Child:
In the blink of an eye, it has been more than a month since the college entrance examination ended. Fortunately, you performed normally in this college entrance examination and passed the test to your level. You should have no problem enrolling in a university, and you have fulfilled your original ambition and achieved a stage victory in your life.
However, after seeing your performance in the month after the college entrance examination, I still want to say a few words to you.
First, don’t relax yourself. After a short break, you must continue to work hard.
The race of life has just begun, and the college entrance examination is just the first step in a long journey of thousands of miles. Graduating from high school also marks that you have become an adult. Legally speaking, you already have your own rights and obligations. You have the obligation to make your own contributions to your family and society. Don't be satisfied with the current status quo, keep learning and develop your own learning ability. Dad once told you that the college entrance examination is only the first exam in your life. There will be many exams in the future, such as exams for every subject in university, qualification exams for future units, professional title exams, etc.
Judging from the recent driving license test that I applied for you, I didn’t expect that you still haven’t passed such a simple subject test after taking it twice. It’s not that you don’t have the ability, but that you don’t have the intention. Go study, everything in the world is difficult, and it is easy to master it. If you don’t invest a certain amount of time and energy, don’t expect to pass any exam easily.
Second, cherish your time and learn more things that are useful for your future development.
Don’t be addicted to some online videos and games. While you are young, learn more skills in life. Whether you are learning writing, calligraphy, music, driving license, cooking, or fitness, these will be used in the future. As long as you concentrate on studying, your efforts will never be in vain.
Don't waste your time easily. Time is like running water, slipping away from you unknowingly. Dad doesn't object to you having gatherings with your classmates, nor does he object to you going on trips to relax. But in time management, we must have the concept of cherishing time. Youth is easy to lose, and time is fleeting. For you, the four years of college are fleeting. You will feel something about it in the future. If you don't cherish time, you will only leave yourself with regrets in the future. Time is as precious as it is to a person, so don’t take your own time lightly.
Third, strive to improve your abilities in all aspects.
I have told you many times that Dad has high expectations for you. Dad hopes that you will become a very, very good child. Therefore, no matter whether it is dad's accusation or preaching, there is no dissatisfaction with you at all. On the contrary, it is all expectations for you.
I hope you are excellent in all aspects, have high learning ability and master various skills. If you have excellent grades in every subject at school, make outstanding contributions to society, and be able to advance step by step in your career, you can reach the pinnacle of life. Being able to make achievements that make your parents proud is not in vain for all the years of training you have received.
Fourth, you must cherish your body.
For a young person, you may not realize the importance of your body. But dad tells you, this world does not belong to rich people, nor does it belong to powerful officials, but to a healthy and progressive person. Maintaining a healthy body will make you more confident and ambitious to start your own business. Many people give up on their ideal goals just because their health is not good.
Having a healthy body also requires sacrifice. Those who insist on running on the playground every day are people with perseverance, and those who pay attention to exercising every day are also people with super self-discipline. For some people, their health is not bad, but they are pursuing better and stronger bodies to prepare for heavy work in the future, so that they can have a strong backing for the hardships of starting a business.
Dad asks you to go out for runs and play ball every day just to keep you in good health. When you go to college, you must put your health first, actively participate in various sports activities, pay attention to improving your physical fitness, and lay a solid physical foundation for your future career.
Fifth, always maintain an enterprising heart
University life just provides you with a platform to learn in higher fields. Going to college doesn't mean you can settle down once and for all, let alone have fun or indulge yourself. Instead, set higher goals for yourself. In college, you must be more strict with yourself, because college is no longer different from high school. There are no teachers to supervise you, and you have to study completely on your own. Try to get to know as many like-minded classmates as possible and surround yourself with those who are progressive. Acquire more knowledge and skills, stay away from friends who have no ambitions, are ignorant and have no skills, follow the example of outstanding classmates, and ask teachers for advice.
You must establish your own world view and outlook on life, distinguish between good and evil, beauty and ugliness, and see through the essence of human nature. These require you to read a lot, have a lot of contact with society, and develop the habit of reading a book regularly every week. Habits, external beauty can be dressed up with clothes, but inner beauty can only be improved by reading. As the saying goes, you have poetry and calligraphy in your belly, and reading more will greatly enhance your temperament.
Sixth, be a responsible person
As a boy, you must know the importance of the word "responsibility". You may not value feelings, but you must be responsible. , as a child, you have the responsibility to honor your parents, as a student, you have the responsibility to respect the teacher, as a friend, you have the responsibility to help others, and as a man, you have the responsibility to take care of your wife or girlfriend in the future .
In front of your parents and teachers, you must be in awe, listen carefully to your parents’ warnings and teachers’ advice, think carefully about every word said to you, and don’t take it for granted. Some words should still be regarded as orders. If you are not afraid of anyone and do not listen to anyone, you will be the one who suffers in the end. Remember that all freedom is predicated on constraints.
Regarding falling in love and dating, if you are destined to meet your sweetheart, you must be able to take care of your girlfriend and have the desire to be in the same boat. If you just want to have fun, Play or don't talk about it. Whether it is time or energy, it will come at a price for you. Try to attract others by strengthening your own strength, and do not please the other person through flattery.
Okay, kid, the ship of your life has set sail. Go boldly on the voyage. The sea will not always be calm. Strong winds, huge waves, ocean currents, and reefs will appear at any time. Be vigilant at all times and take precautions in advance.