The hardships and frustrations of life are the best gifts for yourself, and they are also opportunities for experience to nourish and grow.
Feelings are two people's business, in-depth development is two families' business, and so is work. Seeing two people working together is actually a matter for two teams.
Everything is normal, and there are all kinds of people, both positive and negative. Everything has its own likes and dislikes. Think with them and face them calmly.
Children don't listen to us, in fact, they control their own thoughts with their own ideas, and their sense of autonomy is increasing, so that children can have their own ideas and retire slowly. Just like avoiding divination, you can't always go forward and know how to advance and retreat. Escape: escape.
When you are with your child, if you see that the child is already in conflict, you should stop, and so on. I can't be aggressive, just wait and see, and I won't be angry.
The law of change, from bottom to top. Yang Decreasing represents the general agent.
When children grow up, their abilities are gradually improved and they are not afraid of making mistakes. Give them the opportunity to exercise, and their ability will be enhanced during exercise.
Good leaders are idle. The ability of subordinates can be improved. Live in seclusion, retreat for progress. The relationship between a gentleman and a villain. A villain is a narrow-minded person. The villain is in power, avoiding the edge and retreating for the time being. When you retreat, you retreat to find a good opportunity again. The mountain is as high as we can see, but it will never exceed the sky. The more you know how to give in, the stronger your dominance will be.
Children choose their own clothes and shoes, and wise parents guide their children's aesthetic feeling, which corresponds to the weather and germinates independently. Instead of lamenting that the child is disobedient!
The child clearly does this wrong, so bear with it and let her try and make mistakes. Worrying means distrust, controlling thinking and letting go. If the child tries and makes mistakes, he will turn back.
For children, retreat by yourself, improve their independence and give them opportunities.
Let the child solve the problem, even if it is wrong, it also satisfies the child's curiosity. There are also experiences and gains. The next time will be experience.
What you gain from personal experience is better than what your parents say.
The same is true of doing things. Let the children have a try while ensuring safety. In this process, you will find the strength of children's moral ability.
The characteristics of adolescence do everything according to their own ideas, but their abilities can't keep up with their ambitions.
Don't worry, the child will do it. After doing it, she will know that her ability and talent are not enough to match her current thoughts. After doing it, she will willingly accept her parents' suggestions. Parents blindly prevent their children from trying and making mistakes, which leads to conflicts. If the conflict is too big, parents should not give up and let their children love. The sky is high and the clouds are light, but it is not good to say. The overall situation of parents should be adjusted and guided in time. Give children a chance to show off, and then give suggestions and plans after hitting a wall. This is not criticism or cynicism. You see, I have long known that it would be better to help children and really help them grow up.