Insight into everything in the world and appreciate all kinds of life. CCTV's "The First Time in Life" series of humanistic documentaries aims to observe the "firsts" of different people at important nodes in life: the first time to go to school, the first time to work, and the first time to enter the military camp. Many "firsts" are connected in series with important nodes in our lives. "Please take care of them when you are new here."
"Life first, spring comes to Jingming.
The birth of a new life is accompanied by both joy and various choices and risks in the process of parenting. In this issue, by staying in the Obstetrics and Gynecology Hospital affiliated to Fudan University in Shanghai, I recorded the true story of the maternity ward and the first challenge and exclusive waiting for a new life to come into this world.
The first episode of "Life for the First Time" is about a pregnant woman with heart disease. When her twin children are 27 weeks old, they have to undergo heart surgery, and the risks associated with the operation will endanger the condition of the pregnant child. It's time for surgery, and the family members are crying outside the door. The doctor has three lives. Fortunately, the operation went well. After a while, the pregnant woman lay on the operating table again. This time, she wants to meet her twin children. The family was very happy when the baby was born smoothly. She said that she dreamed of naming her child Chun Jingming. "If it is spring, the waves are calm, the sky is up and down, and it is a blue sky." I think "false alarm" is the most beautiful word in the world.
"Childhood is the truth in a dream, the dream in reality, and the tearful smile when recalling.
In the new semester, the school has welcomed a group of new children into the school, which is the first time in their lives. In a big city like Beishangguangshen and Shenzhen, "going to school" has become a big choice for parents and children. Is the idea of "don't let children lose at the starting line" a guide or a misleading one for parents? How do children and parents adapt to their choices? The story of ups and downs is the trajectory of children's growth.
"You are not allowed to cry. You just strode away. Without parents, you strode into the kindergarten. This is courage. " This is a child's answer when a reporter asked him if he cried on the first day of school.
This episode will make you cry and laugh. This week happens to be the school season. Children will leave their parents when they grow up. At the gate of the kindergarten, a series of "Where are you going" are staged. Children are unwilling to leave their parents' arms, and parents are unwilling to send their children to towards the distant. Children's interviews are all children's words. "What do you think of kindergarten teachers?" "Very good, all good, all fierce", "What should I do when I grow up", "Go to the middle class, big class", really don't be too cute. But you really can't help crying. People always have to grow up, so dear mom and dad. Let the children fly.
"Children who study poetry will not break the glass.
Baoshan, Yunnan, deep in the mountains. Kang Yu, a college student who used to teach here, decided to stay here and be a teacher who taught children to write poems. Children here need to climb mountains and mountains to go to school every day, but this will not hinder their inspiration for writing poems. They write their thoughts about their parents and feelings about nature into their poems, which is the most primitive and pure art created by children.
This episode tells the story of students learning poetry in Lianshui Middle School, Baoshan City, Yunnan Province. The headmaster opened a poetry class at school, and everyone thought it was unnecessary because they didn't take the exam. But for these students who are almost half left-behind children, they find hope, friends and ways to express themselves in their poems.
Growth is only once. It is the first time to grow up and the last time. If you plant depression, gloom and frustration in this unique growth, it will take a long time to learn to express yourself, feel love and stretch your heart when you grow up.
Teachers will change, children will grow up, but poetry will accompany them and experience truth, goodness and beauty in the long years.
The sun buried the darkness.
Dawn rises like this.
I put my heart
Throw it into the river.
Worry, more and more
Stones in the river
There will be more and more
Seeds buried under heavy snow
Quiet germination
At night, the old dead tree
Grow new branches
but I ...
Where mom and dad can't see it.
Grow up secretly
I come from the clouds.
See a secluded path
In the distance, the green hills contain Dai, and the dead butterflies are rustling.
Get old at dusk
Driving cattle and sheep, full of hope
My shadow is reflected in the path.
No more loneliness, no sad face
Three or two friends around me
But who knows?
The past of this road
middle of summer
She is hot and cold.
I seem to be angry with you.
You want it to be hot.
It began to rain lightly.
She didn't take it personally.
She was just crying.
Please forgive her occasional little mood.
When you close your eyes.
I saw it.
Green wind
It caressed the Woods.
Suntan my calves.
Kissed the white wall at home.
Dye dad's corn yellow.
But I won't change the color of the wind.
Tell you
-Shi Yingsuo, 12 years old, Class 208, Grade 7, Lianshui Junior Middle School.
It's a long way home from school.
I'm the only one
The cowshed at home is very big.
There is only one calf.
When I hold it,
We all have friends.
-"Friends"
Ten years later.
I want to be a father like the sea.
Let my child sit on my back.
Like a boat.
Sometimes typhoons blow on children.
Sometimes it's calm for children.
Let them know.
Life is not always peaceful.
-Li Kunfu
This bird is the child of a big bird.
Baiyun is a child in the blue sky.
Street lamps are children at night.
When mom went to Guangdong,
I put my shoes next to my mother's shoes.
Because, I am a mother's child.
-Mu Qingyun's Children
I believe in night.
Because it can cover everything.
Like love.
—— Li Ling, 14 years old, "Night" in the eighth grade of Suishui Junior High School in Changning County, Baoshan City, Yunnan Province.
The universe is like an unlit fireworks.
Nobody wants to give him a light.
He was very angry, very angry.
Light yourself up.
The cosmic fireworks exploded.
The universe was born.
-Liu Huang 10 years old "The Birth of the Universe"
Dark clouds and white clouds
marry
We cheered.
Pick up their scattered things.
Wedding candy
—— Rain in Class 3 (2) of wucun Central Primary School
If you can't be a tall pine tree on the top of the mountain
Then be a small tree in the valley.
But being the best little tree by the stream
If you can't be a camphor tree
Then be a bass.
But to be the liveliest little bass in the lake.
We have many things to do here.
There are big things and small things.
But the most important thing is what's around us.
-Douglas Marah's "Be the Best of You" (excerpt)
"The most powerful weapon of mankind is not nuclear weapons, but all the courage.
Farewell to Jilin folks and embark on the train to Jingmen, Hubei, Xiao Xu opened a brand-new identity in life: an egg shaped thing as a recruit. The first roll call, the first queue, the first quilt folding, the first emergency gathering, the first training ... In countless firsts, Xiao Xu and two other college students gradually completed the transition from local youth to airborne troops.
Being a soldier turned children into adults, and the hard life in the military camp tempered people's perseverance. Zhang Shuhao and Xu Long bid farewell to their families and embarked on a journey as soldiers. How many devil trainings do you have to go through from recruits to airborne elite? The reason why we live in peace now is that there are thousands of soldiers to protect us. We dare to cross the rickety bridge because these soldiers are the railings of the bridge.
"Like ordinary people, they want to live with dignity.
Guo Hui in Shangqiu, Henan Province suffered 95% burns all over his body. Through training, he overcame unimaginable difficulties and became a professional online customer service. Li, who suffered from polio, used to pull goods for a living. Now, she has a stable income of several thousand yuan every month and has become the economic pillar of her family. This issue focuses on customer service for the disabled, a special group, and lets the world know about China's assistance for the disabled from the perspective of "customer service on the cloud" in the Double Eleven activities.
This episode is about going to work, not the work life of ordinary people. And a group of physically disabled and determined customer service staff. Some of them were born disabled, some suffered from polio, and some lost their legs in an accident the day after tomorrow ... They went to work in a company run by the disabled and became Taobao customer service staff, making a living by their own efforts. Some of them are disappointed with the world and consider taking extreme measures. When they find a "partner" in life, they are no longer pessimistic. Some even found partners in the company. The company held a * * * wedding for them. "Double Eleven" is an important day for them. No one knows what they are like behind the scenes. They focus on answering users' trivial questions and are sometimes scolded by customers, but they seem to have some enjoyment. Because at this time, the world really treats them as normal people and takes it out on them when they are emotional, which is much better than the cheap sympathy under different eyes. This is true equality.
"In the twilight, when you look back on your marriage, you will find that the love you made at the beginning has become a companion.
The marriage registration office in Pudong New Area of Shanghai has the largest average number of registered people in Shanghai. On a hot day, hundreds of couples will register every day. Getting married means getting married, and some new couples who get their licenses for the first time will start preparing for the wedding; Some will travel; Some people don't do these things, but enter marriage in their own way. Record young people's views on marriage and love in the marriage registry, and also record people's understanding of love.
Marriage is like a gamble. You meet good people, you win. If you meet a bad guy, you lose. Not getting married means not losing or winning.
If you meet someone who likes, understands and supports each other, you can consider getting married. If you don't see it, wait slowly, and God will leave you the best. I really can't wait. I don't have to compromise myself to make do. A person can live a good life. I think this should be the love view of most young people.
"A train to the future, a big ship carrying dreams.
In order to promote farmers in Qujing to transfer their jobs and get rid of poverty, Qujing Labor Service Workstation was set up by Qujing Human Resources and Social Security Bureau, which went to Qujing twice a year to recruit migrant workers, respectively, for the Feng Chun Action after the Spring Festival and the Qiu Feng Action after the harvest season, to divert migrant workers who wanted to go out to work to Shanghai. In this issue, I followed the work progress of the workstation and recorded their stories and psychological changes from their hometown to Shanghai.
In this land, extremely poor counties and extremely prosperous cities coexist. People choose to go out of the mountains for better income, which is called going into the city. Some of them are old, some are illiterate, and some are imprisoned by their families. For them, walking out of the mountains is also a brave step.
"I want a home, a place that doesn't need too many things.
High housing prices, like a mountain, make many people flinch. However, owning your own house is still a lingering complex for most people in China, especially young people. This issue focuses on a real estate agent, recording and observing the experience of young people buying houses in big cities, and recording their efforts in setting up small homes.
Some animals have been looking for suitable houses all their lives, such as hermit crabs, and some animals are born with their own houses, such as snails. There are also animals such as humans who have mixed feelings about the house. The house will bring people a sense of security, satisfaction and happiness. But it often pays a great price. You are in Beijing, and 3 million can only buy a second-hand house of 60 square meters. At an early age, we didn't have a solid family background and the support of our parents. The world is so big that we don't even have a place to live. Maybe to say the least, we can put a warm home in a small place that is not prosperous but the house price is not so high. If you want to go further, you must work hard to make money. This is just a personal choice.
"Life is impermanent, and the happiest thing is to have a meal with your family.
Next to Jiangxi Nanchang Cancer Hospital, there is a kitchen, which was founded by Aunt Xiong and her wife more than 10 years ago. Every day, many patients' families come to cook, and stir-fry a vegetarian dish for only 1 yuan. Aunt Xiong gets up at two or three every morning to get ready for breakfast. It has become the kitchen of many cancer families, and everyone calls it "anti-cancer kitchen". Treating cancer costs a lot, but this simple kitchen greatly reduces the cost of eating. In this issue, in this small kitchen, we recorded a warm story between a cancer patient and his family.
Children grow up and leave their parents. Only you and your other half are left, and the only thing that can accompany you may be your other half. Maybe it's just you. Next to Jiangxi Nanchang Cancer Hospital, an old couple opened a "public kitchen" to provide a place for patients or their families in the hospital to cook. Every day in the hospital bed, they witness the busy figure of cooking for the other half suffering from tumor and cancer, speculating on the "ups and downs" of life.
"Which institution of higher learning is stronger? Travel to an advanced university.
This is a magical school: many people study all night, but not to prepare for the college entrance examination; Students will get together to talk about the opposite sex and will not shy away; Even playing truant, skipping classes and copying homework. This place is where many old people in China go to college for the first time: the University for the Aged. Here, retired people can find their love for life again and have their own life again. Keep learning and accepting new things with a group of friends. The university for the aged is a "hot-blooded university" for retirees.
In China, more and more elderly people will choose to go to universities for the elderly after retirement. They want to study for life, they want to live better, and they want to be active on their own stage. But unfortunately, their children are busy with work, and the task of taking care of their grandchildren still falls on them. After sending her granddaughter to kindergarten in a hurry, she turned and walked into her own school, where they could find their true selves in their bodies. Calligraphy, ballroom dancing, catwalk, chorus ... this is my colorful life.
"Clouds are rolling, people are flowing, and people who are dying are also teenagers.
There are more than 265,438+000 elderly people living in Shanghai Songjiang Shenyuan Community, which is more and more in China. How do old people feel when they leave their homes where they have lived all their lives and live in such a community for the aged for the first time? How will you spend the rest of your life? The living conditions of several elderly people in the community for the aged present a real and touching story of the elderly in China.
I can't walk, my wife left first, and my children have their own things to do. What will you do? Maybe it's a lonely life, maybe it's carrying a bag into a nursing home. If it were me, I would look at the world in a wheelchair.
"The opposite of life may not be death, but forgetting.
In China, nearly 70% of wills are invalid every year. Why can't a seemingly simple paper document play its due role? How to avoid and solve the disputes and contradictions arising from the will to the greatest extent? Is it necessary to make a will? At the Chinese Testament Library in Beijing, I'm waiting to be filmed to record the story of people coming to make wills for the first time. In the face of this final decision in life, where will people go?
Grandma Nie Airong has suffered from Az Harmo's disease, also known as Alzheimer's Harmo's disease, and her memory is gradually losing, while grandpa Nest is still with her. He said, "As long as I am here, you will be loved"; He said, "You will always be my girl". Later, for various reasons, grandma went to a nursing home, and grandpa was also worried about his health. When he was conscious and began to make a will to explain the aftermath, their hearts were settled.
Please remember me, although I have to say goodbye.
"Friends" are twelve paintings,
Lover is twelve paintings,
"Love" is twelve paintings,
Home is twelve paintings.
"Twelve" is a portrayal of the four seasons.
"Twelve" is the epitome of life.
Pushing open the door of the world, there are many firsts in life, from the first birth, growth, going to school, being a soldier, going to work, buying a house, getting married, retiring, providing for the aged, and finally saying goodbye. The most important firsts are worth remembering for a lifetime.
Being born is the first time to come into this world. When I first came to this world, there were tears and joy. Parents' emotions at that moment are real, life is first seen, and spring is quiet and bright.
Growing up, kindergarten is the first step to start life, bringing interpersonal communication into the group for the first time. From birth to three years old, children of this age may not understand many words, but they have a strong ability to learn to imitate. The behavior of parents and teachers exerts a subtle influence on children. Children of this age can easily see the shadow of their parents. Therefore, children who can speak freely and think independently are also given love and respect at home.
Is poetic education suitable for children who lack family education in mountainous areas? I think poetry can tell the children in the mountains more gently how to reconcile with the incompleteness. After all, children in the mountains may not have a piano, but poetry can teach them how to touch the notes of nature, and to some extent, they may be able to build up another kind of confidence. After all, nature's gift to children in the mountains is the most direct feeling. Children who know poetry will not break the glass, which is probably to some extent to resolve incomplete hostility and repair the lack of family education. Since it is inevitable, let's use poetry to cure these lonely children.
Being a soldier, serving the motherland, the process of boys growing into men, thank you for these soldiers who will protect the stability of the country in the future, and pay tribute!
At work, it is aimed at special groups of disabled people. A certain degree of mobility inconvenience makes it more difficult for them to step into social work than ordinary people. It is undoubtedly not easy to take good care of such children until they grow up to be independent and confident. These young people are tenacious and determined several times more than ordinary people. I hope that in the future, we can better improve the public facilities that are convenient for special people, and we can see more disabled people walking freely in the street, confident and powerful.
Buying a house and getting married, talking about buying a house is not necessarily about getting married, but talking about getting married is bound to easily involve buying a house. These two things, because of children, have become the heart disease of many families. The content mentioned in the documentary is generally aimed at the marriage of urban families and multinational families. They have the right to choose independently, their property is relatively independent and they depend on their parents. Life is like a relay race. If parents have the ability and willingness to buy a house for their children, it is far from being old-fashioned Of course, it is definitely more valuable for children to have their own abilities. The angle of documentary is also relatively aimed at the crowd, not the public. In real life, the combination of two people and two families is still much more complicated.
Retirement and pension are two closely related things. Retirement is accompanied by providing for the aged. The documentary shows us how the retired people with superior conditions in the city enrich their lives and provide for the elderly. The object of providing for the aged is the elderly who have lost their partners. One wants to stay at home, and the other chooses to go to a nursing home with very good conditions. At this time, the old man also knows that this is the last journey of life, and he doesn't care if the honor can't be taken away. Necessary clothes and some photos. The nursing home is much better than expected, even when he met his classmates as a teenager. This last journey is still much calmer with friends.
Farewell, this topic is undoubtedly the heaviest, which is destined to be a trip that will never return. For the elderly with Alzheimer's disease who are slowly losing their memories, * * * the same memory is a kind of existence that needs mutual confirmation. When we trace back our memories, we always hope that someone will say "I remember", but the forgetfulness of one side will make the nostalgia of the other side hard to ring, which is actually a very painful thing for those who have not forgotten, especially those who are loved. "The Journey of the Dream" says that "death is not the end, but forgetting is". Be remembered, even if you die, you are still alive in another world. If you are still alive, you will be forgotten.
Finally, I hope that when this life comes to an end, I can say this sentence calmly and contentedly: "My life is dull and meaningful."