One weekend a few years ago, we had dinner with our mother outside. Seeing that the weather is fine, we want to walk around with our mother, because we are usually busy and often go out alone.
"Mom, where do you want to go?" My sister asked.
"I go out for a walk every day and go everywhere. You can go wherever you want. " Mom said.
"Why don't we go to Xiaozhai and do military service?" Sister, go on.
In fact, I know in my heart that my sister means to buy clothes for my mother there.
Mother is usually frugal and won't let us buy her clothes. Actually, she doesn't want us to spend money. She said, I have too many clothes to wear. Why buy a new one and put it in the cupboard? It's all rubbish.
Mom's right. Don't wear it when you buy it. I just put it in the cupboard. It's really rubbish
Then, can you throw away the clothes you haven't worn for many years and put on new clothes, which will be useful and worthwhile?
We went to the mall to see a nice coat. I said, mom, how about this? Why don't you try it on?
She stood at a distance and said, no, I said you try. It doesn't matter if you don't buy it, even if it suits you.
The salesman also said, it doesn't matter, just try. But my mother never came to try it on.
I asked the clerk, do you often encounter this phenomenon here?
She said: yes, but generally I don't tell TA, I just buy it and take it home.
My mother is not like this. In any case, she just won't accept our kindness. She often buys clothes for her mother. She found various excuses not to take it, but also insisted on taking it away from her.
My sister likes walking in the street. When she saw something suitable for her mother, she bought it. Not long ago, I returned a coat, a pair of trousers and a down vest.
My sister said to my mother, "Sometimes I buy clothes for you, but you say you don't like them. This time, you watch it together, or not. I will be very sad if you always refuse. "
Sister said: her colleague's mother is not like this. When she saw the skirt her daughter was wearing, she liked it, so she gave her money and asked her daughter to buy me two dresses of that kind, brightly colored.
People with similar age and economy are so different, which only shows that they love themselves and life to different degrees.
We have tried many times, but there is no way to make my mother change her mind. Moreover, the more we hope that she can accept it, the more stubborn she becomes.
Helpless, in order not to affect her mood, she can only go now, as long as she is healthy and happy.
But as daughters, we can't reach an agreement on this matter, and we will still feel a little sorry because our mother doesn't accept it.
02
Chloe told me that her mother and her period often exchange gifts. Today you give her a silk scarf, and tomorrow she gives you a pair of socks. Sisterhood is reflected in coming and going.
I think that's how the feelings between people are established. Gifts are not expensive, but friendship is important.
Chloe said that she especially likes all kinds of festivals because she can receive gifts during the holidays. Of course, receiving gifts is a very happy thing. She is in a good mood and everything is fine.
Although they have been married for many years, they will give each other gifts and warm each other every important festival.
She said that she was equally happy whether she received a diamond ring from a famous watch or flowers and chocolates.
Because she knew that she was always in his heart, and their love was always fresh. Sweet smile always hangs on her face, her mouth will always rise, and the spring breeze will touch her face.
She said that close people can't ignore the importance of gifts. When you encounter unpleasant things, gifts can transform your mood. When you are in good times, gifts can add icing on the cake and strengthen your feelings.
The person who receives the gift is happy. They live a life of taste, quality, taste and warmth, which is not only enviable, but also respectable.
Whether you admit it or not, the gift means a lot to both parties. They are almost an indispensable part of life and play an important role.
Giving and receiving gifts involves many aspects of life. Our desire for gifts is also our desire for recognition, love, understanding and love, so as to express our goodwill and care.
03
During the Spring Festival, Cece WeChat sent me a photo of a gold necklace with a square pendant.
I thought she was showing off the gifts she received, and quickly said, I am so happy to receive gifts during the New Year!
She said: I chose a gift for myself at the counter. Please help me.
Only then did I know that Cece was comforting herself and giving herself a gift.
She said: Yes! For a long time, it has always been a knot. I bought it today. Although it is not the mood I imagined, I always have a wish. I might be happier if I got it earlier.
I said, there are some things to cherish and don't take out easily. Some things need to be buried and never seen again.
To tell the truth, she is a delicate woman and always dresses herself up just right. At first glance, she may not be so eye-catching, but if you look closely, she can't find anything wrong. Even with me, my eyes can't help but stay on her for a while.
Sometimes, whether you live well or not depends entirely on your own attitude towards life. It is not for others to decide, nor can we pin our hopes on others. Be kind to yourself even if you don't accept gifts from others.
A well-educated and quality person, a caring and capable person, his every move, every bit will warm others.
I watched a Venus program, and the guest was ChristianRandPhillips.
At the end of the program, Venus said that ChristianRandPhillips prepared a special gift for everyone present. The audience applauded and screamed at that time.
ChristianRandPhillips joked that as an elder (I may be the oldest here), I would like to give you red envelopes with a commemorative coin of the Year of the Rooster and sign your name on the back of each red envelope.
Such a thoughtful move makes everyone here very happy. With this in mind, it is commendable to treat ordinary audiences who have never met as friends.
People have psychological needs and are willing to give gifts to others. Seeing others receive gifts is happier than their own. This is also his emotion. His emotions must be released, and the audience's acceptance is the best response to him.
Gift giving has become an indispensable social form for each of us to live and integrate into society.
04
China has been a country of etiquette since ancient times, paying attention to reciprocity, and ancient men and women exchanged gifts to express their love; The ancients gave each other parting gifts to show their reluctance.
Everyone needs to be loved and recognized. Receiving gifts can make people feel simple and direct satisfaction. Everyone has had the experience of giving and receiving gifts. Sometimes, gifts are an extension of your personality.
Sharing is a kind of happiness, a kind of happiness. The recipients not only get a gift, but also respect each other's feelings.
If a person can't give or receive gifts for a year, you can imagine how sad TA's life is and how lonely his soul is.
Therefore, don't refuse the gift from the person who loves you easily, which will hurt people and make them feel frustrated in interpersonal relationships, because what you refuse is not a gift, but a filial piety and a love.