If you are reading, it is a poem about missing your wife, which expresses your missing for your wife from a man's point of view.
Looking at the distant mountain across the water with dry eyes, how many times have you met? An empty pot is afraid of drinking a glass of wine, and harmony is difficult to write a poem. The way to stop people from leaving for a long time, the news is sent back late. The lonely light kept a long silence at night, and the husband remembered his wife, father and children.
The wandering husband misses his wife and children very much, but he is far away and can't see anything but mountains and rivers. I haven't seen my wife and children since I left home for so long. I miss them very much, but I haven't heard from them, and communication is inconvenient. Sending letters is slow to death. I don't want to sleep after a long night. I want to write poetry, but I can't. I want to drink, but I dare not (in fact, I finished drinking). I'm afraid I can't write poetry well. what can I do? I just keep thinking about my wife and children.
However, if read in reverse, this is a poem by Sifu. From the wife's point of view, it expresses the yearning for her husband all the year round and the resentment of staying alone in the empty boudoir.
A child remembers his father, his wife and her husband, and a lonely night watchman is lonely. There is no news of sending geese, so I have been away from people for a long time. Poetry is difficult to write, but a glass is afraid of an empty pot. I met several times, but my eyes dried up when I looked at the water from a distance.
The general idea is that in the long night, the son misses his father and his husband himself. However, this letter didn't get a reply. My husband has been gone for so long, and the distance between them is too far. I have figured out how to write this poem, but I miss my husband so much that I can't write it at all. What shall we do? I can only drown my sorrows by drinking one cup after another, for fear of running out. I know my husband's mind, but the difference is too far. I can't wait for my husband to come back.
Different reading methods and angles of the same poem are different, so when men and women read this poem, the reading order is also different, so as to better understand the emotions contained in the poem. Men are studying, experiencing the loneliness that the ancients could not go back after a long trip, and missing their wives and children. Women, on the other hand, read backwards, realizing the bitterness of her husband's business trip for many days, leaving himself at home to take care of the children, staying alone in an empty boudoir, and the fact that she still misses her husband.