? As the saying goes: there are thousands of people in a family, and one person is in charge. As soon as I received the story writing task of a good family style demonstrator from the Jintai District Working Committee and the Jintai Writers Association, I contacted Kang Ren, the writing object. Seeing the basic information on the application materials, I am curious. As the head of a family of nine, what efforts has he made to infiltrate Chengde's strict family style of dedication, honesty, kindness, respect for the elderly and love for the young, optimism and health into all aspects of life, so that the whole family is always immersed in a happy, satisfied, warm and pleasant atmosphere, creating an optimistic, warm and pleasant family atmosphere and promoting family harmony, happiness and progress? With the deepening of the interview, all the answers surfaced, which made me admire.
Kang Ren, 1953 1 1, is from Xiquandu Village, Fengxiang County, Baoji. His parents are both authentic farmers. Four brothers, he is the third. Because it is located in a remote mountainous area, the family's income only depends on parents' farming. Hard life, barren land, in addition to food and clothing, parents support my brother to barely go to school. At the age of sixteen, he joined the work, entered the first bid section of the West Railway Project, and became an ordinary railway worker.
? He admits that when he was young, he met his wife Zhang Guaili, a good companion in life, and he is still grateful. His wife thought his family was not poor and decided to marry him. He works in the south of Lueyang and only goes home two days a month. And my wife has to take care of the sick old people, one with high blood pressure and the other with heart disease. My little brother is only nine years old and lives with them. Plus, after the baby is born, I have to raise two underage sons. A woman has to be busy at home and look after the fields. The burden on her shoulders is extremely heavy. At that time, my wife, who was teaching in a village primary school, had to quit her job as a village primary school teacher for the sake of her family. He can only get 100 yuan for his work. In addition to eating and drinking by yourself, I give it to the authorities every time I go home. The drug store can only leave his wife a dollar or two for paying off debts. 1994, he came to Baoji with his family. In order to supplement the family, a strong wife supports a case at home and cuts clothes for others, regardless of spring, summer, autumn and winter, day and night.
? He treats his work seriously and practically, studies diligently, treats his comrades warmly and generously, and is ready to help others. Therefore, in 44 years of work practice, he has been engaged in general work, administrative management and party-mass work. In different jobs, after several tempering and exercises, his ideological realm and work skills have been improved, and he has stepped onto the post of middle-level leading cadre in the unit from a general worker. Especially in the 35 years of working in a trade union, I worked hard to solve problems for employees within the scope of my duties and actively worked for employees. I have been praised by my superiors many times and widely praised by the workers.
? In daily family life, he set an example and integrated the concept of respecting the old and loving the young and filial piety into all aspects of family life. Because the eldest brother's home is far from Lanzhou Power Supply Bureau, and the second brother is in the village supply and marketing cooperative, three children are a big drag. Being near him, the task of taking care of the old man and his brother naturally falls on him. A hundred years later, his father will take his mother to Baoji, but the old man is used to rural life and still lives in his hometown with his brother. He scrimped and saved every penny-his mother's food and clothing, his brother's school expenses, the lucky money for the New Year, including the cost of his brother's marriage as an adult and the cost of building a house at home. After the younger brother got married, the two children got excellent grades and both went to college. He helped pay the tuition until the younger brother's children went to work.
? He broke the traditional old ideas and made the three families develop harmoniously. His eldest daughter-in-law is an only child, and her mother suffers from severe rheumatism and can't take care of herself. His daughter-in-law's father died early, and his mother was used to living with her daughter. Therefore, after the two sons got married one after another, they all lived with their parents-in-law. Not only did he not complain, but he often taught his son to respect his elders and treat his in-laws equally as parents. In-laws were hospitalized, and he and his wife brought cash and nutrition to visit at the first time; On holidays, I will get together with my in-laws and often chat, which enhances the cohesion between my relatives; When my father-in-law died, he also brought a gift to show his respect. Because they think of each other everywhere, win the respect of their in-laws, and make the three small families harmonious and intimate.
? He advocates knowledge and attaches importance to learning. He regards learning cultural knowledge and improving his self-cultivation as a major event, and is diligent in thinking and studying hard. Knowing that his cultural background is weak, he always finds time to read and study. After taking the leadership position, the nature of work has changed, and I often write materials such as experience summary. Regardless of his age, he took out his limited spare time, went to the Party School and obtained a junior college degree. His works have been published in newspapers and periodicals of Beijing China Railway Electrochemical Bureau and China Railway Engineering Company, and also in Shaanxi Workers' Daily. He pays more attention to learning in practice and often participates in relevant business training. Under his example, the two sons studied hard and made positive progress since childhood, and both obtained undergraduate degrees and became the best among their peers. They never participate in vulgar activities such as gambling and drinking, but actively study computers and writing, help children learn and build small families. The daughter-in-law is also highly educated. She loves her job and has been rated as the March 8th Red Flag Bearer of the Railway Bureau for years. The two sons are practical and enterprising. Both of them joined the China * * * production party and became a glorious party member. The eldest daughter-in-law dresses appropriately, doesn't like luxury, is smart and sensible, and can handle work and family relations well. ?
Doing things seriously and being peaceful has always been the principle that he and his wife follow. In the hard years that passed away, he and his wife always integrated them into the practice of study, work and life, and tried to set an example for their families. Since the two daughters-in-law married to his family, he and his wife have changed their minds and treated them as their own daughters. When the son and daughter-in-law occasionally have frictions and quarrels, they always stand on the side of the daughter-in-law, never take sides with the son, and actively resolve the contradiction between them; After their three granddaughters were born, they have always regarded them as treasures, thinking that boys and girls are all the same, and both men and women can become talents. Call your granddaughter every night and say hello to each other; Play with Baoji's granddaughter on Sunday; Take three or four months off every year to take care of two little granddaughters in Xi 'an. Nowadays, buying a house and a car, family education is a problem that every small family will encounter. Being a junior? When the economy encounters difficulties, as the older generation, they will lend a helping hand in time. What he and his wife did won the respect of their two daughters-in-law. They are both very filial to their in-laws. Even their three granddaughters said in unison: We have the best grandparents in the world and the happiest family.
? A person is not a successful person if he only handles family relations well. Since he was young, he has been charitable. Neighborhood is in trouble, he is anxious for others and helps others; Relatives are in trouble, and he would rather be tight than help each other. He said that if you have money, you can make a great contribution. His behavior won the praise of relatives and friends. Now, whenever he returns to his hometown and meets the villagers in the village, everyone respects him. He is welcome to visit his hometown often.
? He said to me happily: I am an old party member who has been educated by the Party for many years, and I am deeply grateful to our Party. I thank my parents for marrying me a reasonable and good wife; Thanks to the trust of the organization, I went from a general worker to a leadership position; Thanks to fate, I have a happy family; Thanks to our country, the lives of ordinary people are getting better and better. When you encounter something, you should focus on the overall situation and be content with it. After his formal retirement, he and several old buddies set up a self-help class for Chinese opera, dealing with housework at home in the morning and attending the self-help class on time in the afternoon. He actively participates in community work, and concurrently serves as the branch secretary of the retirement office, and is rated as an advanced individual in the community every year.
? For more than ten years, their families have tolerated, respected and cared for each other, and everyone's heart is full of happiness, joy and enrichment. Family practice made him deeply realize that a good family style makes a good family, and a good family is like a spring breeze all the year round. A good family style has an invisible force that affects everyone and inspires everyone. Only by guarding and inheriting the family style can a family promote its healthy development. Home is a small country, and the country is everyone. Only when everyone builds a small family can our country be harmonious, healthy and happy for a long time.