Thank you for all the encounters, let your heart be bright and warm

Ivanka Trump once said: "In the eyes of the public, I have a perfect life, but they don't know how hard I worked to get it all." The harder you work, the luckier you are.

"Your concentration makes the whole world feel like it is facing a formidable enemy." Behind Dong Qing's popularity, there is a lonely and strong soul hidden deep. She always meets all challenges with a calm mind, looks at the joys and sorrows with a detached attitude, and lives a free and easy life, calm and fulfilling.

"The so-called beauty has flowers as appearance, birds as sounds, the moon as god, willows as form, jade as bones, ice and snow as skin, autumn water as posture, and poetry as Heart. "Use words full of wisdom, a calm attitude, a talented heart, and live hard, and you will eventually become the most elegant and beautiful version of yourself.

Anthony Robin, the American master of potential development, said: "The first step to success is to have a grateful heart. Always be grateful for your current situation, and at the same time be grateful for what others have done for you. With respect and gratitude for everything."

Hawking, the world's scientific giant, said: "My hands can still move, my brain can still think, I have the ideals I pursue throughout my life, and I have love. And my loved ones and friends, and by the way, I still have a grateful heart."...Who would have thought that this open-minded and beautiful text was written by a person who has lived in a wheelchair for more than thirty years. A young man, how great he must be!

British philosopher Locke said: "Gratitude is a spiritual treasure." Gratitude is the smallest and greatest of virtues. Gratitude makes a person's soul healthier. Learn to be grateful, thank those who accompany you through the days of loss; thank those who listen to your nonsense when you are bored; thank those who helped you when you were helpless; thank all those who pass by your life, Because of them, your life is more colorful.

Mark Twain said: Love runs fast, love grows slowly. A woman who knows how to be grateful must be open-minded and broad-minded. Her open-mindedness will drive away the indifference, darkness, and cruelty of the world. Her optimism will convey love and touch for a long time, making life full of sunshine and the world full of warmth.

A talented woman always has a unique charm, extraordinary spirituality and ultimate beauty. Such a woman has a bit of charm in her books, a spark of wisdom in her purity, and an unyielding soul in her gentleness. Mrs. Thatcher once said: "An excellent woman often does not limit herself to a certain field. She always excels in all fields."

All the books I have read, have read The poems and words we read will be written into our temperament and hidden in our souls, turning into the breeze and bright moon in our eyes and the sea of ??stars in our hearts. "Talent is an indestructible garment." The "clothes" here are closely related to the beauty of style, and are inseparable from the connotation of knowledge. The most beautiful "clothes" for a woman is the talent "coat" with beautiful appearance and fine texture.

An eye-catching face and a pleasing figure are only the capital of youth; a smart and witty mind and a tireless enthusiasm for learning are the real priceless treasures of a woman. Beauty will gradually fade with the passage of time, but a woman's inner talent can keep pace with the times and remain new over time. Love to read, love to think, love art, be optimistic about life, be kind-hearted, and be open-minded are the indispensable basic qualities of a talented woman.

A talented woman is elegant, wise and open-minded, and courteous in dealing with others; a talented woman is fashionable and beautiful, pleasing to the eye, and is a beautiful scenery in the workplace; a talented woman is smart, capable, simple and unpretentious, They not only know how to respect others, but also cherish themselves; talented women are proactive, optimistic, and behave softly on the outside but strong on the inside. A truly talented woman is a combination of spirituality and flexibility. They have the grandeur of an "intellectual woman" and the gentleness of an ordinary woman; they have the competence of a working woman and the delicacy of an ordinary woman. Not only can they conquer men, they can also attract women.

A contestant in the "Chinese Poetry Conference" quoted a poem to praise Dong Qing, "A beauty should use jade as her bones, snow as her skin, hibiscus as her face, and willows as her posture." He said that she "every frown, every smile, every word, They all exude charm.”

"I Remember" by Yesenin "How gentle I was at that time. I scattered flower petals in your hair. When you left, my heart will not become cold. Thinking of you is like reading The most lovely words are so joyful."

A graceful woman in a skirt, holding a book of poems in her hands, letting the fragrance of Tang poems exaggerate the clear sky above her head, and the sea of ??flowers in Song Dynasty intoxicated her. Troubled heart. A graceful and elegant atmosphere of "weeping willow silk and flower branches filling the garden with butterflies" comes to your face. She is the early spring, bringing fragrance, fragrance, warmth and spring color. Her beauty is soft, like water and flowers, delicate and exquisite, and a refreshing feeling in a tired world.

Someone asked Dong Qing, if you were asked to bring only three things to survive on a desert island, what would you bring? She answered: "The first is a book; the second is a seed, 'take root and sprout on it, let me see that hope exists'; the third is a man, 'bring a lover there, you cannot live without these things'."

There are so many cities in the world, and there are so many pubs in the cities, but she just walked into mine. ——The movie "Casablanca"

Hidden in a woman's temperament are the books she has read and the path she has traveled.

A woman who loves reading is a beautiful sight no matter where she goes. She may not be amazing in appearance, but she has an inner temperament: her elegant conversation is otherworldly, her elegant demeanor does not need to be modified, it is dignified in silence, and elegant in movement; it is dignified in sitting, and free and easy in walking, which is natural Simplicity and subtlety are mixed together, as soft as water, as charming as wind, as gorgeous as flowers...

Talking to her always makes people feel refreshed, without any tackiness; It makes people live in no city and the sun shines brightly. Indeed, a woman will become very good after reading enough good books, because the books give her the confidence, cultivate her true, beautiful and pure emotions, making her gentle, elegant, considerate, Full of bookish atmosphere.

The famous female writer Sanmao said: "When you read more, your appearance will naturally change. Many times, you may think that many of the books you have read have become a passing smoke and are no longer remembered. In fact, they are still in your latent temperament. , in conversation, in the boundlessness of mind, and of course it may also be revealed in life and writing."

Romain Rolland said: "Living with books, you will never sigh." Bi Shumin said: "The days go by day by day, and the book should be read page by page. The breeze is bright and the moon is shining, and the water drops penetrate the stone. Read it for a lifetime. Books are like microwaves, shaking our hearts from the inside out. Slowly heating, the structure of the spiritual molecules changes and matures, and the effectiveness of books is highlighted."

Read more books, read some good books, knowledge is the only beauty product, and books are the best. Feminine fashion and books will keep women eternally beautiful.

(Note: The text is excerpted from Qiao Ruiling's "Dong Qing: Becoming a Talented Woman" Baihuazhou Literature and Art Publishing House)