After the primary training course in psychological counseling, I was invited by teacher Suo Limin to write the preface to her upcoming book "The World Is Worth". After being invited, I was very excited and proud. It is an honor for me to write the preface to Teacher Suo Limin.
I met Teacher Suo Limin in early 2017. During the internal training of the teacher, I saw that this woman was very calm, unassuming, and spoke in a well-mannered manner. At first glance, she was a thoughtful person. After communication, I learned that she is a high school Chinese teacher. This not only gave me more respect, but also made me more willing to interact with her and listen to her opinions and thoughts. Since there were more gatherings for indoor training, we had more contacts. I found that Teacher Suo Limin was a huge treasure. Her hobbies were so wide-ranging, such as playing the guqin, painting Chinese paintings, writing calligraphy, and studying psychology. It doesn’t make any sense, she is truly a woman of many talents.
This year she signed up for the primary training course in psychological counseling taught by Mr. Li Kefu from Qingdao New Sunshine Institute of Psychology. Fortunately, she was assigned to my group. Since I graduated a year earlier and became a team leader, I had to comment on articles for team members every day, so I had the opportunity to have close contact with her soul. I get to know her better by enjoying her articles every day.
Her writing is very good. We often feel beautiful when we see a beautiful scenery, but it is very difficult to describe it. Teacher Suo Limin observes very carefully, even down to every detail, and can describe the beautiful scenery vividly, so that you can't help but feel relaxed and happy after watching it, and experience a very beautiful feeling.
For example, Taigong Lake is described in the article "Seeing the same but not seeing the same": "There are almost no people in the park in the early morning. The fog seems to be there or not, the cicadas are always chirping in my ears, and there are a few crisp bird calls. The entire park is quiet and full of vitality. Under the shade of the trees, the hostas are in full bloom, so colorful that they are swaying in the morning breeze as if there is no one else around. The thin grass blades are dotted with crystal clear dewdrops, which can occasionally be seen. Seeing the colors of the reflected sunlight, if you look closely, you will see that every blade of grass really has its own dewdrops. Looking further, you can see that the closer you get to the ground, the more dewdrops there are on the grass and among the flowers. "White dew" makes people feel so beautiful when reading it.
She integrates professional knowledge with life. She integrates psychological theories into her life, uses psychological theories to explain her insights in life, and guides her life. For example, in the article "Mi You Can't Come Out", she noticed that the interruption in her diary was related to the "broken window effect", and she also experienced how uncomfortable it would be for her children to make up for missed homework.
For another example, in the article "Timely Response", Suo Limin's mother's bag was lost on the bus and was picked up by the bus driver. She immediately bought fruit that day and wrote a thank-you letter. The leader also wrote a note for her saying "I am not ignorant when I find money, I am enthusiastic about helping others, and I am honest and upright" and sent it to her. When the bus driver saw the bar screen, he couldn't put it down and kept saying: "This is a good thing, this is a good thing." Her timely response was a huge nourishment to the helper, the person being helped, and the grateful person. The positive energy of society is being transmitted.
She is well-read and has a lot of research on ancient poetry. For example, in her article "The Book of Songs: Strong and Pure Love and Desire" she describes: "The Book of Songs vividly expresses people's joys and sorrows. When lovers meet, it means "there is a beautiful person, pure and graceful." We meet each other by chance, just as I wish. "That moment of looking at each other, that moment of soul-to-soul intertwining, the whole world can be put aside, and a thousand years are definitely not an exaggeration. The same surprise is also "Today or later, I will meet this beloved man." Zixi, Zixi, what a good person! "We were all so surprised that we were overwhelmed. Even three thousand years of time could not hide that ecstasy." She talked about the feeling of reading "The Book of Songs", which made us feel the beauty of ancient poetry.
After reading Teacher Suo Limin’s article, I feel that she is a huge treasure that needs to be appreciated slowly. It's great to meet Teacher Suo Limin, and I'm even more lucky to have the honor to write the preface to her book "The World Is Worth".