1, The Book of Songs. The Book of Songs is really a very, very good book. Realistic and romantic. When reading the Book of Songs, I am always moved by the passionate feelings and implicit euphemisms in the book. Moreover, after reading the Book of Songs, we can have a deeper understanding of a lady: a lady is not pretentious, but strict with herself, aggressive, and scrupulous in etiquette (now it can be said to be moral), which makes people "happy" in appearance and behavior. I think there are still many things in old books that are better than the current definition.
2. Tao Te Ching. Laozi's Tao Te Ching is really suitable for people who want to cultivate their self-cultivation. In this book, we have come into contact with many ideas of the doctrine of the mean, that is, the idea of "inaction" advocated by Laozi. These ideas can help you learn to keep a balanced attitude, neither extreme nor depressed; Neither too enthusiastic nor decadent. Moreover, if you want to read the Tao Te Ching, you'd better read it repeatedly. I have seen it many times, and I have a deeper understanding every time. I think this is a very good book.
3. The revised version of the book of etiquette. I've thought about it for a long time and think this book should be included. In fact, it is not easy to be a lady. Besides being conscious mentally and ideologically, we should also be self-disciplined and pay attention to what we do. This "etiquette book" tells you what to do best when you get along with the opposite sex, including public places and offices. Only by behaving appropriately can you be considered a real lady, otherwise it is hypocrisy. Moreover, regulating one's behavior can also be said to be cultivating one's self-cultivation: one is not freedom, the other is pursuit.
It's hard to be a lady, but a lady is a good gentleman.