Love is a matter between two people, it requires two people to be happy, love is a family matter, it requires a good match. No matter when our love begins, it will be sweet, but no matter when it ends, it will definitely be mixed with trivial matters.
"Poem and Distance" is very romantic, but also mixed with some negative factors. A Chinese girl talks about poetry with her boyfriend who is in science and engineering every day. Can he understand her? Romantic every day, can everyone bear that luxury? The distance is just your helplessness after living a fast-paced and tiring life. What we said is really superficial. Isn’t long-distance love also caused by distance?
Let’s talk about the trivial matters in life. Young lovers will quarrel over study and living expenses. After starting a family and starting a business, couples will quarrel over simple housework and water, electricity and gas bills. All love will become an unbearable mess when it comes to close contact. Small details that you think don't matter will become annoying to the other party, and you will be greatly discounted in her heart. No matter how beautiful and romantic our love is, it must return to the daily necessities of life. This may be the norm in life. "Love without material things is just a false pretense." This is true, and it is true in love and life.
Then some people may ask, "Do I want poetry and the distance? Or ordinary firewood, rice, oil, salt, soy sauce, vinegar and tea." I think I want both, because this is the true excess of love. Whether it's a relationship or a marriage, if you don't get along, how will you know if the other person is your type? And when you want to make this dish, you need poems and distant main dishes, and you also need those trivial condiments to add fragrance to it. This is our cuisine. This is also our poetic and ordinary love.