liu. She is flexible, but it doesn't improve her kindness.