"Small success is nature, and habit becomes nature", and the education of "educating children to be honest and upright" is the foundation of children's life, marriage, happiness and success.
(A) to cultivate their integrity, morality, integrity and integrity (four virtues)
1, cultivate a pure and kind heart
First of all, teachers should ensure that all children are kind. The external expression of kindness is the correctness and purity of conduct. Therefore, from the perspective of conduct, teachers should cultivate children's pure and kind hearts through words and deeds. Kindness is endless, and so are the virtues and utilitarianism (good behavior and function) produced by kindness. Cultivating children's kindness and kindness is the foundation of cultivating children to be human.
2. Education should have a correct attitude towards people and things.
(1) to people: know the five relations, know how to be filial to parents, love brothers, respect teachers and care for others; Teach the concept of mutual assistance and gregarious, and cultivate a generous mind towards people; Xiao Yu loves Si Qi, and he is kind.
(2) About things: emphasize the importance of "although things are small, don't act rashly"; Seek a way of doing things "don't be busy, it's wrong to be busy"; Pay attention to etiquette, credit, and establish the concept of dignity and trustworthiness; Education "the courage to take responsibility and correct what you have learned" is a kind character; Cultivate the attitude of "facing difficulties and calmly learning how to solve problems"; Teach the ability to judge right and wrong and cultivate the spirit of learning.
(3) Object: Instill daily life must be "frugal with love", but also understand the hardships of material sources and be grateful for the gifts of nature. For example: cultivate kindness and care for small animals and plants; Things should be positioned, respected and cherished, so that they can be used for a long time, always as good as new and easy to use.
3, the constraints of self-behavior
Rong Zhi is peaceful and can't do whatever he wants (there are few children in modern families, and many of them have developed the psychology of arrogance and doing whatever they want since childhood); Pay attention to self-grooming and self-care in the room (such as folding quilts, clothes, tidying desks, washing shoes and socks, and participating in housework); Require courtesy, understand that the mouth is the door to misfortune, and emphasize the importance of words; In terms of diet, light rain is balanced in nutrition and does not have a partial eclipse, which contributes to good health.
(2) Teachers should set an example.
"It is vital qi, nor is it an order; His body is not straight, although he does not obey. " The basic point of setting an example is that teachers should take the lead in demonstrating. For example, how to organize housework, the classification of goods, the placement of books, the placement of schoolbags, the sewing of buttons, the safety of household appliances, the arrangement of time and so on. If teachers can experience with their heart, they can teach students the etiquette and norms of daily life. Therefore, setting an example is the most direct and effective way for teachers to succeed in teaching.
(C) to help students set up their ambitions
"If you have no will, you will accomplish nothing." Anyone who has achieved something must have ambition. When he was young, he could set lofty goals in life and needed the guidance and training of teachers. If we can often introduce the sages of ancient and modern China and foreign countries to our children, we can inspire students' spirit of being diligent and eager to learn with their hard-working deeds and touching experiences. Inspire their infinite potential.
The children educated in this way will not only be brave enough to accept challenges, but also March forward regardless of hardships.
It can be seen that it is also a very important responsibility of teachers to help students establish the direction and goal of life.
(D) Proficient in reading and reciting classic textbooks.
As a teacher who teaches children to read classics, it is very necessary to prepare before class. Don't think that he is a child and doesn't know anything, so he will be hasty in handling things. In particular, parents will pay attention to the observation of teachers' educational level and professionalism. Therefore, self-enrichment is not only necessary, but also a responsibility and obligation. At the same time, in the process of learning and teaching, I am the biggest beneficiary through the interaction between teaching and learning.
(5) Teaching students to implement classical teaching methods.
1, ask students to do
(1) Four meanings: the meaning of mind, body, chair and book.
Require concentration in class, correct seats, correct posture and correct textbooks. This should also be the case at home, because it is easy to lose concentration and reduce the learning effect if the spirit is slack.
(2) Full-spirited reading requires clear articulation, cadence, and not too high a tone.
Full of energy is an effective way to improve learning effect and enhance learning interest. Therefore, teachers should master the classroom atmosphere.
"Every word is heavy and comfortable", and reading aloud and reciting requires clear pronunciation and mellow voice. First of all, you must do it yourself. When talking to your child, you should also observe whether the child's articulation is clear and whether the speech speed is too fast. If we can pay attention to the control of voice and the adjustment of speech speed from an early age, children will speak softly and elegantly in the future.
(3) Daily reading.
It is required to recite a fixed number of times a day, such as ten times, twenty times, thirty times ... If you can accumulate more than one hundred times a week, you can recite it naturally. The more familiar, the better. You can remember it all your life. Moreover, we should always review the classics we have recited, just as The Analects of Confucius said, "Reviewing the past and learning new things can be a teacher." . The more times you recite, the better, because "read a book a hundred times and your meaning will show."
2, explain the truth of life-combined with life.
Although many students are good at reading, their ability to get along with others is poor. They are difficult to face setbacks, timid and narrow-minded. Therefore, teachers should take the initiative to guide students how to implement Disciples Rules in their daily lives. For example, politeness and respect for elders, getting along with classmates, behavior in public places, and cultivating excellent personal morality should all be educated in detail in class. When necessary, the Disciple Rules can be compiled into a script, so that children can perform, watch and learn from each other and understand the truth of being a man.
3. Cooperation-strengthen contact and communication with parents.
Education is not isolated. If parents and teachers can reach a consensus on concepts and cooperate closely in education, it will be very beneficial for children to develop towards the set goals with half the effort. Otherwise, if the teacher makes one request and the parents make another, the children will be at a loss and the educational effect will be greatly reduced.
In addition, regular communication between parents and teachers also helps to find children's problems in time. Family education and school education can achieve good educational results by strengthening supervision over children.
It is particularly important to grasp the "first time" when a student makes a mistake, which is a crucial period for teachers and parents to educate him. Teachers and parents, especially at this moment, should cooperate closely, carefully educate and guide, correct deviations, make up for deficiencies, strengthen their minds and lay the initial foundation for children.
4. How to create a good class atmosphere
Children are easily influenced by the environment. Creating a respectful, studious, polite and positive class atmosphere has a great influence on children. They can grow up healthily in a good environment from point to point and from point to point.
For example, we can use "kindness, speaking well, doing good deeds and being a good person" or "honesty, respect, modesty and harmony" as our class motto. Let the whole class study and practice generally.
At present, there are few children in the family, lack of friendly spirit, strong sense of arrogance and poor ability to get along with others. If they are not educated in time, it will seriously hinder them from establishing good interpersonal relationships. In the classroom, we should pay special attention to cultivating children's spirit of how to live in harmony, unity and friendship, and selflessness and mutual assistance. When he grows up, he can live in harmony with others.
(6) Promoting teachers' teaching exchanges and reading clubs.
Children of different regions, different environments and different ages need different education methods. It is helpful for teachers to learn from each other and master more methods of teaching students in accordance with their aptitude.
There are many ancient books of sages in China. Through reading club, we can broaden our understanding of ancient books. Help to enrich themselves, encourage each other and benefit endlessly.
(7) Looking for teaching material resources.
In addition to classic textbooks, we can't ignore textbooks that other children can easily accept, such as stories and real-life examples.
In teaching, teachers can grasp the main problems of children at this stage through close observation and communication with parents. In order to solve these problems, teachers can use the corresponding stories, examples and other materials to inspire and induce children to understand their own shortcomings, and to stimulate children's internal motivation and belief in learning from role models.
In particular, we have abundant resources in virtue story, such as the stories of eight virtues of "filial piety, loyalty, faithfulness, propriety, righteousness, honesty and shame", and the deeds of sages and great men sung throughout the ages. Always combine your own situation and your own learning progress to explain to your children, so that children can cultivate themselves under good humanistic influence.
Fourth, the beauty of teaching lies in the heart.
Meng Ziyun: "Teaching talents all over the world is fun for life". Education is a century-long project, which affects students' life. If the teacher is fully committed and convinced, it will definitely attract everyone's attention to teaching methods. May we encourage them with five hearts-love, confidence, determination, heart and perseverance.
Verb (abbreviation of verb) conclusion
Life is a road of continuous learning and accumulation. Although the road is long and short, in the process of learning, there are feelings, joys, difficulties and breakthroughs. Through a series of ups and downs, a colorful life path has been achieved. We are leaders in mastering the road and have great responsibilities. Only by studying in a down-to-earth manner, implementing it sincerely and making positive contributions can we really do a good job in educating people.
The distant ancestor of China people (4500 years ago)
How to teach his descendants
China has a long history of 5,000 years. The Chinese nation can last for thousands of years without being eliminated by the world, which is undoubtedly a great force produced by its traditional culture and education. As early as in the Book of Rites, the ancients had an incisive insight: "Governing the country and ensuring the people, teaching comes first. 」
Regrettably, in the past century, due to various reasons, China's traditional culture and education have suffered unprecedented destruction, which urgently requires us to restore and save it on the land of China. Because, after thousands of years of social practice, it has been proved that excellent traditional culture education is indeed a powerful force to maintain social stability and peace, and it is the foundation of the country's prosperity.
In today's material civilization, ancient things do not mean outdated. Because wisdom and truth are eternal. Just like the sun, it is old, but it is new every day. It not only gives human life, but also brings light and hope. The education of ancient sages, like warm sunshine, shines on the world and brings happiness and happiness to mankind.
The traditional education of saints in China can be traced back to 4,500 years ago and passed down from generation to generation. In the era of Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty, Confucianism was formally established as an educational policy. This teaching policy was maintained until the first half of the twentieth century. It was not abolished until 70 years ago. This has always been the dominant and beautiful traditional education. What does it teach us?
Teach us is:
Knowing the running law of nature beyond time and space is called Dao.
Teaching humans how to obey the laws of nature and not violate the boundaries is called morality.
Between people, rich or poor, there are naturally five kinds of relationships:
Father and son-father, kind and filial.
Monarch and minister-between the leader and the led, the monarch and minister respect each other and the minister is loyal to the monarch.
Husband and wife-men and women are different, men are outside the house, women are inside, and husband and wife perform their duties.
Brothers-old and young are orderly, and brothers and sisters are harmonious and friendly.
Friends-people communicate with each other, keep their promises and have morality.
This is Renlun Avenue. People can't live without these five relationships. Understand that following the five principles is the foundation of being a man. If it violates the natural relationship of the five ethics, it is difficult for people to stand on the world; Family discord; Social disorder and moral decay; The country has lost the humanitarian foundation of stability and prosperity.
The natural law of the normal operation of these five relationships is eternal, which is the knowledge that everyone should know to settle down, and it is also a world university that maintains social stability and normality.
The following is the general outline of traditional education in China with the Five Virtues Project as the core. Please let us seriously understand the true wisdom and apply it to teaching practice, so that China's traditional culture and education can regain its brilliance in today's era of seeking social stability and governing the country by virtue.