Empty "suitcase" is also anxiety about interpersonal relationships, fear of future life, and confusion about existing life on the road to growth. Some uncomfortable emotions are filled bit by bit until they are filled with one burden after another.
So, will you choose to escape? The answer is not multiple choice. In the film, children in this city will use simple food and plain language in their own way. Tell you how to bring a little comfort and solace to the fragile mind, and convey a profound philosophy of life and a life aesthetics that returns to nature!
First, work at sunrise and rest at sunset.
1. foreign version of plum
The triangular rice balls in convenience stores can satisfy people's hunger in three to five minutes. Compared with cooking a simple routine, it is often all kinds of fast food in takeaway software that you can't put it down. Busy with work and serious life, how long I haven't eaten well seems to be a vague thing in my memory.
There is no need to observe the growth process of food materials. And the city is cooking to fill those lonely days in the old house. "The fairyland is full of water, and the scenery in Taoyuan is intoxicating;" Under the Dongli, where chrysanthemums were picked in the Ming Dynasty, the villa was flat and easy to cultivate. "
Komori, a village, is probably a paradise written by poets in the Tang Dynasty! The home of the city is a clean and straight oil cypress road, surrounded by dense forests, endless lush rice fields, simple and natural villagers … just like the beauty of the world is gathered here.
Just like Li, Shizi's ingredients are all from his own fields or rice fields, and he also skillfully uses the delicious food made by natural gourmets. Besides, all kinds of delicious food are made by ourselves and shared with others.
At the same time, their biggest similarity is that strong people are living seriously and adding quiet and leisurely fun to boring life with delicious food. Fatigue is a common occurrence. People can't always output positive energy and occasionally bring themselves a little negative energy, so why not find a hobby of their own and try it as a pleasure!
Second, whatever the heart wants, it goes with the fate.
1. Four seasons alternating between the sun and the moon
Although there are no flowery words in the film, it simply states the trivial things in daily life. But you can still feel the amazing beauty of nature under the lens, and the girl with tough appearance and fragile heart. The increase of sugar can't change Elaeagnus angustifolia, just as city life can't change the market.
The fast pace of the city gave her a series of blows, as if everything was out of place with her. This phenomenon has become a common thing in daily life, and there are many examples of young people who have worked hard in big cities returning to their hometowns in loneliness.
What made them give up their original dreams? In fact, the answer can be imagined. Although college life is the beginning of contact with society, it is not the result of understanding society. The world is full of challenges and opportunities. Lack of work and social experience makes us unable to adapt quickly, which weakens our confidence.
In addition, the protection from parents, schools and society is too great to bear the so-called pressure, and the resistance to pressure is too great, which will cause the psychology of wanting to escape. So she chose the same way as everyone else-to escape and to fill her lonely heart with food. She finally returned to her hometown-Komori.
Mother once said: "Cooking can reflect people's hearts, so pay attention, or you will hurt yourself." In fact, an ordinary dish can read people's hearts, but these tiny observation points are hidden in the moment when people don't pay attention.
Usually I always complain that my mother is lazy, and I feel that I always cook because of simplicity. However, when she began to try to make it herself, what she made was always not to her mother's taste. I didn't know that my mother spent a lot of time in it until the vegetables were finally tendon-removed. She neglected her mother's hobby of reading, which is her spirit.
In real life, why don't we spit like this? We always feel that this or that is not satisfactory, and the last thing that comes to mind is always my mother's good. People always habitually accept the kindness of their families, but they also forget that family members are the most vulnerable to subtle injuries, including, of course, words they don't like again and again.
Time is passing, and the days are not always the same, just like spring, summer, autumn and winter. The rotation of the hour hand seems to be the same and different every second, and these repeated daily lives are dull and completely different. Treat every day with a different mood, and you will find yourself brand-new.
2. Calm down and find yourself.
Xiaoshi said: "Because there is nowhere else to go, it is disrespectful to stay in Komori." Sometimes life can only bring you four words, "feel good". She is not so much fleeing from the city as herself. A series of troubles of love, affection and friendship caught her off guard, and finally gradually understood in the food.
Difficulties always exist. Not being afraid is the beginning of growth, and not escaping is the beginning of maturity. Perhaps, in the process of convincing herself, she has been gradually understanding life, needs to calm down and sort out her thoughts, and needs to find the truest self like room 19.
In fact, everyone has a vulnerable side. Because of fear, I dare not face myself directly, and often disguise myself with a tough mask. Might as well give yourself some time, a space to settle your heart and recognize yourself. Real growth never depends on others to become stronger.
People may make excuses for their hypocrisy and treat it as elegance and vulgarity to deceive themselves. Why is it not true? Even though there are many difficulties, why not live seriously. As Liu Tong, a young writer, once wrote, "If people drink water, they will know how warm and cold it is. If he has no foundation in his heart, all the superficial decorations will be fleeting. When everything dissipates, everything that does not belong to him will eventually be taken away and left behind. "
But Liu Tong simply explained that what floats on the surface is scenery, and what sinks comes from having an answer. Facing the true demands of the heart is the correct way to pursue the answer. There will be unfairness and discomfort all over the world. Maybe you will be tired of the complexity of social interaction, maybe you will feel that you have no sincerity to please, maybe you have never felt the hope of the future in the crowded subway. ...
But these only belong to the world. Please don't lose confidence in society and yourself. If you can't change the environment, you can only change yourself and sincerely live up to the environment. Nothing in the world is perfect. We should learn to face up to shortcomings and deficiencies. Only when we really love can our souls land.
Bravely pursue your own heart, be the truest self, and make the world brighter! Sometimes subtle touches are really healing, and light life has its radiance. I hope you have experienced difficulties and obstacles, feel that the world is worth it, see all the changes in temperature and still love it.