Loneliness
If loneliness is not due to introversion, it is often due to excellence. People who are too beautiful tend to be lonely emotionally, and people who are too good are easily lonely mentally. The reason is obvious, because it is difficult for them to find a suitable partner. The sun is lonely, the moon is lonely, but the stars are countless.
No one can bear long-term loneliness. In order to get rid of loneliness, people with weak wills look for comfort and stimulation; people with strong wills seek to enrich themselves and transcend themselves. Their starting point is the same, but their endings are very different. The former sinks because of loneliness, while the latter sublimates because of loneliness.
A person would rather be alone than bored, because to him loneliness is just loneliness. There is a person who would rather be bored than lonely, because loneliness is just boring to him. Lonely and lonely people only feel that their time is deserted, but they will not waste their time. However, lonely and boring people always feel that their days are boring and boring, so they waste their time.
When others are frustrated and lonely, if you become their friend, they will often be grateful; when others are proud and crowded, if you want to be their guest, they will often be grateful. Scorned. Therefore a truly intelligent person will not be too snobbish, let alone a sincere person.
Some people who appear to be happy are actually very unhappy people; some people who appear to be very unhappy are actually very happy people. Only the person involved knows best about emotional luck and misfortune, and others are often making wild guesses.
Indeed, there are too many smiles on too many people’s faces because there are too many tears in their hearts...
I like to set off
I like to go.
Every place reached belongs to yesterday. No matter how green the mountains are, how beautiful the water is, and how gentle the wind is. Lingering deeply becomes a kind of fetter, which not only binds your feet, but also the future.
How can you not love setting off? It is a pity that I have not seen the majesty of the mountains; I am still a pity that I have not seen the vastness of the sea after I have seen the majesty of the mountains; I am still regretful that I have not seen the vastness of the desert after seeing the vastness of the sea; I have not seen the vastness of the desert yet. It’s still a pity to live through the mystery of the forest. There are endless scenery in the world, and I have an eternal mood.
I naturally know that there are bumps in the mountains, waves in the sea, wind and sand in the desert, and ferocious beasts in the forest. Even so, I still like it.
Breaking the peace of life is another scene, a scene that belongs to youth. I'm so glad I'm not old yet. So what if you are really old? Isn't there a saying that old age makes you stronger?
So I want to learn profundity from the mountains, bravery from the sea, composure from the desert, and agility from the forest. I also want to learn to taste a colorful life.
How far can a person go? This question is not about feet but about ambition; how high can a person climb? This question is not about the hands but about the will. Therefore, I want to use my passion to set a lofty goal for myself.
Not only to strive for a kind of glory, but also to pursue a state. If the goal is achieved, it is glorious; if the goal is not achieved, life will become rich and fulfilling because of the ups and downs along the way; in my opinion, this is a life worth living.
Yes, I like to go, and I hope you like it too.
Indifferent
In a world full of temptations, desire is coffee, wine, cocaine, and indifference is tea.
Undue desire is inspiring. , also kills people. Indifference does not mean lack of desire. What belongs to me must be done without mercy; if it does not belong to me, it is difficult for a lot of money to move his heart, so it is a kind of indifference.
Don’t worry about an indifferent life, and be able to live it with indifference Treat the prosperity and temptation in life with an attitude that allows your soul to sleep peacefully. Such a person gives himself the ease of a cloud and gives others the tranquility of a lake.
Destroying a peaceful life will always result in It starts with destroying the indifferent state of mind; repairing a damaged soul always starts with learning to live an indifferent life.
Temptation is like Lorelei on the Rhine, and desire is like being unable to withstand temptation. The boat that crashed under Lorelei, indifference can keep your mind like a mirror and avoid disasters.
Indifference may not give you much, but it will give you everything you need; luxury A lot may be given to you, but some things that people need may be lost.
A person who feels miserable for an indifferent life will often re-understand indifference at the cost of greater pain. .
There are too many temptations in this world, so there are too many desires, and therefore there are too many pains that cannot be satisfied. A person must walk through the years with a clear mind and calm steps, and his Indifference is indispensable in the spirit. Otherwise, he will either live too melancholy or be too boring.
Indifference does not mean not wanting to make progress, not doing nothing, not not having no pursuit, but facing life with a pure and beautiful soul. and life. Indifference is wise. The ancients have already had insightful insights into indifference. Indeed, indifference is like the beautiful sound of nature.
Spring is in our eyes, the beach is at our feet, the blue sky is above my door, the forest is In our hands, let our state of mind be farther away from the hustle and bustle and closer to nature, where indifference lies.
Random Thoughts on Rain
Sometimes, it’s raining outside but it’s sunny inside; sometimes, it’s sunny outside but it’s raining inside. There are many things in the world that you can taste in contrast. When your heart is clear, sunshine is also rain; when your heart is rainy, rain is also sunny.
However, no matter what kind of story, it will be unforgettable when it rains. Rain has a kind of magic: it can diffuse into a mood, soak into an atmosphere, and carve into a memory. Of course, sometimes it can turn into a disaster.
The wind and sand in spring, the dullness in summer, and the dryness in autumn all make people look forward to rain. A rain can also make the air much fresher and the streets much brighter. "Spring rain is as precious as oil." Farmers are not alone in their desire for rain.
When it rains, there is neither the sun nor the moon, but most people don’t feel dissatisfied. Maybe it’s because the climate is not cold during the rainy season, so it’s better to let the sun cool down for a while. A rainy night has a different charm that a moonlit night doesn't have. Sometimes people can't help but think of Li Shangyin's famous saying "Why should I cut off the candles on the west window, but talk about the rainy night in Bashan".
Walking in the light rain is a rare pleasure. Listening to the rustling sound of the rain gently hitting the broad leaves on the big-leaf poplar or sycamore trees, the beauty that nourishes the heart, even if it is Richard Clayderman's "Autumn Day" flowing under the piano. The elegant melody of "Whispers" is also difficult to compare. The miraculous creation of nature is truly unparalleled.
The scene of a pair of lovers walking in an alley is extremely ordinary. But when it rains, there is a small light blue umbrella in my hand and a beige windbreaker on my body, and the effect is completely different. At first glance, Youth in the Rain is a readable picture.
In the north, there are not many rainy days among the 365 days a year. So if there is rain like poetry or poetry like rain one day, I will feel curious.
The charm of the ordinary
I will not despise the ordinary, because I am one of the ordinary. My heart is printed with the wishes of ordinary people, and my eyes are printed with the joys and sorrows of ordinary people. What I am looking for is the answer that everyone is looking for.
Yes, I am ordinary, but I don’t need to look down at me with your depth. Even if I look up at something, what I want to see is not your noble face, but the majesty of the mountains and the height of the sky; yes , I am ordinary, but there is no need to look down on me with your profoundness. Even if I listen to something, what I want to listen to is not your empty words, but Lin Tao's noisy ocean call.
Yes, I am ordinary, but there is no need to tease me with your loftiness. Even if I long for something, it will never be your castle in the air, but the fragrance of the earth and the splendor of the morning sun. Of course, those sincere friends, familiar or unfamiliar, remind or encourage me. No matter what I say is right or wrong, I will feel warm.
Self-admiration cannot represent beauty or brilliance, and thinking that one is extraordinary cannot symbolize heroic spirit.
I admit, I am indeed very ordinary. As ordinary as wind, water, and snow... However, being ordinary is not without reason to be proud, nor is it without charm.
The wind is very ordinary, if it blows in summer; the water is very ordinary, if it is a clear spring in the desert; the snow is very ordinary, if it blows between winter and spring...
I Appreciate such ordinaryness, I love such ordinaryness, and I also want to work hard to become such ordinaryness.
Qing Gao
Qing Gao, not because of superiority, but because of elegance. Superiority does not result, but arrogance.
Arrogance cannot be compared with desire. Just like plants, some are graceful and some are elegant. They are very different.
A person who always wants to express himself to others is not actually the real one. The real one is to maintain his own purity, not to show off to others.
You can be good, but you can't show others as dirty things because of it. Otherwise, this is a sign of lack of good cultivation. There are some people who are like this because they never lack milk and bread.
Once there is an existential crisis, he will sweep the floor gracefully and rob more crazily than anyone else. Chinese literati throughout the ages have no shortage of outstanding people. What they lack are sober and calm people, sober in times of fanaticism and sober in times of frustration.
Not everyone can do it. Either the breath is like an orchid, or the temperament is like bamboo, or the freshness is like water, or the talent is like the sea. If a vulgar and conceited person has to act like that, it will only make people feel funny.
Sometimes, silence can also be used to express something, but its meaning is only limited to indicating. The regret is that this is often useless at the time and does not help the situation. Therefore, it often takes on the color of laughter. If you have a little, you can win people's favor; if you go too far, you can easily arouse people's disgust.
This is something we must pay attention to in life. , can be used to cultivate one's character, but cannot be used to govern a country, let alone bring peace to the world. Doing what others cannot do and enduring what others cannot endure are often heroic acts. Such practices are often far from the norm.
Humor
When a hypocritical person brags about his sincerity, or a stingy person brags about his generosity, what I want to say is: this person is really "humorous" .
A wise person may not necessarily be humorous; but a humorous person must be wise.
A person who still maintains humor in the face of adversity is undoubtedly a strong person. Weak people don't even have time to cry when they are in adversity, so how can they have humor.
The humor of great men is best kept in words rather than implemented in actions; the humor of ordinary people is best injected into life rather than just in words.
Humor has a charm. It often arouses respect in the hearts of men, and love in the hearts of women.
A person with a sense of humor is undoubtedly a master of words.
The humor of little people can only make big people laugh at most, but the humor of big people can make even God laugh.
Humor is different from sarcasm. Generally speaking, humor is good-natured satire; irony is malicious humor.
A friend who is not good at humor is a friend I am happy to receive; a friend who is good at humor is a friend I am happy to visit.
A general without a sense of humor is still an excellent general; a politician without a sense of humor is still a regrettable politician.
Someone asked scientist David to fill in a form to list his contributions to science. Guess what he filled in?
He wrote: The greatest contribution - the discovery of Faraday.
Humor, in addition to containing wisdom, also contains the yearning for beauty.
Revelation on the seaside
Rows of swells wash away the dust in my heart, and my inspiration is injured by the waves, leaving me naked and pale. Time is full of gloom, and there is no spirit of the past or the grace of today. My eyes have been stationed in the passing past and the distant future for a long time.
The flying seagulls slap the side of the ship and hit the chest carelessly. If flying is value and pleasure, why bother explaining to the people who are looking at you? Human beings always feel that time is short and the road is long. From generation to generation, countless heroes have looked up to the sky and asked: Why can’t life fly?
Lovers miss the beach just like soldiers loved the forts in the past. One by one is here. The withered shells are blooming thousands of miles away. Look, how greedy human beings are. When they go to the beach, they want to take a piece of the sea with them. But who doesn’t expect that their vision will always be filled with green and green indigo.
The women calmly weave thrilling stories in the sea with silver shuttles. The mottled ancient ships stranded on the shore can only rely on memories to enjoy the surging sea of ??the glorious expedition. The whimpering conch horn is the most moving music on the waves, and the blue sentiment passes through the door of the century and resounds through the ages.
The city behind us seems like a stage with curtains rising and falling. The best actors are not on the stage but in life. I wonder if this is a blessing in life and a tragedy in art.
Looking at the sea and going out to the sea are really two kinds of life and two realms. One is to give your eyes to the sea, and the other is to give your life to the sea.
If your mind is not as big as the sea, how can you do a career as big as the sea? If your mind is really as big as the sea, won’t any career lose its luster?
Friendship is knowing each other
Friendship is knowing each other. When you are in need, my friends have silently come to you before I even tell you. His eyes and heart can understand you, and he can even hold your thin arms with his hands. Because of friendship, you will not feel alone in this world.
Of course, a person can also look down upon suffering and stand tall in the world.
But we have to admit that in the face of hardships and dangers, a person's will can be very strong, but the methods and strength will be limited. Therefore, friendship is like sunshine, shining on you like petals in the wind when it is warm and then cold.
Friendship is often formed in good times, tested in adversity, and flows and extends in the river of time.
Some friends can only be made for a while, and some friends can be made forever. Making temporary friends may be a misunderstanding. There is no need to complain about the misunderstanding, just say goodbye. There is no need to make any vows to make eternal friends. After passing through the tunnel of time, the sincerity and persistence are enough to move the heart.
You don’t have to have too many close friends. One confidant is enough in life, let alone more than one spiritual partner. We can have many friends, as long as we have the same pursuit and wish.
Friendship is not limited, it can be between elders and young, between the same sex, between the opposite sex, and even between foreign countries. The mountains are constantly separated and the water is constantly separated. It is not romantic but also lingering.
It’s just that the love is too strong, and the mere acquaintance is too weak. Friendship is acquaintance, and the taste is sweet and the environment is far away.
Like
Love is selfish, liking is tolerant.
It is easy to like and turn into love, but it is difficult for love to turn into liking.
Like is a low-level appreciation, while appreciation is a high-level liking.
I dare to say that I like every piece of music flowing from Richard Clayderman’s piano; but I dare not say that I appreciate Richard Clayderman playing it. Every piece of music played.
I like you, not because you also like me; I love you, because you also love me.
In spring, people like to say: I like autumn;
In autumn, people like to say: I like spring.
If there is nothing, I prefer something.
Children like to grow up, and old people long to be young.
People who like liveliness often do it because their souls are lonely; people who like loneliness often do it because their thoughts are full.
To like literature and end up studying theory, or to like theory and end up studying literature, is the first misunderstanding of fate, but it is not the final misunderstanding.
Those who are more rigorous and more imaginative, or those who are more rigorous in their imagination, are often more successful.
When I am sad, I like the coolness and freshness of the drizzle; when I am frustrated, I yearn for the vastness of the sea; when I am lonely, I gaze at the moon; when I feel lonely, I can’t help but embark on a deserted path... …
People can dislike fate, but they cannot dislike nature.
The more you like, the less you get; the less you like, the more you get.
But some people just like it and don’t care whether they get it or not. If you think about it carefully, this is really strange.
If you no longer like me, it is not necessarily my fault. If you no longer like me, it must be the torture of fate. If you no longer like me, I will not say anything. , if you no longer like me, I will be very painful, but I will not beg you: don’t leave me.
I hate the night, but I like the stars.
Like is the precious nature of human beings, like is the teacher of success, and like is the prelude to love and joy.
Due to differences in experience, hobbies, and personalities, everyone’s preferences for Yao, Huang, Wei, and Zi are colorful. Some like spring and snow, some like people from lower reaches; some like romance, and some like iron horses and fighting... But human beings have one thing in common, they often don’t cherish the things they get or have, and only realize them once they are lost. Seeing its value, they think that the known realm is full of dullness, while the unknown realm has charming and alluring scenery. Therefore, immature children long to grow beards, while those with gray hair on the temples fantasize about the reappearance of childish faces.
Like is not love, like is not possession, like is often a super-utilitarian aesthetic without purpose, like itself is the purpose.
Likes can relieve pain, likes can divert attention, give you a ray of spring breeze when it is cold, and give you a stream of water when you are lonely.
However, fate always gives humans a lot of dislikes. At this time, you need your patience, your choice, and your deep thinking. People should like things, but they cannot like too much.
Inevitability
For something that is bound to happen, people can at most change its degree or speed up or delay its occurrence, but they cannot avoid its arrival. It is unrealistic to try to avoid this necessity.
This is true whether social progress develops in a higher direction or as small as a person's life moving towards aging and death.
Those who are impatient must be reckless, those who are narrow-minded must be jealous, those who are proud must regress, and those who do evil must be punished. If you don’t want to have subsequent consequences, you need to improve and eliminate the previous causes.
Different people will inevitably react differently to the same thing. It is from the different reactions to things that we know and identify people, and find true friends and confidants.
When a person's strength makes him stupid, stupidity is inevitable.
The 19th-century British writer Dickens described in the novel "Hard Times" the Tom who did not follow the right path, robbed his employer's treasury before, and framed others for the crime, and finally fell into the law. This is the case. A typical example. There are countless examples of stupidity like this in life.
To do a career, diligence is inevitable, but success is still accidental to a large extent. Since success is accidental to a large extent and not inevitable, why continue to do it? Because quitting is not even an accident.
In Beijing, girls who have a habit of constantly changing their boyfriends are commonly known as: one song a week. I think that many of the girls with this nickname may have two must-sing songs. The first one is sung with a smile and is called "The Moon Represents My Heart"; the second one is sung with a cry and is called "Sister sheds tears looking for her brother".
Marriage is a life path that most people must take. Happiness or misfortune is not inevitable.
A smart person does not do things that are bound to fail, he only does things that may fail.
Missing is a kind of beautiful loneliness
Only when you miss, loneliness becomes particularly beautiful.
Missing is a kind of happy sadness, a kind of sweet melancholy, and a kind of warm pain. Missing is the long indulgence of yesterday and the yearning for a better future.
It is in the endless longing that people's feelings are purified and sublimated.
Without distance, there is no missing. When the ship's whistle sounds, when the train whistle sounds, when the car's wheels start turning, when the plane rushes off the runway and takes off into the sky, missing you begins.
It is precisely because of longing that we have the joy of meeting again after a long absence, the surprise of unexpected encounters, and the toasts of celebration when relatives and friends get together.
Longing tortures and tempers people, and also forges their calmness of character and depth of emotion.
Missing others is a kind of warmth, and being missed by others is a kind of happiness. Of course, the best prerequisite is to miss each other.
Otherwise, unrequited love is a kind of sadness, and being missed only by others is a burden.
Because of longing, the moonlight is infused with strong human emotions.
When the moon is curved, my thoughts are also curved. When the moon is round, my thoughts are also round. No matter whether the moon is curved or round, my thoughts are a bright poem.
Missing you can make you cry, and missing you can also make you smile.
Whether you are crying and missing, or smiling and missing, when you are missing, you will not be distracted.
Indeed, longing is also a kind of purity.
I miss you under the bright moon, in the dusk, in the autumn rain. The beautiful scenery is more likely to arouse people's feelings of longing.
The beautiful scenery also brings out the desolate beauty.
Along with endless longing is bound to be a long wait. The American female poet Ogikinson said: "Ten thousand years is not long to wait, if you finally have love as compensation." This can really be said to be a kind of loyalty and open-mindedness in longing.
No matter how you say it, longing is a huge spiritual wealth. The stamps embodying deep affection and the letters exuding warmth are all worth more than spiritual wealth.
The years may pass away like fallen leaves, but this wealth will last forever. In your long journey of life, it will always accompany you, giving you endless warmth and inexhaustible strength.
Chicken and unrestrained
In this world, there are not many people who are truly chic, but many who pretend to be chic.
However, you can never "pretend" to be chic. Otherwise, everyone will be chic, and there will be no chic in the world.
What is sad and deplorable is that some people who pretend to be cool often feel good about themselves and think that they are really cool.
At this time, he felt as if he had relived a sentence often said by Westerners - My God!
The naturalness in the heart is a state, and its ultimate is selflessness - being born out of the world;
The naturalness in the outside is a scenery, and its ultimate is self - equanimity. Who am I?
When you lose a precious item, you only regret it for a moment and then throw it away. This is a kind of coolness.
After breaking up with my lover, I regretted it in my heart for a few days, and then became calm as before. This is not cool, but that I have never truly loved.
When you deliberately imitate coolness, you are the farthest away from coolness; when you have no intention of being cool, it is the time when coolness is closest to you.
Some people think that the style of spending a lot of money is chic. This is really a misunderstanding and ridicule of chic. Showing off this kind of style can't prove anything more than proving that 80% of the money is not earned by one's own hard work.
Once such a person is in trouble, let alone unrestrained, he may not even be able to maintain his self-esteem. Has anyone seen how a rich man in trouble or a nouveau riche behaves coolly?
Chicken and unrestrained is a true character. Those who are particularly chic are those who naturally express and develop their true colors to the fullest extent.
If you lose your true nature, you will lose your chicness.
Not afraid of what others say is also a kind of coolness.
If you are afraid of what others say, you will often hesitate to move forward.
A person who is often hesitant and hesitant cannot be free and unrestrained.
Who doesn’t love chic?
Who can be chic?
Only those with a broad mind can be free and easy in spirit; only those with self-confidence and strength can be free and easy in appearance. This kind of coolness is the real sense of coolness. In life, the kind of unrestrainedness that is more close to the meaning of beauty is nothing more than a "little trick" compared with the real unrestrainedness. It does not contribute to a great cause or a noble life.