Since the Yuan Dynasty, a few words of advice given to my father by the brilliant novel Pipa-"This tit is rude, but it will collide with me. My words are not in the right place, son. My husband's words are contrary to my father's. I hate children's knowledge. I should have trusted the moon, but the moon shines on the ditch. "
Generally speaking, "I give my heart to the moon, but the moon shines on the ditch", which means that I am kind to you, but you are cold and ungrateful. My sincere efforts have not been rewarded and respected.
Pipa Story is a famous southern opera created by Gao Ming (namely Gao Zecheng) at the end of Yuan Dynasty, which mainly tells the love story of scholar Cai Bozhen and Zhao dancer. The Story of Pipa is adapted from the folk southern opera Zhao Zhennv (earlier there was the Jin and Yuan version of Cai Bozhen), but Cai Bozhen who abandoned his wife behind his back became loyal and filial.
The story tells the story of scholar Cai and Zhao Wuniang who wanted to live a happy life after they got married, but their father Cai Gong refused. After being forced to top the exam, Abel was asked to marry the Prime Minister's daughter. Although she refused, the Prime Minister Niu did not comply. He didn't know that his parents died when there was a famine at home after he became an official. He missed his parents and wanted to resign and go home, which was rejected by the court. Zhao Wuniang begged all the way to Beijing to find a husband, finally found it, and finally got together. This "Three Disobedience" is the focus of Gao Ming's description of Cai Bozhen's loyalty and filial piety.