Probably a real adult understands that time is like a blink of an eye. After the National Day holiday last year, my brother-in-law sent me back to school. He said that in fact, many times he was afraid to go home. As soon as he returned to his hometown, he heard that an old man in the village had disappeared again. This feeling seems to tell himself that his relatives will be next.
When I was a child, I had no playmates in my hometown. Some of my friends who have been crazy in every corner, such as going to school, going to work and getting married, have little contact, so it is difficult to get back the feeling of childhood, and those parents who clamor for you to eat every day are not so energetic. The place where the children played suddenly lost its vitality.
Obviously, those memories are like yesterday. In a blink of an eye, we all grew up and began to understand parting and death. Many things are better without feeling. Once we come into contact with them, we will feel uncomfortable for a long time. This is probably the so-called seeing things and thinking about people.
My roommate two dog told me yesterday that he cried the day his father sent him away. His mother told him in secret that he said he had been suffering. I have seen this description in other people's articles before, but in the end I didn't push myself and others. When it really came to us, we realized the pain and discomfort. And when we began to find out how much our parents loved us, we began to move away from home.
The ancients said: parents are here, not far away. Nowadays, transportation and communication tools are very developed. We don't find it difficult to meet each other, but we often find it troublesome. Maybe next time. We'll do it next time. Parents will grow old day by day in this kind of waiting. I once read an article to calculate how long I can stay with my parents, and the final result is that there are still dozens of hours.
On the morning of New Year's Day, at six o'clock, grandpa came into my room six times in half an hour. I slept late the night before because I watched the Spring Festival Gala and played with my mobile phone. I didn't understand his behavior, so I told my grandma that grandpa always disturbed me to sleep. Grandma said that he just wanted to see you one more time, and suddenly he really felt pricked, and childhood memories came back to his mind.
In adolescence, I want to wear all kinds of fashionable clothes. At that time, ripped jeans were particularly popular. Grandma doesn't understand why she has to wear a pair of broken pants. But after I insist and explain the trend, she will also buy me tight jeans. Although I don't like that model.
When I was a child, I thought about death from time to time. Many times, the more I think about it, the more I get scared, and then I lie in bed and cry silently. Sometimes I also calculate the living time of the elderly at home. I always want to calculate the longest time, and then I am glad that I can spend many years with them.
We are still gradually thinking that when our parents are still in their thirties and when we are babies, our parents will be fifty years old. Sooner or later, no one will spoil you as a child. Grow up, really grow up.
Go back and see them more while there is still time. Most parents don't like us at home and will miss us after they leave, but as time goes on, they will rely on us more and more.