In the days before their marriage, although Chui Fu and Xu Mu were still dissatisfied with Lu Xiaoman, they also had a romantic and comfortable life. Only in the later period, due to Lu Xiaoman's illness, Xu Shenru's refusal to accept it, the erosion of opium and many other reasons, Lu Xiaoman became more and more careless, lazy and playful, and lost his passion in love. It seems that she is no longer a spiritual woman.
In order to please his wife, Xu Zhimo indulged her blindly. Although Lu Xiaoman was often verbally warned euphemistically, it had little effect. Later, Xu Zhimo's father, Xu Shenru, was extremely dissatisfied with Lu Xiaoman and made a clean break with the couple economically. It is unrealistic for Xu Zhimo to take money from his father. Therefore, he will give lectures at Guanghua University, Soochow University and Daxia University at the same time, and write poems after class to earn the manuscript fee.
/kloc-in the autumn of 0/930, when Lu Xiaoman was 29 years old, Xu Zhimo simply resigned from his posts in Shanghai and Nanjing. At the invitation of Hu Shizhi, he was hired as Professor Peking University and Professor of Beijing Women's Normal University to make a living. 193 1 In the first half of the year, Xu Zhimo made eight trips between Shanghai and Beijing.
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After Xu Zhimo's death, Lu Xiaoman stopped going out to socialize. She silently endured criticism and accusations from outside. As she said in the elegy to Zhimo; "How many past dust has become a nightmare, five years of sorrow and joy, forever rushing, repeated justice, dying because of my mother's old age; Don't hate talking to anyone. You are worried about getting sick and you are far away from your soul. The world should not last long, and there must be an answer. "
She missed Zhimo and devoted herself to sorting out and publishing Xu Zhimo's posthumous works. It has been used for decades, and the ups and downs are complicated. The marriage between Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman is a free union that breaks through feudal shackles. Although they have hurt each other, they also love each other deeply.