There are many books about the skills of talking with people. People need communication. When communicating with people, speaking skills and tone are very important. I have compiled books about talking skills for everyone. Let's have a look.
Books related to human speech skills 1 The Art of Speech, by Dale Carnegie.
The version I read is "Carnegie Eloquence Training" published in 2006, which has not been sold in the market.
Dale Carnegie is an American interpersonal expert in the last century, and is regarded as a great spiritual mentor and success master in the 20th century. Time magazine once commented on him: Maybe he is the representative of American spirit except the Statue of Liberty.
I believe that people who are interested in improving interpersonal relationships have read his book "The Weakness of Human Nature" to some extent. I also have this book, but the first book I read about him is another book about speech, language breakthrough, that is, the art of speech in my picture.
Although every publishing society changes the translated name according to the publishing needs, the contents of the book are basically not deleted (of course, some versions will still be deleted, and now I recommend this one to be more comprehensive). If you want to learn eloquence and public speaking, you must read this book.
How to cultivate courage and self-confidence, how to prepare speeches, how to enhance memory, and even how to make your own words more touching and beautiful are all expounded in this book. I learned from this book that reading aloud can improve my expressive ability.
"How can we skillfully use language to achieve emotional harmony, elegance and fluency?" Dale Carnegie gave his answer in the book. This book has a good guiding role in laying a good foundation for your eloquence.
Now every time I review the contents of the book, I will get something. As long as you read this book as carefully as I do, I believe you will learn a lot from it.
Fifteen lectures on eloquence training of Sun Haiyan and Liu Bokui.
I bought the second edition published in 2004. Now I don't know what new content has been added in the third edition.
After reading so many eloquence training books published in China, this "Fifteen Lectures on Eloquence Training" is the most comprehensive and best eloquence book combining theory with practice. This book covers most of the basic skills training needed for eloquence. Although it is not very systematic, it is a hodgepodge, but if you read it patiently, you will certainly gain something.
From this book, you can know what good eloquence looks like and what bad eloquence looks like; How can a boy's eloquence be regarded as attractive and a girl's eloquence as tasteful? These are all introduced in ink.
Of course, there are more in-depth discussions on how to beautify your voice, improve your eloquence thinking and use body language than other eloquence books. These basic skills of eloquence cannot be ignored by beginners. After all, they will affect your first impression on others.
Later books also talk about speeches and debates in detail, such as how to give special lectures and how to improve the level of debate. If you compare it with Carnegie's book recommended by me, your oral English will definitely be greatly improved.
The content of each lecture in the book is different, and the viewpoints and contents are very profound. After reading this book, it is not a problem to keep training according to the methods provided in it and master sharp eloquence.
The impromptu oral training of the host should last forever.
Eloquence Training published in 2004 has been discontinued.
I have always felt that although learning to speak in public can greatly improve my expressive ability, this eloquence is not enough for life.
Because in our daily life, we rarely give a special speech on a certain topic, and there is almost no time for you to collect information, sort out logic and make good preparations. Then at this time, the ability to improvise is a very important ability. This ability allows you to express your opinions around a topic in a short time without long preparation. In order to improve my impromptu ability, I bought the book "Improvised Oral Training for Hosts".
At first, I bought the book "Eloquence Training", which is also the work of the same author. However, it was later found that the author also published the book "Improvised Oral Training for Hosts", which was expanded on the basis of the existing content of the former, so I bought it.
Although this book is aimed at the training provided by the host, but good eloquence, like the host, should not be able to flow freely at any time and place, can Kan Kan talk about it? No matter who this book is written for, as long as you are committed to providing your own eloquence, then it is suitable for you.
This book introduces many training methods to improve impromptu expression, such as combing the fluency of one's own language flow to make one's speech more fluent; Even for how to improve their ability of impromptu comments, impromptu speeches, impromptu response training and impromptu humor, they all have unique opinions. These training methods for hosts are absolutely invincible when applied to ordinary people.
Some examples in the book are inevitably out of date now, but as a reference study, the whole book is definitely a good choice for us to improve our eloquence.
The knack of eloquence-Author: Liu Jianxiang, learn to argue every day-Author: Xie Lunhao, etc.
The knack of eloquence no longer exists.
Debate can be said to be the most useful weapon in dealing with other people's cross-examination among such functions as eloquence. You can't argue When you encounter difficulties and are teased or even ridiculed by others, you may become "speechless" and "at a loss" and the whole thing will be choked to death.
Therefore, learning a little debate skills can not only improve your thinking adaptability, but also help you better deal with various communication problems when getting along with others.
I have read many books about debate, and most of the explanations are very orthodox, as if they were written to let you take part in the debate competition. What a debate, two debates, three debates, various tasks, precautions and so on. It doesn't have much influence on our daily life. After all, life is not a debate. There is no practical need to read these books unless you learn to argue.
The book I recommend is a practical technical debate guide book, which contains various skills to deal with difficulties and tells you how to deal with absurdity and how to deal with a man as he deals with you. The examples in the book are intuitive and easy to understand, which is another form of logic display. It is after reading this book that I have some understanding of debate, and also improved my debating ability and reaction ability in daily life.
But I must say that this book has stopped selling in the market; There are several books related to the debate in this series, and none of them have been sold. There is only one book, which is also in my bookcase, that is, The Complete Works of Argumentation in Everyday Learning, which is helpful for understanding and learning arguments. As for whether it is good or not, people have different opinions.
The charm of Liu Yong's speech.
A volume of books
Before Cai Kangyong wrote The Way of Speaking, his Taiwan Province compatriot Liu Yong had written several books about speaking skills. And this book "The Charm of Speech" is a collection of these books. In my opinion, Liu Yong's book is even better than Cai Kangyong's, and it is still useful.
A long time ago, Liu Yong once opened a special column on Phoenix TV to share his life, speaking skills and feelings with the audience. At that time, I watched this program and observed Liu Yong's speech ability, so I bought his book.
In fact, this book is very instructive to communicate with people in our daily life, because it tells us some situations we will encounter, then tells us how to avoid them, how to speak better, put words in place and so on, and gives good opinions and suggestions.
No matter how good your eloquence is, it will eventually be applied to life. This book is the eloquence of life. Moreover, Liu Yong is also kind-hearted, with some methods to cultivate humor and speaking skills. Although it seems simple to me, it is also an auxiliary reading. Reading more books will certainly help.
If the book I mentioned above belongs to the category of internal work, then this book is a guide to external work and will provide good help to interpersonal relationships. Isn't it a good thing to read one or two short stories before going to bed every day to feel the skills and truth of speaking?
Creating Perfect Eloquence in 60 Days, Huizhi Bookstore.
A new book recently published.
I have read many books about eloquence training, but those books are either too rigid or too theoretical, and I can't find practical ways to help me improve my eloquence.
Of course, I also found some good books later, which made my oral ability gain something. It's just that there are hardly any books I read on the market now. It's really not easy to find a good book that can give people good eloquence.
And this book, "60 days to create perfect eloquence", was accidentally seen when I visited the bookstore before, and I briefly glanced at it. According to my current experience, it can be said that this book provides readers with many good and effective ways to exercise their eloquence.
From the most basic use of breathing, the expression of body language, the adjustment of tone, etc. Tell readers what to do to improve their speaking skills. No matter what kind of occasion you are in, whether it is a school speech, a company meeting or a communication in your life, this book provides corresponding exercise methods.
I can't guarantee that after reading this book, your eloquence will go to a higher level immediately, but as long as you follow some methods in the book, at least it won't be bad. The only obstacle is, can you stick to it or not?
This is the last thing I want to say. No matter how many eloquence books you buy, if you just read and never take the first step to exercise, your eloquence will not improve even if you memorize the contents of the book. I know that many people are satisfied with their current oral English ability. Although they want to improve it, they always feel powerless. In fact, how much effort have you made for your eloquence?
Generally speaking, people with good eloquence, those who admire you greatly, will never know the sweat behind them. If you want to make yourself better, start by improving your eloquence now. One month, two months, three months, spend a little time every day. I believe that you will eventually see a better and stronger self.
Books related to people's speaking skills 2 1, speak and let the whole world listen to you.
Ota Ryushu
Democracy and Construction Press
In fact, charming conversation has nothing to do with cleverness, as long as you practice according to the "example". Through charts and 100 practical examples that can be used in work and life, this book helps you develop confident speech skills that everyone can learn, so that you can quickly seize people's hearts and win everything!
2. "Don't fail because you can't speak."
Deng Hanxi
China Textile and Clothing Publishing House
This book is a practical treasure to improve your eloquence skills. It will teach you how to communicate with strangers smoothly, how to talk with different people on different occasions, how to find each other's interests in a short time, and how to express them more touching. The book specifically analyzes how to say words of praise and encouragement, words of criticism and persuasion, words of euphemistic refusal, words of understanding tolerance and humorous words.
3. "The Way of Speaking that Makes You Popular" Zhang China Railway Publishing House
The author lists all kinds of problems encountered by himself and his friends in interpersonal communication from both internal and external angles, and explains the difficulties in interpersonal communication through various details. Moreover, many phenomena are summed up by personal experience after hitting a wall, and no one will ever take the initiative to teach you or give you advice. The way to make you popular, don't let you not speak and hurt you, is the first life summary that tells you that speaking will also affect your personal life and work.
4. Super persuasive
Lizhuang
Current affairs publishing house
From refusal to acceptance, from resistance to cooperation, from hesitation to firmness, people will listen to you in one minute. Our life is full of a series of persuasion processes to make others understand your point of view, agree with your ideas, do what you want them to do, and so on. It is a skill and a science.
5. Learn humor and eloquence every day
Xiangxing
China Textile and Clothing Publishing House
This book carefully selects nearly 400 humorous cases, reasoning with examples, analyzing in detail, and demonstrating the function and effect of humorous eloquence; This paper introduces hundreds of humorous eloquence tricks and methods to teach you how to deal with difficulties and how to behave and live calmly and confidently. This book opens a window for you to know, use and enjoy humor. If you have nothing to do, just turn over a few pages, or let you be a Zhan Yan to add some happiness to your life; Or let you feel relieved and insert wisdom wings for your eloquence; Or make you "amazing" and read it carefully. No matter whether you dabble or delve into it, there are profound connotations worth learning, learning from or even digging.
Step 6 persuade
Tim Le
haitian publishing house
This book is a simple and effective tutorial extracted from actual combat, which can be used by salespeople for self-study and repeated control exercises. It tries to combine "giving people fish" (an example of a speech) with "giving people fish" (methods and skills) to make salespeople easy to learn, understand and use, and help salespeople quickly improve their sales skills and ability to attack orders.
7. "People like you as soon as you open your mouth."
Wang Li
Enterprise management publishing house
This book expounds the skills and art of speaking, goes deep into all aspects of life, and guides readers to shape popular images through speaking. We will encounter all kinds of problems in our life, and there are many ways to solve them. Being a popular talker will open up a shortcut for yourself.
8. Charm of speech
Courteny
China Federation of Industry and Commerce Press
Speaking is an art, however, people who can't speak are everywhere. Failure in the interview, rejection of sales promotion, failure to convince the boss, resentment of colleagues and deterioration of family relations are all due to the inability to speak. This book will teach you a set of eloquent and bottoming-out speaking methods, which can rationally control sensibility, drive efficiency with utility, lead emotional intelligence with IQ, and improve communication skills quickly and effectively. Let your work and life be balanced!
9. "Talk to anyone"
This book not only has ideas but also teaches practical methods. From dealing with leaders, customers and colleagues, to dealing with family, classmates and friends ... learn to chat, and you can turn everyone into a noble person!
10, "Say it right and it's done."
Zhang
Machinery industry press
"If you say it right, you will do it" focuses on how to speak in different situations: how to chat, how to beg, how to refute, how to speak responsibly, how to praise, how to criticize, how to refuse, etc., so that readers can master appropriate speaking skills and discretion, and those who are not good at words can master certain communication skills to cope with language communication in different situations; Let the eloquent people be more handy in interpersonal communication.